Well said, eater. They seem like a nice young couple that's doing a little exploring. I hope she doesn't get "weirded out " here.eater wrote: ↑Fri Sep 30, 2022 8:39 amAmie your husband seems to understand that you should only do what is comfortable and appealing to you. Please take all of the respondents opinions with a grain of salt and with your desires in mind. the important opinions are yours and your husbands. try not to let some poster's fantasies about you be upsetting.
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Hi, others have mentioned that you should join the ladies lounge and become verified, I 1000 percent recommend you do this, the support you will receive is likely invaluable.AmieLee wrote: ↑Thu Sep 29, 2022 4:54 pmhi
Ok this getting a little weird. I was looking for advice and stuff but yeah some people are getting strange. I wanted to be able to share and get real advice but now people are suggesting I do kind of crazy stuff that I don't think would be healthy for my marriage. That's not what I'm looking for and its making me feel sad. Anyway maybe will check back later.
The open forums are great to learn, now that you are past your first ( congratulations), learn from the ladies here.
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Amie.. I think most of us here have your best interest at heart and just want you and your husband to be happy. Please feel free to disregard any advice from people that you know is either creepy or self-serving on some people's parts.
Personally I think it's a lot more fun when people do new things because they want to do them not because they think they have to...
In the early days of our own journey I would help my wife set up dates because she was just getting started but after a while when she started to set up her own that was joyful.
Personally I think it's a lot more fun when people do new things because they want to do them not because they think they have to...
In the early days of our own journey I would help my wife set up dates because she was just getting started but after a while when she started to set up her own that was joyful.
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Hi :-)
Ty everyone for being so nice! I'm seeing now that even when people suggest things that I might seem are a bit strange that there really isn't any bad intent and it is a good thing to get different opinions! This has just been a new experience for me and hubby so I guess takes a little getting used to in a way.
Tom did come over and I did wear my new outfit and lingerie. I could tell he really liked! He's so enthusiastic and we ended up doing it three times again! It was so exciting when I texted hubby after and he came home and he actually said "show me the instant replay." We both laughed so hard when he said that and then when I did it was great :-) Hubby and me are doing it a lot more now than before and i love it! Ty again everyone!
Ty everyone for being so nice! I'm seeing now that even when people suggest things that I might seem are a bit strange that there really isn't any bad intent and it is a good thing to get different opinions! This has just been a new experience for me and hubby so I guess takes a little getting used to in a way.
Tom did come over and I did wear my new outfit and lingerie. I could tell he really liked! He's so enthusiastic and we ended up doing it three times again! It was so exciting when I texted hubby after and he came home and he actually said "show me the instant replay." We both laughed so hard when he said that and then when I did it was great :-) Hubby and me are doing it a lot more now than before and i love it! Ty again everyone!
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Does your husband know about and read the post here. Lots of info here he might enjoy and help him process what he is going through.
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Hi-)
Hubby and me talked more and he said he is so happy that I'm having fun with Tom. I mentioned that he brought up Will. I told hubby I would feel bad if we went in that direction and he didn't seem interested.Hubby said he's sure he is and I have seen him looking at me so I said ok and we're going to have dinner (which means I'm making it but that's ok ) and then play some board games tomorrow. I told hubby i'm not sure want to do more than that and he said it's up to me so I don't know I guess will see!
Hubby and me talked more and he said he is so happy that I'm having fun with Tom. I mentioned that he brought up Will. I told hubby I would feel bad if we went in that direction and he didn't seem interested.Hubby said he's sure he is and I have seen him looking at me so I said ok and we're going to have dinner (which means I'm making it but that's ok ) and then play some board games tomorrow. I told hubby i'm not sure want to do more than that and he said it's up to me so I don't know I guess will see!
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Amie, Just take it at your pace and comfort level and see where it goes. One suggestion is, don't do anything that you feel uncomfortable with. Hubby will understand. If you do something that you will regret later, you might have bad feelings toward hubby. Both of you don't want anything like that between your relationship.
I have a feeling that hubby wants to see you in action and will probably really enjoy that if it happens. Most of us here consider that to be one of the most exciting things in the world. The question is simply what do you want.
I have a feeling that hubby wants to see you in action and will probably really enjoy that if it happens. Most of us here consider that to be one of the most exciting things in the world. The question is simply what do you want.
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What will you be wearing?
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so you brought will up with your husband ?? ooohh amie, this is exciting !!!
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farmerJ
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Do what feels right to Amie and your husband, Proceed at your pace. have fun. No pressure to perform for anyone. Amie is in charge
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really looking forward to an update! hope you had fun!
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Hi :-)
We had a nice time! Nothing too much really happened it was more like breaking the ice kind of but it was fun and I do feel comfortable with Will. I wore a low cut hot pink belly shirt and a short black skirt and Will really noticed (so did hubby!) We had a nice dinner and talked and played some games and I really enjoyed how I would catch one or both of them staring at me from time to time :-) At the end of the evening I gave Will a nice hug as he was leaving and told him I hoped he come over again soon. He said he would like that! After Will left hubby said he could tell Will really like me and I said I think so too! Then I said "show me what you think he wants" and hubby took me to the bed room and he showed me lol! It was hot!
We had a nice time! Nothing too much really happened it was more like breaking the ice kind of but it was fun and I do feel comfortable with Will. I wore a low cut hot pink belly shirt and a short black skirt and Will really noticed (so did hubby!) We had a nice dinner and talked and played some games and I really enjoyed how I would catch one or both of them staring at me from time to time :-) At the end of the evening I gave Will a nice hug as he was leaving and told him I hoped he come over again soon. He said he would like that! After Will left hubby said he could tell Will really like me and I said I think so too! Then I said "show me what you think he wants" and hubby took me to the bed room and he showed me lol! It was hot!
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Fantastic!
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Take a breath for a minute in a quiet moment and really think about what you want out of this journey. There are a lot of comments about what these other men and your husband want. (Nothing wrong with that) 
See if you can answer these questions for yourself:
Why does AmieLee want to be a hotwife?
What does she want to have happen?
If you want to talk you can send me a PM
See if you can answer these questions for yourself:
Why does AmieLee want to be a hotwife?
What does she want to have happen?
If you want to talk you can send me a PM
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AmieLee, when do we get to see your sexy self?
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Hi Amie, Sounds like a hot evening with Will and Hubby drooling over you. I'm sure you are so cute in the pink top and black skirt that they couldn't stop wanting to take them off.
When hubby took you in the room to "show you what Will would want" what did hubby show you? What was his thoughts on what Will wanted?
It's so nice that you can share these experiences with hubby. He is a really lucky guy too!
When hubby took you in the room to "show you what Will would want" what did hubby show you? What was his thoughts on what Will wanted?
It's so nice that you can share these experiences with hubby. He is a really lucky guy too!
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Awsome advice 2up...you tha girl!
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AmieLee you are progressing indeed very well as a very HOT hotwife... but if you asked all your followers "show me what you want" on this forum... they would all show you what hubby did for you... this is such a natural reaction for guys who love all hotwives! So I guess you have to ask yourself how busy you want to be in embracing this lifestyle ... and answer the 2 questions raised by "2inUPMichigan" above.
All the best... there is no rush... take your time...
Love your enthusiasm but being cautious is a virtue not often embraced.
All the best... there is no rush... take your time...
Love your enthusiasm but being cautious is a virtue not often embraced.
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No jealousy! Super young guy is 100% comfortable with having sex with a married woman and doesn't think it's weird and is super responsive and sees her all the time! Husband has had zero jealousy issues even though they just started in the lifestyle! Wife keeps moving forward regardless of what time of month it is. What a great story!
You should really get verified so you can get good advice from all the experienced hotwives as this journey will not always be as easy as it has been so far.
You should really get verified so you can get good advice from all the experienced hotwives as this journey will not always be as easy as it has been so far.
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3 weeks into the journey and connecting with guy #2. Impressive.
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I wonder if Tom came over yesterday.
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Amie,
It sounds like you and your hubby are really enjoying the way things are progressing, and I'm happy for you guys. I also wanted to mention that it's nice to see that you've grown in the way you respond to some of the replies you've received along the way. You are definitely going to be getting messages that you might find helpful (most people on here love the stories and are willing to help), but there are different ways they think they're helping. Some may send you some polite cautionary thoughts, which are good because they simply want to make sure that you're reflecting on what your doing, and that no one is getting hurt along the way. Others think they're helping by giving you more ideas on things you can do, and how to do it, and how many guys you can do it with. Keep in mind that some of those people are just here to read kinky stories and get off on them, which is okay too, but you don't have to appease them, they'll find their kinks one way or another, so feel free to ignore them for now and move on. However, some of the people who are sharing their "creepy" ideas or wild sexual adventures that they want to see/hear you do, are actually things they've done and enjoyed themselves.
I have a friend who loves to go to our local nude beach in the mornings to give blow jobs before work, and then stop by there again late in the afternoon to find some guy to let him fuck her in his car. To some, that sounds kinky and fun, and to others it just sounds crazy. I'm not going to judge her, or anyone on here for how they live their sexual lives. Again, I'm glad to hear that you are more easily able to pass over the messages that don't suit you as you work your way through this.
Btw, you might even find that some of the crazier things end up being your favorite things to do as you two progress through this.
Keep enjoying yourself, don't hurt yourself or others, and have lots of fun, and please keep sharing. Your story of growth and sexual freedom and new identity is very appealing to 99% of your readers, and I for one would like to thank you for it.
It sounds like you and your hubby are really enjoying the way things are progressing, and I'm happy for you guys. I also wanted to mention that it's nice to see that you've grown in the way you respond to some of the replies you've received along the way. You are definitely going to be getting messages that you might find helpful (most people on here love the stories and are willing to help), but there are different ways they think they're helping. Some may send you some polite cautionary thoughts, which are good because they simply want to make sure that you're reflecting on what your doing, and that no one is getting hurt along the way. Others think they're helping by giving you more ideas on things you can do, and how to do it, and how many guys you can do it with. Keep in mind that some of those people are just here to read kinky stories and get off on them, which is okay too, but you don't have to appease them, they'll find their kinks one way or another, so feel free to ignore them for now and move on. However, some of the people who are sharing their "creepy" ideas or wild sexual adventures that they want to see/hear you do, are actually things they've done and enjoyed themselves.
I have a friend who loves to go to our local nude beach in the mornings to give blow jobs before work, and then stop by there again late in the afternoon to find some guy to let him fuck her in his car. To some, that sounds kinky and fun, and to others it just sounds crazy. I'm not going to judge her, or anyone on here for how they live their sexual lives. Again, I'm glad to hear that you are more easily able to pass over the messages that don't suit you as you work your way through this.
Btw, you might even find that some of the crazier things end up being your favorite things to do as you two progress through this.
Keep enjoying yourself, don't hurt yourself or others, and have lots of fun, and please keep sharing. Your story of growth and sexual freedom and new identity is very appealing to 99% of your readers, and I for one would like to thank you for it.
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Hi :-)
Ty again everyone for more great advice. Hubby and me had been talking about me being with another guy for a while and both found the idea to be a real turn on so when the chance came up with Tom it seemed like the right next step! So far it has been great and hubby and me are having more and hotter sex together than in a while :-) I asked hubby yesterday if Tom could come over for a visit and he smiled and said "sure! I have to run some errands anyway." I didn't really have to talk Tom into it when I texted him about coming over lol. We pretty much went straight to the bedroom and went at it hot and heavy, I really do find Tom's enthusiasm to be a turn on :-) After Tom and me were finished and he left, I texted hubby that he should try to hurry home, which he did and I really enjoyed the repeat performance! :-)
Ty again everyone for more great advice. Hubby and me had been talking about me being with another guy for a while and both found the idea to be a real turn on so when the chance came up with Tom it seemed like the right next step! So far it has been great and hubby and me are having more and hotter sex together than in a while :-) I asked hubby yesterday if Tom could come over for a visit and he smiled and said "sure! I have to run some errands anyway." I didn't really have to talk Tom into it when I texted him about coming over lol. We pretty much went straight to the bedroom and went at it hot and heavy, I really do find Tom's enthusiasm to be a turn on :-) After Tom and me were finished and he left, I texted hubby that he should try to hurry home, which he did and I really enjoyed the repeat performance! :-)
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I bet hubby enjoyed the reclaiming also. Both Tom and hubby are so lucky to have you. Especially hubby. He seems to really enjoy the fact that you like to play with Tom.
I especially enjoy your story because my fiance is so close to playing with someone just like your Tom. She tells me how she wants to fuck him. My fiance and I are LDR. She is far away and we won't be able to see each other till almost end of the year. We both go many months without each other so I am ok if she plays like you do. Just hope she can share all with me about it like you do with hubby.
I especially enjoy your story because my fiance is so close to playing with someone just like your Tom. She tells me how she wants to fuck him. My fiance and I are LDR. She is far away and we won't be able to see each other till almost end of the year. We both go many months without each other so I am ok if she plays like you do. Just hope she can share all with me about it like you do with hubby.