It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[leander99]

Events are happening so fast that I made my last post not realizing I was already two pages behind. lol.

[w770]

I'm pretty attune to potential train-wreaks and I see nothing going on here other than your wife enjoying herself, and her getting off on you getting off. Don't let it eat into your psyche.

Superman may also be playing up to her as well. She seems to respond to the comments that come off asshole-like, which of course only encourages him more. The fact is you are riding the line between cuckolding and hotwifing. Which side do you want to be on?

Now that she's pulled back a bit, for you I might add, it will be interesting to see if she starts getting antsy or losing interest. I don't think he gives her anything more than you can, except the thrill of a new cock and desire. You've unleashed her sexual desires...and you're lucky to have a wife that loves you for it.

Thanks. I had the same impression however I'm constantly on alert for blind spots that I might be missing out of hubris or lack of experience so that's why I take everyone's comments to heart.

As far as hotwifing or cuckolding, I think the difference is more of the humiliation aspect, which can be hot for us to a certain extent but maybe not the more extreme elements.

W770, this is one of the hottest threads on this Forum I've read in a while. I feel like we're right there, feeling both the angst and the indescribable hotness of y'alls situation. I'd like to make a couple of observations For one, it's patently obvious to him that you know, and he is getting off on the game as it's being played out. The timing of his thrust into your wife coinciding with her admission " that you fuck me so much better than my husband". The question about what you would do if you walked in on them at that moment, and Lana really not having an answer, and asking why. And of course, no husband walks their dog for 40 minutes so the wife can conveniently fuck her stud without any worries! Lol. The fact that he has such easy access to your wife in this last week lets him know that there's no way an unknowing husband wouldn't catch on. He's playing up his alpha maleness to the hilt, and your wife is addicted to it. You both are..it's like a drug! I think you both want to bring this thing out in the open. That way, there's no more skulking around and planning to make it look real, and he can fuck her anytime he wants. I really don't think you can handle watching, but in another room you can hear him take her and hear her submission. I would be the one to broach the subject. I would invite him alone for coffee or a beer, and tell him point-blank you know what's going on with him and your wife. You can say you have an "arrangement" or even tell Superman that this is a way to spice up your love life. Or you can be a little "cuckier", it's up to you. I've been on erotic pins and needles since I discovered your posts! Keep telling us everything!

I think you're right that I'm personally not ready to actually watch them, but I think with time, I could eventually find myself in that place. Listening in those few times I have so far has been intense to the point of seeming almost psychedelic, where I had to question reality a few times, so I'm not sure how much impact on my psyche there would be if it were taken to the next level of watching especially this soon after the onset.

Your Lois Lane, or was it Lana Lane?, is definitely cock drunk on this guy and has developing NRE. The next couple of days will be interesting indeed as their separation builds the need with in each of them for the type of raw, passionate, and hot sex they have. It will be interesting to see who breaks first, her, him, or you. How she slowly tries to wear you down as she yearns for the dominant pounding only he can provide.
Sorry, but she just doesn’t get that from you.
While he might think you know, I would not out yourself unless you enjoy the snide, humiliating comments of a 25 yr. old cocksman who has your wife’s libido wrapped around his little finger, or is it his huge cock?
I would slow their roll a little bit, and reconnect with your wife for a couple of days.
Good luck!!

This is right on the money for me. I also agree with previous texts that really he's been nothing more than a big dildo that has exposed certain needs in Lana's character that she isn't having fulfilled within your marriage.

For as much as you've played him for your own benefit it's hard to deny he's done exactly the same to both of you. Imo he's known you know for some time, he's stupid but not absolutely imbecilic, but while knowing he's been content to play the game, to carry on pretending he doesn't know for sure. His recent words and actions however have now given his game away.

I am not surprised at all Lana values her marriage infinitely more than a plastic toy, which is in effect what he provides, maybe a 'real cock' version which excites and has her on a higher plain of orgasmic delight, but a dildo all the same. His brand of douchebag machismo and comic book dominance has just opened up a side of Lana's needs that hadn't been fully explored or satisfied up until then.

Chris

I think a side of myself and us as a couple have unexpectedly discovered in the last week was our condescension (for lack of a better word) or projection of Superman's level of awareness. When I was 25, I don't think I had nearly the level of self awareness that he likely does and I think I projected that onto him, and I arrogantly concluded that he must be of lesser intelligence. It was easy to caricaturize him into a dumb cock slinger that only cares about getting off but he likely has a better understanding of this entire experience than both Lana and myself considering that he's been with a married woman before.

Update: Didn't get much sleep last night as Lana and I did the whole hysterical bonding thing again. She still is very much sexually drawn to what Superman was able to do for her, but she tells me it's something she would gladly give up if she had to choose between that and a happy marriage. I've gotta hand it to Superman. He sent her a text telling her his schedule for going to the gym this week just in case she wants to avoid him and prevent any chance that they'll cave to temptation. "I just want to respect your decision to work on your marriage and don't want to make it harder for you."

[mundyman]

Your Lois Lane, or was it Lana Lane?, is definitely cock drunk on this guy and has developing NRE. The next couple of days will be interesting indeed as their separation builds the need with in each of them for the type of raw, passionate, and hot sex they have. It will be interesting to see who breaks first, her, him, or you. How she slowly tries to wear you down as she yearns for the dominant pounding only he can provide.
Sorry, but she just doesn’t get that from you.
While he might think you know, I would not out yourself unless you enjoy the snide, humiliating comments of a 25 yr. old cocksman who has your wife’s libido wrapped around his little finger, or is it his huge cock?
I would slow their roll a little bit, and reconnect with your wife for a couple of days.
Good luck!!

This is right on the money for me. I also agree with previous texts that really he's been nothing more than a big dildo that has exposed certain needs in Lana's character that she isn't having fulfilled within your marriage.

For as much as you've played him for your own benefit it's hard to deny he's done exactly the same to both of you. Imo he's known you know for some time, he's stupid but not absolutely imbecilic, but while knowing he's been content to play the game, to carry on pretending he doesn't know for sure. His recent words and actions however have now given his game away.

I am not surprised at all Lana values her marriage infinitely more than a plastic toy, which is in effect what he provides, maybe a 'real cock' version which excites and has her on a higher plain of orgasmic delight, but a dildo all the same. His brand of douchebag machismo and comic book dominance has just opened up a side of Lana's needs that hadn't been fully explored or satisfied up until then.

Chris

I think I might see several similarities between Lois Lane and your incredible Cath except for the emotional component Cath and Jack have.

[avid fan]

Hot stuff....

"That's when he posited the idea of how I would react if I came home in that moment and saw them. She really didn't know what to say and played it off as him joking around. "

Out of interest I don't think I've heard what Lana thought about that situation... have you talked about the idea of you sitting watching them??... presumably the fantasy is insanely hot for both of you given the community she and Superman make when you've heard them??

Perhaps she just needs a 'company line' for the next time he asks.... maybe play on the cuckold fantasy some more...

Not sure the one on one with him, as recommended above, is advisable but plenty of ways to open up if you wanted to go that way; as mentioned previously a get together that gets 'out of hand' would avoid any recriminations of collusion.

[Topnotch]

That's was pretty decent of him. Maybe he is a nice asshole after all

[w770]

Hot stuff....

"That's when he posited the idea of how I would react if I came home in that moment and saw them. She really didn't know what to say and played it off as him joking around. "

Out of interest I don't think I've heard what Lana thought about that situation... have you talked about the idea of you sitting watching them??... presumably the fantasy is insanely hot for both of you given the community she and Superman make when you've heard them??

Perhaps she just needs a 'company line' for the next time he asks.... maybe play on the cuckold fantasy some more...

Not sure the one on one with him, as recommended above, is advisable but plenty of ways to open up if you wanted to go that way; as mentioned previously a get together that gets 'out of hand' would avoid any recriminations of collusion.

So Lana and I had a conversation about that last night during one of the recovery times and we're still undecided. She says that she doesn't want to do anything that would make me uncomfortable, however she admits that she's turned on by the idea of me watching her getting fucked by him. If we decide to continue on with this journey, I think we will start with me just listening and seeing how that feels before moving on.

That's was pretty decent of him. Maybe he is a nice asshole after all

Right? Didn't see that one coming.

[KevDi69]

Thanks for the morning update. That’s the first time he’s shown any respect for your marriage. I think he got carried away on a power trip of dominating Lana and kept ratcheting up the risky behavior. This break, whether a day or week, should help cool him down enough where their tryst is under control.
Having an affair with a married woman should carry some responsibility to live within their boundaries regarding their marriage. If she doesn’t care if they are outed, then take all the risks of exposure as far as you want. But if she doesn’t want the affair outed, then keep your risky behavior within reason. Case in point, their latest romp in the marital bed while you are walking the dogs. Risky but not extreme until he pushed it for round two and afterwards lounged around to banter until she warned you were coming back.

[w770]

Thanks for the morning update. That’s the first time he’s shown any respect for your marriage. I think he got carried away on a power trip of dominating Lana and kept ratcheting up the risky behavior. This break, whether a day or week, should help cool him down enough where their tryst is under control.
Having an affair with a married woman should carry some responsibility to live within their boundaries regarding their marriage. If she doesn’t care if they are outed, then take all the risks of exposure as far as you want. But if she doesn’t want the affair outed, then keep your risky behavior within reason. Case in point, their latest romp in the marital bed while you are walking the dogs. Risky but not extreme until he pushed it for round two and afterwards lounged around to banter until she warned you were coming back.

I think what some were saying in here yesterday was that he was wanting to be "caught" and at this point, I feel like that is probably accurate. I can see the element of risk being a turn on, but I think he really wants to go to the next level and move towards me seeing him making Lana cum. But Lana says emphasized that we won't be moving forward with anything and she won't be texting him until I'm fully ready, if ever. She's a good one.

[Dharmadude]

I love this thread (probably why I have so many posts in it lol) not only because it is insanely hot with all the parts of a good HW/cuckold story, but also because of its other factors.

Stories that start at the beginning and we get to follow along as, usually, the wife gets presented with the opportunity for exploration, and then makes the leap over the threshold, are of a particular interest to me.

You both were very new to this, and she declined/denied she had any interest in the lifestyle. A lot of wives on here are the same. You have mentioned that she has had many offers from younger guys. I don’t doubt that at all but she declined, and was slightly amused I think you said. Yet, Superman was a yes, then a hell yes. Why him? Who knows. We don’t care, we (and you) are just excited to be a part of it.

Superman’s awareness was brought up. I don’t think he is quite as clueless as we all thought in the beginning. He is a young, arrogant douche, true, but seriously who has the balls to take a married woman for the first time in her own kitchen, while her husband is only away for twenty minutes? Then to say just the right things while fucking her in their bedroom. I think he is definitely onto your game. Apprently he picked up on something from you both. She was available and you were a cuck, which is different than just a cheating wife or an open relationship. He provided that aspect as well.

Not sure I really I really had a point with this post other than to say I think your relationship is beautiful. You both are so committed and in love that you are not threatened by sharing with each other what you need and allowing the exploration.

I think, hope, that this will continue after he leaves.

[Chrislydi]

I think I might see several similarities between Lois Lane and your incredible Cath except for the emotional component Cath and Jack have.

It's been said in a number of cases that some women need an emotional connection too, not all or even a majority by any means, but definitely a significant percentage. I can't ever think from what we're told that Lana will have anything much beyond enjoying the physical with superman. My impression is it's solely what he can do for her, and by extension her husband, to improve their relationship and LS experience that's relevant. It's his sculptured body and massive cock, his dominant attitude and arsehole demeanor that do it for her, nothing more and certainly nothing too emotional.

Chris

[w770]

I love this thread (probably why I have so many posts in it lol) not only because it is insanely hot with all the parts of a good HW/cuckold story, but also because of its other factors.

Stories that start at the beginning and we get to follow along as, usually, the wife gets presented with the opportunity for exploration, and then makes the leap over the threshold, are of a particular interest to me.

You both were very new to this, and she declined/denied she had any interest in the lifestyle. A lot of wives on here are the same. You have mentioned that she has had many offers from younger guys. I don’t doubt that at all but she declined, and was slightly amused I think you said. Yet, Superman was a yes, then a hell yes. Why him? Who knows. We don’t care, we (and you) are just excited to be a part of it.

Superman’s awareness was brought up. I don’t think he is quite as clueless as we all thought in the beginning. He is a young, arrogant douche, true, but seriously who has the balls to take a married woman for the first time in her own kitchen, while her husband is only away for twenty minutes? Then to say just the right things while fucking her in their bedroom. I think he is definitely onto your game. Apprently he picked up on something from you both. She was available and you were a cuck, which is different than just a cheating wife or an open relationship. He provided that aspect as well.

Not sure I really I really had a point with this post other than to say I think your relationship is beautiful. You both are so committed and in love that you are not threatened by sharing with each other what you need and allowing the exploration.

I think, hope, that this will continue after he leaves.

Thank you, I really appreciate that. In regards to what made Superman different, I think it really was just the perfect timing and set of circumstances that led to us being where are now. On top of being extremely attractive and her type physically, there's also the fact that he lives in the same building, went to the same gym, etc., whereas guys that hit on her in the summer are merely a passing thing. I don't know where we will go from here as we're resolved to take this one day at a time and make sure that we reflect at the end of the night how we're feeling. And as of this morning, I worked out as I often do, before her, and after she returned from the gym, we made love. For a part of it, she played with her toy, inserting the entire length of it inside her, as I'm sure she's still coming off the high of feeling "filled up" with a massive cock, but I feel good about where we are currently.

I think I might see several similarities between Lois Lane and your incredible Cath except for the emotional component Cath and Jack have.

It's been said in a number of cases that some women need an emotional connection too, not all or even a majority by any means, but definitely a significant percentage. I can't ever think from what we're told that Lana will have anything much beyond enjoying the physical with superman. My impression is it's solely what he can do for her, and by extension her husband, to improve their relationship and LS experience that's relevant. It's his sculptured body and massive cock, his dominant attitude and arsehole demeanor that do it for her, nothing more and certainly nothing too emotional.

Chris

You're right, she's allowed herself to emotionally connect with Superman in very surface level ways, and enjoyed certain sweet moments with him such as when he made love to her instead of fucking her brains out, but I don't see any real connection between the two of them as she seems to only allow the necessary amount of feelings to come into any encounter with him.

Slight Update: We've discussed that in the event we continue on with Superman before he leaves town for California, she would tell him that she came clean to me, and that it would be an openly cuckold situation. We still want to take this slow as this is still really new to us, but she's not planning on texting him back and responding to any of his several messages until at least the weekend, depending on how we're feeling as a couple.

[phoenix2020]

We have no idea how aware or not Superman is about this situation. As far as he knows, she is cheating on w770. Expecting Superman to be "respectful of the marriage" while fucking a cheating wife is a paradox. Superman being respectful of her feelings on the other hand is something she could expect, and it seems he is doing just that.

As far as the humiliation aspect goes, that is a slippery slope. You have to set boundaries as to how much of that you want, but the line you draw is subject to moving without you realizing it. I noticed in just my role play with my wife that she had trouble compartmentalizing the bedroom talk from everyday life. So now I try to focus on her pleasure and needs during the talk, vs. my being inadequate in some way.

Coming clean is a good idea. If he prefers a cheating wife to a cuckold situation, then nothing is lost since he is leaving. Knowing that she has your knowledge and blessing could open this up to more possibilities, including hotter situations. A weekend away with him...visiting him in California. Her long-term lover..... Oh, I would not admit that you knew the whole time. That could make him look stupid.

[SixInchDick]

I'm just catching up again. This thread moves pretty quickly!

I think some people are jumping all over Superman a little too much like he's this nefarious villain or something. Lol. It's kind of ironic considering the actual character of Superman is a pure, honorable good guy, but I know you only call him that because of his looks. I don't think he's as much of a douche as people think. In my opinion, he's just a jock. That is the word I have used for guys like him. He's a big, sweaty, buff dude who loves to work out, eat, and bang hot chicks. That is the unspoken definition of a jock, lol. They typically don't think about anyone else but themselves. Consider this though, and I'm not sure if it has already been said because I'm always playing "catch up" with this thread, but remember he is single, he has no kids and no wife. He's 25 and lives in an apartment. He probably doesn't really know what it's like to think about others very deeply yet, nor does he fully understand marriage and a real committed relationship. So naturally he's going to act like a jock, his goals are to lift things up and put them down, eat a bunch of food, and get his dick wet. That's what his type does. From what I have read, he hasn't been disrespectful to you DIRECTLY which is admirable. Most people who are genuine douches will at some point treat you like crap directly. It seems like he's always been discreet and pleasant with you. Am I right?

Anyways, just my thoughts. I'm not trying to defend the guy or say he's great cause obviously he's immature, but I don't necessarily think he's this bad dude. lol. And yeah if I were him, I probably wouldn't want to pull out either, regardless of birth control. I mean your wife sounds incredible. Speaking of your wife, does she shave "down there"? What is her approximate dimensions? Lol like height and weight. Just trying to get a better picture in my mind of what Superman is getting.

[w770]

We have no idea how aware or not Superman is about this situation. As far as he knows, she is cheating on w770. Expecting Superman to be "respectful of the marriage" while fucking a cheating wife is a paradox. Superman being respectful of her feelings on the other hand is something she could expect, and it seems he is doing just that.

As far as the humiliation aspect goes, that is a slippery slope. You have to set boundaries as to how much of that you want, but the line you draw is subject to moving without you realizing it. I noticed in just my role play with my wife that she had trouble compartmentalizing the bedroom talk from everyday life. So now I try to focus on her pleasure and needs during the talk, vs. my being inadequate in some way.

Coming clean is a good idea. If he prefers a cheating wife to a cuckold situation, then nothing is lost since he is leaving. Knowing that she has your knowledge and blessing could open this up to more possibilities, including hotter situations. A weekend away with him...visiting him in California. Her long-term lover..... Oh, I would not admit that you knew the whole time. That could make him look stupid.

That's a good point about not straight out telling him that I knew the entire time. It might just be something that goes unspoken should we decide to continue forward with him and he's free to assume whatever he wants.

I'm just catching up again. This thread moves pretty quickly!

I think some people are jumping all over Superman a little too much like he's this nefarious villain or something. Lol. It's kind of ironic considering the actual character of Superman is a pure, honorable good guy, but I know you only call him that because of his looks. I don't think he's as much of a douche as people think. In my opinion, he's just a jock. That is the word I have used for guys like him. He's a big, sweaty, buff dude who loves to work out, eat, and bang hot chicks. That is the unspoken definition of a jock, lol. They typically don't think about anyone else but themselves. Consider this though, and I'm not sure if it has already been said because I'm always playing "catch up" with this thread, but remember he is single, he has no kids and no wife. He's 25 and lives in an apartment. He probably doesn't really know what it's like to think about others very deeply yet, nor does he fully understand marriage and a real committed relationship. So naturally he's going to act like a jock, his goals are to lift things up and put them down, eat a bunch of food, and get his dick wet. That's what his type does. From what I have read, he hasn't been disrespectful to you DIRECTLY which is admirable. Most people who are genuine douches will at some point treat you like crap directly. It seems like he's always been discreet and pleasant with you. Am I right?

Anyways, just my thoughts. I'm not trying to defend the guy or say he's great cause obviously he's immature, but I don't necessarily think he's this bad dude. lol. And yeah if I were him, I probably wouldn't want to pull out either, regardless of birth control. I mean your wife sounds incredible. Speaking of your wife, does she shave "down there"? What is her approximate dimensions? Lol like height and weight. Just trying to get a better picture in my mind of what Superman is getting.

Yes, you're correct. Superman has always been very cordial to me to my face.

She's about 5'5, 115 lbs., her best and most notable features are her long legs and tight perky ass. So when she wears short shorts, it's impossible for guys not to stare as it's quite hypnotizing. I said it before in an earlier part of this thread that if I had to pick someone that is a fair representation of Lana, it would be Elizabeth Turner. Happy, bubbly blonde that has a playful sexiness about her. Oh and yes, she's completely shaved down there.

[hubudig2]

I've been visiting this forum for a long while but this thread is so hot it made me register.
I'm not a cuck however, the stories/situations turn me on from a bull perspective.

No I have not tasted his cum and I'm not sure I ever will because I don't know if that really appeals to me, no judgement on those that do.

Have you considered whether she might enjoy it though? Especially if she's sore after.
I've always been intrigued about creampie cleanup, I've always heard that women have mindblowing orgasms from it and wondered why that might be.
It made me wonder if my wife would react the same way, why would she be any different?
Before a few weeks ago, if I had suggested it to her there's no way she would allow it, she would've said she was disgusted by the idea and would've sworn she would hate it.
I also wouldn't want to do it but was so curious how she would react.
So a couple of weeks ago at the end of a normal fuck session where she'd cum a few times, a couple of them intense, I faked cumming into her.
After waiting about 10-20 seconds like we normally would before pulling out, I quickly restrained her legs and went down on her.
She was confused for a second but proceeded to go into a "mindblowing" orgasm, I couldn't believe it, it was true!
After allowing her to finish cumming, I admitted I had faked it to find out if she would react how I'd heard she might.
She was gutted and confused. She agreed she would've never let me try it if I had asked and confused why she enjoyed it so much.
For the next week I tried to pluck up the courage to do it for real until a week later I did.
I managed to not actually lick any cum but it had the same result and she loved it.
Now she wants to try snowballing

Sorry, I'm not trying to hijack the thread, just wanted to share something, hoping it might be useful.

[johnstevens555]

I'm just catching up again. This thread moves pretty quickly!

I think some people are jumping all over Superman a little too much like he's this nefarious villain or something. Lol. It's kind of ironic considering the actual character of Superman is a pure, honorable good guy, but I know you only call him that because of his looks. I don't think he's as much of a douche as people think. In my opinion, he's just a jock. That is the word I have used for guys like him. He's a big, sweaty, buff dude who loves to work out, eat, and bang hot chicks. That is the unspoken definition of a jock, lol. They typically don't think about anyone else but themselves. Consider this though, and I'm not sure if it has already been said because I'm always playing "catch up" with this thread, but remember he is single, he has no kids and no wife. He's 25 and lives in an apartment. He probably doesn't really know what it's like to think about others very deeply yet, nor does he fully understand marriage and a real committed relationship. So naturally he's going to act like a jock, his goals are to lift things up and put them down, eat a bunch of food, and get his dick wet. That's what his type does. From what I have read, he hasn't been disrespectful to you DIRECTLY which is admirable. Most people who are genuine douches will at some point treat you like crap directly. It seems like he's always been discreet and pleasant with you. Am I right?

Anyways, just my thoughts. I'm not trying to defend the guy or say he's great cause obviously he's immature, but I don't necessarily think he's this bad dude. lol. And yeah if I were him, I probably wouldn't want to pull out either, regardless of birth control. I mean your wife sounds incredible. Speaking of your wife, does she shave "down there"? What is her approximate dimensions? Lol like height and weight. Just trying to get a better picture in my mind of what Superman is getting.

I generally agree with you about Superman. He’s an asshole and a douche but in a lovable way. I’ve always gotten along with people like that in my real life. As a matter fact I used to be a lot like him when I was younger -3 or so inches of cock. You just have to take some of the shit that he says and does with a grain of salt. In this situation so far, he is only taking what he is being given. You can’t fault someone for that.

[chastity_boi]

Once again you guys have nailed it in terms of connecting and communicating. Given the whirlwind nature of your first week in the lifestyle your approach is exactly the right thing to do. Pause, reflect, evaluate, communicate. I'm sure whatever happens the path forward that you choose will be the right one. I think Superman's response to the sudden cut off is interesting also. With the sudden restriction of access to on tap sex, he is clearly desperate to continue and from his responses, more than willing to accommodate for this to happen and has also shown consideration in giving Lana space if required. Maybe not so much of a douche after all. This makes me think a lot of his alpha posturing in the bedroom was more a show for Lana's benefit and a heat of the moment thing. Having said that if you do decide to forge ahead with an openly cuckold dynamic - I think he could be the perfect bull to fulfill both of your requirements.If that does happen though it is very important that you communicate and discuss with him exactly what all parties want from this and that hard and soft limits are set as required not just for Lana but for you and your relationship also.

[avid fan]

Slight Update: We've discussed that in the event we continue on with Superman before he leaves town for California, she would tell him that she came clean to me, and that it would be an openly cuckold situation. We still want to take this slow as this is still really new to us, but she's not planning on texting him back and responding to any of his several messages until at least the weekend, depending on how we're feeling as a couple

.
As you say, finding out you knew this whole time seems very conniving, even though he's getting the benefit...

Perhaps the current pause is a good cover for coming out with it... Lana can tell him that she told you...you were initially shocked but love her and want her to experience things you can't provide.... maybe this pause will also make him a little more respectful given his fun can be taken away at any time.

.... just a shame the drunken first time scenario is out... that would have been hot!

[SixInchDick]

You just have to take some of the shit that he says and does with a grain of salt. In this situation so far, he is only taking what he is being given. You can’t fault someone for that.

I agree completely. He will continue enjoying whatever he's given and he isn't going to question it. He must believe in "if it isn't broke, then don't fix it." So if he can keep getting what he's getting, then why challenge it or question anything.

As a matter fact I used to be a lot like him when I was younger -3 or so inches of cock.

This line cracked me up and almost made me laugh out loud during a virtual meeting I was in

[johnstevens555]

Once again you guys have nailed it in terms of connecting and communicating. Given the whirlwind nature of your first week in the lifestyle your approach is exactly the right thing to do. Pause, reflect, evaluate, communicate. I'm sure whatever happens the path forward that you choose will be the right one. I think Superman's response to the sudden cut off is interesting also. With the sudden restriction of access to on tap sex, he is clearly desperate to continue and from his responses, more than willing to accommodate for this to happen and has also shown consideration in giving Lana space if required. Maybe not so much of a douche after all. This makes me think a lot of his alpha posturing in the bedroom was more a show for Lana's benefit and a heat of the moment thing. Having said that if you do decide to forge ahead with an openly cuckold dynamic - I think he could be the perfect bull to fulfill both of your requirements.If that does happen though it is very important that you communicate and discuss with him exactly what all parties want from this and that hard and soft limits are set as required not just for Lana but for you and your relationship also.

I’m interested to see how “ taking a few days to reconnect“ will actually work out. Last night she did the equivalent of swearing she would go to rehab while she was still very high. Quitting feels way differently in the morning when you are starting to have withdrawals. My only hope is that she doesn’t feel the need to start sneaking around. Not because she feels there’s anything wrong with banging Superman because afterall she definitely has a husband’s blessing. But sneaking around because she is ashamed of a newfound lack of willpower. Obviously she has show no signs of deception or shadiness in anyway but this I believe we are at a very delicate time in this story.

[SixInchDick]

Just curious, couldn't you guys have just waited another day or two to take a break from Superman's Cock when Lana got her period instead of just suddenly cutting him off without any explanation aside from focusing on her marriage? He was already going to do without sex for at least a couple of days, so that could have served as the break. At least it would have been less suspicious or out of character. And I am extremely envious of your wife having 3 day long periods. My wife's period drags on for up to 10 days, or at least that's when there's no more spotting at all.

[w770]

Once again you guys have nailed it in terms of connecting and communicating. Given the whirlwind nature of your first week in the lifestyle your approach is exactly the right thing to do. Pause, reflect, evaluate, communicate. I'm sure whatever happens the path forward that you choose will be the right one. I think Superman's response to the sudden cut off is interesting also. With the sudden restriction of access to on tap sex, he is clearly desperate to continue and from his responses, more than willing to accommodate for this to happen and has also shown consideration in giving Lana space if required. Maybe not so much of a douche after all. This makes me think a lot of his alpha posturing in the bedroom was more a show for Lana's benefit and a heat of the moment thing. Having said that if you do decide to forge ahead with an openly cuckold dynamic - I think he could be the perfect bull to fulfill both of your requirements.If that does happen though it is very important that you communicate and discuss with him exactly what all parties want from this and that hard and soft limits are set as required not just for Lana but for you and your relationship also.

I agree, in the event that we move forward, he does seem like he would be a great bull as he has a lot of the elements that Lana finds hot, physically and verbally.

Speaking of communication - Not only have we stressed the importance of me being very open and upfront about how I'm feeling with certain aspects of them possibly being together and watching, but also how she's feeling about this current pause. I make it a point not to judge her or get upset which allows for a free flow of honest information. So she just came out of the office and asked if she could tell me something. "I really miss having sex with him. I love making love with you, but with him, it was just simply sex, and it felt amazing." She also admitted to really being drawn to having sex with him on our bed as it heightened the sensations. I thanked her for being honest with me and said that we should talk more about it later after work.

Once again you guys have nailed it in terms of connecting and communicating. Given the whirlwind nature of your first week in the lifestyle your approach is exactly the right thing to do. Pause, reflect, evaluate, communicate. I'm sure whatever happens the path forward that you choose will be the right one. I think Superman's response to the sudden cut off is interesting also. With the sudden restriction of access to on tap sex, he is clearly desperate to continue and from his responses, more than willing to accommodate for this to happen and has also shown consideration in giving Lana space if required. Maybe not so much of a douche after all. This makes me think a lot of his alpha posturing in the bedroom was more a show for Lana's benefit and a heat of the moment thing. Having said that if you do decide to forge ahead with an openly cuckold dynamic - I think he could be the perfect bull to fulfill both of your requirements.If that does happen though it is very important that you communicate and discuss with him exactly what all parties want from this and that hard and soft limits are set as required not just for Lana but for you and your relationship also.

I’m interested to see how “ taking a few days to reconnect“ will actually work out. Last night she did the equivalent of swearing she would go to rehab while she was still very high. Quitting feels way differently in the morning when you are starting to have withdrawals. My only hope is that she doesn’t feel the need to start sneaking around. Not because she feels there’s anything wrong with banging Superman because afterall she definitely has a husband’s blessing. But sneaking around because she is ashamed of a newfound lack of willpower. Obviously she has show no signs of deception or shadiness in anyway but this I believe we are at a very delicate time in this story.

I think that I've impressed upon her the notion that I will never judge her or get upset with her as long as she's honest with me, so I think it allows for her to communicate with me freely, so much so that I don't have to worry about her sneaking around behind my back.

Slight Update: We've discussed that in the event we continue on with Superman before he leaves town for California, she would tell him that she came clean to me, and that it would be an openly cuckold situation. We still want to take this slow as this is still really new to us, but she's not planning on texting him back and responding to any of his several messages until at least the weekend, depending on how we're feeling as a couple

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As you say, finding out you knew this whole time seems very conniving, even though he's getting the benefit...

Perhaps the current pause is a good cover for coming out with it... Lana can tell him that she told you...you were initially shocked but love her and want her to experience things you can't provide.... maybe this pause will also make him a little more respectful given his fun can be taken away at any time.

.... just a shame the drunken first time scenario is out... that would have been hot!

We talked about this and we're currently debating between that hypothetical where I "allow" her to experience sex in a way that I can't provide, and a scenario where she came clean to me, I asked her to stop and she refused so I go about accepting that she will have sex with him. Both have their merits and we're trying to suss out the differences between the two and whichever feels hotter.

Just curious, couldn't you guys have just waited another day or two to take a break from Superman's Cock when Lana got her period instead of just suddenly cutting him off without any explanation aside from focusing on her marriage? He was already going to do without sex for at least a couple of days, so that could have served as the break. At least it would have been less suspicious or out of character. And I am extremely envious of your wife having 3 day long periods. My wife's period drags on for up to 10 days, or at least that's when there's no more spotting at all.

Well I had mentioned to her that a pause wasn't necessary, but in the moment, Lana really wanted to prove to me that she prioritized our marriage and my feelings over anything with him. And yeah, I've been with women that have had 10 day long bleeding as well. It's horrible.

[phoenix2020]

Go set out some sexy panties and clothes...bring her in and tell her to wear those for him and go to him now. That it is his pussy and he needs to fill it with cock and cum. I know you said you didn't want to, but I think you should clean her at least once. I bet she goes crazy orgasmic when if you do.

[Dharmadude]

Just my $.02 but if you’re going to come clean, come clean. Tell him you are aware (figured it out, decided open marriage, whatever works for you) and that she is free to continue fucking him. You know about it and support it, get off on it, want to watch, accept it but don’t like it, or however you choose seems like a better option. Maybe down the line you would want to watch, or join in if she changes her mind. Not only two cocks but the contrasting emotions would be mind blowing for her.

Anyway back now after a “bathroom break” lol. The option to tell him you asked her to quit and she refused just seems so not you guys.

Just my opinion.

[eventfire]

Wow less than 24 hours and she already misses fucking this guy. Maybe she is more attached than she let's on. This would kill me knowing I've let the genie out of the bottle and I'm not enough to satisfy her for even a day...