wife interested in other guy

[Chrislydi]

Keeps on getting better for all three of you, long msy it continue.

Chris

[gordon921]

How's it going Bi, hope all is well....

[Bi+Gigh]

So I talked to G about how some of the humiliation I was feeling from what Conor was telling me to do was kind of hot. I asked her if she would lose respect for me or think less of me because of it. She gave me that evil smile I know so well and told me that I should do what “makes your man happy.” I shouldn’t have expected anything different from her. She’s an incredible sexual person.
Conor came over last night. I was expecting it to be their night together so I was just letting them do their thing. They were on the sofa together, making out, groping each other and losing their clothes eventually getting completely naked. It was one of those jealous and angst filled moments when another man is doing what he wants with your wife. I started to leave but Conor said to stay in the room, then rolled on his back and asked G for a blow job, obviously asserting himself as the alpha. After a few minutes of G sucking him, he looked at me and said why don’t you come over here and get “in on this” and suggested/told me to get naked. Before I got to him, Conor wanted to move to the bedroom.
So he lays down, G lays next to him and I crawl between his legs and start sucking his dick. So they’re up there talking and making out, saying how good my blow jobs are when Conor starts with the orders (lick my balls, eat my ass, etc.). Of course I do what he says, getting humiliated in front of my wife but loving it, when G asked him when he was going to “fuck your boyfriend? Conor said I’m not his boyfriend just a fuck buddy. So G said what good is a fuck buddy if you don’t fuck. So, G was convincing him to do it, I practically begged him to, and I told him he could stop at any time if he didn’t like it. G told him he could go as hard as he wanted that I could take it. He finally agreed but said it had to be doggy cause he didn’t want to see my face. He got it in easily enough and I could tell almost instantly that he liked it. He was pounding away, I was feeling amazing, and he said he could close his eyes and “this could be a pussy.” After a bit he turns me over and we’re doing it missionary style, he’s still slamming away, his sweat is dripping onto me, and he kept saying “fuck.” G was masturbating the whole time, telling Conor to go harder and asking me how it felt a bunch of times. Finally he announced that he was gonna cum and he unloaded in me. He collapsed between me and G and said “holy fuck.” That was all he could say for a few minutes so G and I were talking, mostly about how good it feels having him inside you. Conor was finally able to talk again, admitting that it was “a pretty good fuck.” I said it was an awesome fuck. After a bit, he said needed to take a quick shower. So G and I were laying there naked, making out and playing with each other. I so wanted to fuck her but we have an agreement that on their nights together, I don’t interfere unless invited. And Conor wasn’t even in the room so I said to G it was time for me to leave. I hear him go back in the room and after a while I hear the sounds of him fucking G. It was a pretty good night, especially for Conor.

[Chrislydi]

Love the way this all seems to be working out for all three of you BG, the perfect combination with everyone enjoying it.

Chris

[Bi+Gigh]

Love the way this all seems to be working out for all three of you BG, the perfect combination with everyone enjoying it.

Chris

Hi Chris,
Thanks for the note. Yes, I agree, it's working out well. I even, caught up in the moment I guess, told Conor he can't move anywhere and he needs to stay here.
And I haven't been able to talk to G yet today to see what she thought of last night. I'm assuming she was into it. It sure sounded that way.

[Bi+Gigh]

How's it going Bi, hope all is well....

Hey Gordon, thanks for the note.
Seems like things are going well. Especially last night. Hopefully it keeps moving this way.

[Des 31]

Affairs between co-workers in my experience are notoriously difficult to keep secret, no matter how many precautions are taken.

I've worked in a large UK banking centre for around twenty years now and in my time there I've have definitely known of nine or ten between a departmental heads and junior staff myself, (the place does have a few hundred employees), but it wasn't just me who knew in each case, but almost everyone in their department and others outside of it too. There is body language, signals, people aren't stupid and soon suspect and perhaps even unconsciously watch whenever the two are in close proximity. Enough people are naturally inquisitive and word gets around.

All of this can be just office rumours and talk, easily brushed aside, but beware anytime promotion is involved, they're undermined straight away and if not up to the new position, everyone assumes they've been sleeping around again. The problem is once you get a reputation amongst work colleagues it sticks, you get called nicknames, there are constant snide comments and you can lose respect workwise too, people can think you shouldn't have been promoted, seriously undermine you and make the position untenable, no matter how much you do or don't deserve it.

It can be a recipe for disaster unless you can seriously act indifferently to the other colleague in work and never ever be seen in a compromising position by anyone outside of it. Obviously a boss having an affair with a more junior person is the most notoriously risky, between unconnected colleagues its far less so and no problems. There are so many social functions that complete avoidance can be a hard stipulation to follow.

My wife is a banker who has been in sexual relationships for more than three years with her immediate boss and a young accountant, each of who work at the same bank. It takes a lot of caution to keep the relationships unknown to other employees and from each of the guys she's fucking.

She has a joke - "Having an affair with another bank employee is risky. Because there's always a teller."

~ Des

[Chrislydi]

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My wife is a banker who has been in sexual relationships for more than three years with her immediate boss and a young accountant, each of who work at the same bank. It takes a lot of caution to keep the relationships unknown to other employees and from each of the guys she's fucking.

She has a joke - "Having an affair with another bank employee is risky. Because there's always a teller."

~ Des

[4herpleasure89]

Before we starting doing the hot wife thing, KK cheated. Many, many times, from one-night, drunken fuck-fests to longer term affairs. She traveled (still does) on business frequently. In the years before the hot wifing started, KK never denied herself a guy she was attracted to. I know now from her many confessions that she fucked and sucked numerous guys when on business travel.

Now that the hot wife thing's going, when she's on a business trip, KK pretty much gets herself fucked every time - then she tells me about every dirty, hot detail when she gets back home.

This is a good example of successfully turning a cheating wife into a Hotwife and having a successful marriage as well. It seems perfect for kk, the only thing she had to change is telling you about her fun.

[Bi+Gigh]

So I came to the family beach house for the weekend. My little brother’s girlfriend broke up with him so he came here. I didn’t want him to be alone so I decided to hang out with him for the weekend. Other than G, he’s my best friend.
But G called me last night. Her and Conor decided at the last minute to go to a waterpark resort for the weekend. I don’t know why it’s bothering me so much. Part of it is she wears her wedding rings and people will think Conor is her husband. I don’t like that. I fully accept the fact that they’re in a relationship and are entitled to go away together. But for whatever reason, the angst and jealousy are at an all time high.
I came here to console my brother but I need it now. I tell him everything except about our lifestyle and open marriage so he can’t help. Things were going really well but this is a kick in the balls. And I don’t know why it’s bothering me so much. Anyway, just venting.

[Chrislydi]

So I came to the family beach house for the weekend. My little brother’s girlfriend broke up with him so he came here. I didn’t want him to be alone so I decided to hang out with him for the weekend. Other than G, he’s my best friend.
But G called me last night. Her and Conor decided at the last minute to go to a waterpark resort for the weekend. I don’t know why it’s bothering me so much. Part of it is she wears her wedding rings and people will think Conor is her husband. I don’t like that. I fully accept the fact that they’re in a relationship and are entitled to go away together. But for whatever reason, the angst and jealousy are at an all time high.
I came here to console my brother but I need it now. I tell him everything except about our lifestyle and open marriage so he can’t help. Things were going really well but this is a kick in the balls. And I don’t know why it’s bothering me so much. Anyway, just venting.

No worries BG this is a decent place to vent and express your feelings, I would say keep your eye on the big picture rather than just a single event that's struck a chord and brought on the angst, it's all going well and there's nothing essentially happened that changes that.

Chris

[nekkedoutdoors]

So I came to the family beach house for the weekend. My little brother’s girlfriend broke up with him so he came here. I didn’t want him to be alone so I decided to hang out with him for the weekend. Other than G, he’s my best friend.
But G called me last night. Her and Conor decided at the last minute to go to a waterpark resort for the weekend. I don’t know why it’s bothering me so much. Part of it is she wears her wedding rings and people will think Conor is her husband. I don’t like that. I fully accept the fact that they’re in a relationship and are entitled to go away together. But for whatever reason, the angst and jealousy are at an all time high.
I came here to console my brother but I need it now. I tell him everything except about our lifestyle and open marriage so he can’t help. Things were going really well but this is a kick in the balls. And I don’t know why it’s bothering me so much. Anyway, just venting.

It's bothering you so much because you weren't consulted prior. You were excluded and told what is happening after developing the feeling that you are integral part of their union. And you are, but you have gone out of your way to insist that the two of them have and spend time alone together creating the belief between G and Conor that you are ok with them taking off for an intimate weekend without you.

Once home with G you need to talk to her and let her know how this is effecting you. I'm certain she'll be remorseful and rectify any decisions like this in the future to include you.

[Bi+Gigh]

So I came to the family beach house for the weekend. My little brother’s girlfriend broke up with him so he came here. I didn’t want him to be alone so I decided to hang out with him for the weekend. Other than G, he’s my best friend.
But G called me last night. Her and Conor decided at the last minute to go to a waterpark resort for the weekend. I don’t know why it’s bothering me so much. Part of it is she wears her wedding rings and people will think Conor is her husband. I don’t like that. I fully accept the fact that they’re in a relationship and are entitled to go away together. But for whatever reason, the angst and jealousy are at an all time high.
I came here to console my brother but I need it now. I tell him everything except about our lifestyle and open marriage so he can’t help. Things were going really well but this is a kick in the balls. And I don’t know why it’s bothering me so much. Anyway, just venting.

No worries BG this is a decent place to vent and express your feelings, I would say keep your eye on the big picture rather than just a single event that's struck a chord and brought on the angst, it's all going well and there's nothing essentially happened that changes that.

Chris

Your right, I'm sure. Just have to get passed these feelings and get a chance to talk to G, and Conor too, I guess.

[Bi+Gigh]

So I came to the family beach house for the weekend. My little brother’s girlfriend broke up with him so he came here. I didn’t want him to be alone so I decided to hang out with him for the weekend. Other than G, he’s my best friend.
But G called me last night. Her and Conor decided at the last minute to go to a waterpark resort for the weekend. I don’t know why it’s bothering me so much. Part of it is she wears her wedding rings and people will think Conor is her husband. I don’t like that. I fully accept the fact that they’re in a relationship and are entitled to go away together. But for whatever reason, the angst and jealousy are at an all time high.
I came here to console my brother but I need it now. I tell him everything except about our lifestyle and open marriage so he can’t help. Things were going really well but this is a kick in the balls. And I don’t know why it’s bothering me so much. Anyway, just venting.

It's bothering you so much because you weren't consulted prior. You were excluded and told what is happening after developing the feeling that you are integral part of their union. And you are, but you have gone out of your way to insist that the two of them have and spend time alone together creating the belief between G and Conor that you are ok with them taking off for an intimate weekend without you.

Once home with G you need to talk to her and let her know how this is effecting you. I'm certain she'll be remorseful and rectify any decisions like this in the future to include you.

I think you're probably spot on. Maybe I thought I should be a part of it. That would be defeating the purpose of her having a boyfriend, tho, if I had to be there all the time. I'm getting better with it but still have some lingering negative feelings that I need to get out with them.

[nekkedoutdoors]

I think you're probably spot on. Maybe I thought I should be a part of it. That would be defeating the purpose of her having a boyfriend, tho, if I had to be there all the time. I'm getting better with it but still have some lingering negative feelings that I need to get out with them.

G can have a boyfriend and still consult with you and your feelings. You two are life partners after all.

[gordon921]

Hi Bi,

if what they decided bugs you, then you need to have a talk with G. From what you've posted the 2 of you have a solid relationship, so I don't think she will be offended and I suspect she'll just say sorry babe didn't realise it would upset you, will discuss with you in future. I'm sure you would expect the same from her if you and C did something off the cuff and it bugged her.
Remember the two of you are married and have allowed C in to your relationship as a guest.
I'm not sure how to articulate this yet, but in the back of my mind I have this feeling that what has developed between you, G & C, needs careful monitoring by you & G, as you said earlier. The three of you are in a true triangle and something just niggles me, you and G need to communicate, communicate, communicate and be observant, especially since you are submissive to C, not sure if you are to G as well, not sure if you've written about that. C is the common denominator and the two of you need some alone time to check and talk everything over. Hopefully I'm making some sense as I said not sure how to articulate it yet, but have this woodpecker pecking away, saying be vigilant.
Hope you and your bro are having a good time or as best can be.

[Bi+Gigh]

Hi Bi,

if what they decided bugs you, then you need to have a talk with G. From what you've posted the 2 of you have a solid relationship, so I don't think she will be offended and I suspect she'll just say sorry babe didn't realise it would upset you, will discuss with you in future. I'm sure you would expect the same from her if you and C did something off the cuff and it bugged her.
Remember the two of you are married and have allowed C in to your relationship as a guest.
I'm not sure how to articulate this yet, but in the back of my mind I have this feeling that what has developed between you, G & C, needs careful monitoring by you & G, as you said earlier. The three of you are in a true triangle and something just niggles me, you and G need to communicate, communicate, communicate and be observant, especially since you are submissive to C, not sure if you are to G as well, not sure if you've written about that. C is the common denominator and the two of you need some alone time to check and talk everything over. Hopefully I'm making some sense as I said not sure how to articulate it yet, but have this woodpecker pecking away, saying be vigilant.
Hope you and your bro are having a good time or as best can be.

Yes, Gordon, I have talked to them. I actually feel kind of like an ass. They both apologized tho they didn't need to. It was all pretty innocent. It was a last minute decision since it was going to be a really hot weekend and they didn't want to be stuck in the city so they came up with the waterpark idea. I definitely overreacted and apologized to both of them. The good news is Conor said we'd make up for it when they got back. Hmmmm, I might look forward to that lol.
As for my brother and I, it would be hard not to have a good time together. I just love the kid. I think he's more hurt by being rejected than by losing the gf. We didn't really like her anyway. And he can do far better.
And definitely submissive to Conor but not to G. I don't think she's into that.
And I'd definitely be interested in knowing what "niggles" you.

[Chrislydi]

Great to read BG, i know we don't get the full picture on here, but it just seemed everything was going too well for this to be anything but a little poor communication through last minute change of plans and circumstances than any real malicious intent. Good to hear it's all cleared up now and you're all in happy valley again.

Chris

[Christinebitg]

Her and Conor decided at the last minute to go to a waterpark resort for the weekend. I don’t know why it’s bothering me so much. Part of it is she wears her wedding rings and people will think Conor is her husband. I don’t like that. I fully accept the fact that they’re in a relationship and are entitled to go away together. But for whatever reason, the angst and jealousy are at an all time high.

Everybody needs to vent sometimes. It's okay.

I've read the rest of the messages in this thread. My sense is that it's the public aspect of their relationship that bothers you. I guess, since you're fine with whatever they do behind closed doors.

[Bi+Gigh]

Her and Conor decided at the last minute to go to a waterpark resort for the weekend. I don’t know why it’s bothering me so much. Part of it is she wears her wedding rings and people will think Conor is her husband. I don’t like that. I fully accept the fact that they’re in a relationship and are entitled to go away together. But for whatever reason, the angst and jealousy are at an all time high.

Everybody needs to vent sometimes. It's okay.

I've read the rest of the messages in this thread. My sense is that it's the public aspect of their relationship that bothers you. I guess, since you're fine with whatever they do behind closed doors.

Yes, I'm absolutely fine with what they do in bed together. I know Conor makes her very happy there. And now that I've done some things with him I have an idea of what sex with him is like.
But I think you're right about the public aspect of it. I think I'm either possessive of her as being MY wife or threatened by the fact that others see Conor as her husband. Can't exactly put my finger on it but I'd like to get over it. It's not healthy, I know.

[Bi+Gigh]

So sorry if I’m posting too much. Someone let me know if I am.
But my brother is now aware of our lifestyle. He said he was going for a run last night and as soon as he left I called and talked to G and Conor. I was sitting on our deck outside but didn’t know he was underneath the deck stretching for his run. He never went for his run. He came up to the deck and asked what’s going on and who is Conor? My stomach sank.
So I told him everything, even going back to my college roommate and how G loved watching me give him bjs and how they started having sex. And how the same thing is pretty much happening with Conor.
He was pretty shocked but wasn’t being judgmental, as I expected he wouldn' be. Naturally, he had tons of questions. But the more vodka we drank, the more he thought about the possibilities.
A while back, I wrote about a mutual friend G and I have, and that she said she wanted to rip his clothes off and get him in bed. I said I’d arrange it for her if she really wanted it. She was talking about my brother. She’s been wanting to get into his pants forever but we haven’t been ready to disclose our open marriage. That doesn’t matter anymore and I know he’d love the chance to be with G.
I have no idea how G would feel about that right now with Conor in the picture. If he wasn’t around, my brother and G would be fucking tonight.

[Chrislydi]

That's an interesting twist - G and your brother getting it on maybe sometime in the future, looks as if he's pretty understanding and you've got a great brotherly relationship with him, that must have been a bit of a shock though when you realised he'd overheard.

Chris

[Bi+Gigh]

That's an interesting twist - G and your brother getting it on maybe sometime in the future, looks as if he's pretty understanding and you've got a great brotherly relationship with him, that must have been a bit of a shock though when you realised he'd overheard.

Chris

It was one of those times where you wish you could go back and do something differently. But on the other hand, he's my best friend, we've told each other everything always, so I'm kinda glad I'm not holding anything from him anymore. But I've also decided that I'm not going to tell G that my brother knows. The temptation would be too great for her and she'd get them in bed in no time. I'll get it to happen at some point (I already told him I have to watch and he said fine) but we have a good thing going with Conor, we both really like him, and there's just no point to fuck that up.

[Bi+Gigh]

So G and Conor got back today. G needed a shower so I was talking to Conor as we stood in my kitchen (as he rummaged through our fridge). Don't know why but I asked him how the sex was. He came over to me, put our foreheads together with an arm on my shoulder, and said not as good as our sex babe lol (obviously fucking with me). With his other hand he grabbed my hand and put it on his crotch and said he saved a load for me and asked me if I wanted it. Like I was gonna say no? He put pressure on my shoulders to kneel. I asked him if they fucked today and he said you'll taste some of G on it. Actually I didn't taste anything except for maybe chlorine. So, he's getting to know what buttons to push on me.

[mundyman]

How does like kissing you with the taste of Conor’s cum on your breath?
Did she know you blew him when she got done with her shower, or did she walk in on you.