What turns you on more: Her pleasure, or his?

troilusand · Unread post by **troilusand** » Sat Jun 11, 2022 6:33 pm

This question is really just for cucks...or at least identify yourself as a stag in your reply.

For me, of course, when Cressida finally admitted to me that when she accepted my marriage proposal all those decades ago that she knew when she said "Yes" that she would eventually cheat on me because I was so bad in bed, well that thrilled me that she got so much pleasure out of fucking other men and so little from me. Not when I first caught her cheating of course, but after a while, I realized that knowing she was an easy piece of ass before I married her was probably a deep down reason why I proposed to her. This realization eventually led me to ask her to continue with my encouragement.

BUT...my choice is no. 2 because I love that Cressida never had a condom in her because she knew men wanted to fuck her bareback, and she wanted to please them. SO...what I like best is that men used my wife as their cum dump. As much was I like the degradation of myself as sexually inadequate, I like better Cressida's degradation as a cheap whore who'd allow you try to impregnate her...just so she could please you.

Troilus

PANTIES · Unread post by **PANTIES** » Sat Jun 11, 2022 6:52 pm

It’s all about her, if you can’t accept that role then you have no business wanting her to be fucked by other men.

Pauline

knight4princess · Unread post by **knight4princess** » Sat Jun 11, 2022 8:39 pm

I say it's really 50-50 but that means I'm totally turned on by seeing her reactions. And I'm totally turned on by seeing his reactions to her -- validating just how sexy I see her as well. So in a way, it's still all about her.

submissivedanny · Unread post by **submissivedanny** » Sun Jun 12, 2022 1:30 am

My wife's sexual needs are always first. I love hearing her when she has an orgasm. Hearing her BF cum does nothing for me but when my wife starts to orgasm and she screams that turns me on.

rockynook · Unread post by **rockynook** » Sun Jun 12, 2022 2:44 am

PANTIES wrote: ↑
Sat Jun 11, 2022 6:52 pm
It’s all about her, if you can’t accept that role then you have no business want her to be fucked by other men.

Pauline

BRAVO! In this lifestyle it is always,always about her. As slaves and cuckolds,our pleasure is what she decides.
This is the life we chose and must accept it,embrace it,and enjoy it.

CuckTimothy · Unread post by **CuckTimothy** » Sun Jun 12, 2022 4:46 am

I always feel very grateful to our bull for giving my wife so much sexual pleasure, I admire how he is able to maintain a strong full erection for so so long! For me it is just as important to see the man's pleasure as my wife's, he deserves his enjoyment and I love to hear his deep groan noise when he orgasms...so it is 50-50 for me

Chrislydi · Unread post by **Chrislydi** » Sun Jun 12, 2022 5:22 am

No question it's all about her, really I couldn't give a toss about him but if he gets pleasure it's good but only in the fact he'll likely come back to give her more.

Chris

Bent_n_Twisted · Unread post by **Bent_n_Twisted** » Sun Jun 12, 2022 5:39 am

For me it's 50/50. My wife likes to taunt me while I'm caged, infrequently allowed to orgasm and much more rarely allowed to fuck, about being forced to watch while she regularly fucks others who can cum as much as they want. It's an erotic torment to see her being pleasured, and to see others cum while my cock strains in the cage as they get what I can't have, knowing that she will have the additional pleasure of sitting on my face after they are done.

Cdncuck · Unread post by **Cdncuck** » Sun Jun 12, 2022 5:48 am

For me, it's always about my wife's pleasure. The other men are bit players. It's her movie and she's the star. Her pleasure, her orgasms are everything. One of the best parts for me is when she gets so into the cock inside her she becomes oblivious to my presence.

Shadnaster · Unread post by **Shadnaster** » Sun Jun 12, 2022 6:55 am

What a great poll. I really had to think about it. First hearing her moan and cum is a huge turn on for me but, hearing a guy groan and drive in deep as he cums is a turn on too. Knowing how good it feels for him. Knowing he's filling my wife. Mmmmm

Luv It · Unread post by **Luv It** » Sun Jun 12, 2022 7:07 am

Early on, I have always wanted my wife (originally a live in GF) and the guys fucking her to get equal pleasure from each other.
I wanted them to give each other the most sexual pleasure possible. This is particularly true for any given steady BF.
I wanted them to fuck like any GF/ BF highly sexually charged couple would ...and bond ever closer with each fuck.

BTW, is that not what a lot of men here like?
Why else do we help her prepare her for a date... insuring the she is as pretty and as sexy as possible for her date with a BF....
Why else would we want them to spend the night etc together fucking .....

I would always tell my wife, half in jest, that I want her date/steady BF to get an erection the moment her sees her....even if dressed classy like for a dinner/dancing date.

Domingo-ITA · Unread post by **Domingo-ITA** » Sun Jun 12, 2022 8:43 am

For me it’s all about her.
This doesn’t mean I don’t care of him, I do want him to have his pleasure and I do want him to strongly desire to fuck my SO. But what turns me on is her pleasure. She does love a man gets a hardon for her, so I love that as well.

Des 31 · Unread post by **Des 31** » Sun Jun 12, 2022 3:53 pm

Domingo-ITA wrote: ↑
Sun Jun 12, 2022 8:43 am
For me it’s all about her.
This doesn’t mean I don’t care of him, I do want him to have his pleasure and I do want him to strongly desire to fuck my SO. But what turns me on is her pleasure. She does love a man gets a hardon for her, so I love that as well.

That's how my wife and I consider this also. I tell her I get as much out of others fucking her as she does, but my comments usually get a grin or laugh and a comment like, "I don't think that's really possible."

~ Des

Flirty Skirty · Unread post by **Flirty Skirty** » Mon Jun 13, 2022 11:48 am

Interesting question. I think I sometimes move back and forth with this. But ultimately, I would have to say that knowing that the Bull is experiencing pleasure turns me on more. I think more in terms of what can I do to help the Bull achieve a more pleasurable orgasm and increase his excitement when cuckolding me.

Wooster · Unread post by **Wooster** » Mon Jun 13, 2022 1:53 pm

I checked “I hadn’t thought about this before” because it literally never occurred to me to care about her boyfriend’s pleasure. His pleasure is her concern, not mine.

Chrislydi · Unread post by **Chrislydi** » Mon Jun 13, 2022 10:25 pm

Wooster wrote: ↑
Mon Jun 13, 2022 1:53 pm
I checked “I hadn’t thought about this before” because it literally never occurred to me to care about her boyfriend’s pleasure. His pleasure is her concern, not mine.

That's a great way of putting it Wooster, exactly this, as if she is really enjoying it and desperately wants him coming back for repeats, she'll want him to enjoy it to the max too.

Chris

Luv It · Unread post by **Luv It** » Tue Jun 14, 2022 6:36 pm

Consider that if a BF really enjoys fucking your wife... they will then naturally give your wife get a much better fuck.
This is why I said....... " I wanted them to give each other the most sexual pleasure possible:"

Chrislydi · Unread post by **Chrislydi** » Tue Jun 14, 2022 8:50 pm

Luv It wrote: ↑
Tue Jun 14, 2022 6:36 pm
Consider that if a BF really enjoys fucking your wife... they will then naturally give your wife get a much better fuck.
This is why I said....... " I wanted them to give each other the most sexual pleasure possible:"

Love the footnote (signature bit), phoning from Chicago lol - where did Rodney live? - it would be even funnier if he was English and in London or something like that.

Chris

Luv It · Unread post by **Luv It** » Tue Jun 14, 2022 9:26 pm

I believe he was living in Manhattan, NY when he said that.

He was born "Jacob Rodney Cohen"
I believe he took the name "Rodney Dangerfield" because the name actuality had been used as a faux (comical) cowboy star by Jack Benny on his radio program in the early 1940s.

BTW do you remember what movie he was in when his bad character was murdered at the beginning of the movie?

Chrislydi · Unread post by **Chrislydi** » Tue Jun 14, 2022 10:59 pm

Luv It wrote: ↑
Tue Jun 14, 2022 9:26 pm
I believe he was living in Manhattan, NY when he said that.

He was born "Jacob Rodney Cohen"
I believe he took the name "Rodney Dangerfield" because the name actuality had been used as a faux (comical) cowboy star by Jack Benny on his radio program in the early 1940s.

BTW do you remember what movie he was in when his bad character was murdered at the beginning of the movie?

No idea, looked up wiki, maybe one of these...

He appeared in a few bit parts in films, such as The Projectionist, throughout the 1970s, but his breakout film role came in 1980 as a boorish nouveau riche golfer in the ensemble comedy Caddyshack, which was followed by two additional successful films in which he starred: 1983's Easy Money and 1986's Back to School. Additional film work kept him busy through the rest of his life, mostly in comedies, but with a rare dramatic role in 1994's Natural Born Killers as an abusive father. Health troubles curtailed his output through the early 2000s before his death in 2004, following a month in a coma due to complications from heart valve surgery.

Luv It · Unread post by **Luv It** » Wed Jun 15, 2022 6:01 am

Yeah it was "Natural Born killers" where he indeed plays a very abusive, despicable father.

warmnsalty · Unread post by **warmnsalty** » Thu Jun 16, 2022 3:21 am

50/50 for me, like others I'd never given it any thought, my gut reaction was hers. But as I thought about it, I realized it's as important that the other guy gets off. We play bare, I LOVE watching a guy pump his seed into Mrs, I clean her up and he goes again. So his pleasure is as important as hers, their combined pleasure gives me my pleasure.

desertsub · Unread post by **desertsub** » Mon Jun 20, 2022 10:13 am

For me, it's all about my wife's pleasure. I love seeing her experience better orgasms than I have ever given her.

PANTIES · Unread post by **PANTIES** » Mon Jun 20, 2022 10:18 am

It’s always about her getting what I’m not able to sexually provided. Do I have a problem with this, absolutely no.

Pauline

troilusand · Unread post by **troilusand** » Sun Jun 26, 2022 4:02 pm

Hmmm, these are results of my poll are kind of surprising to me. Currently: ~60, ~10, ~25, ~5.

I knew #1 would be ahead, but not by a landslide.

What always tickled my cuckold funnybone was the knowledge that other men were getting one over on ME. Maybe it's because Cressida and I were never into the "hotwife humiliate the cuck" scene that I get what I get from being cuckolded by imagining what her lover thinks about the both of us.

I don't know about the rest of you, but my life is about my pleasure NOT my wife's nor, obviously, anyone else's. My pleasure is certainly enhanced by her grabbing sexual pleasure from men better in bed than me, but again, it's about MY pleasure...and that is doubled by men either: falling in love with her; or, using her (a married woman) as a their cum dump. But their feelings about the affair means a little more to me than my slut's. Not by a lot, but a little.

Hell, I just wish she was still active...ah, well....

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