It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by wantingfun » Thu Dec 08, 2022 5:29 pm

w770 wrote:
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This very much sounds like a event horizon, point of no return situation that you're describing. Taken together with other comments here, coupled with my overall insecurity in this area, I think I'm tending to the side of just listening from outside the bedroom, at least for the first few times. I've never heard the obsession in her voice during the times I listened in, and I think compounding that with an act of comparison will be too overwhelming for the moment we're in.
Just wanted to say what a very intelligent person you seem to be. A lot of people could relate to a "black hole" scenario, but you really captured it with the event horizon analogy -- stretched to the point of infinity. Also, your writing and ability to compartmentalize and objectively review the suggestions show good education or upbringing (or both).

You might have been "shafted" in the phallic department, but you way more than make up for it in the biggest sex organ we have (the brain).

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Unread post by ericsacto » Thu Dec 08, 2022 10:08 pm

Just caught up with this thread. What a journey so far. The pause was a nice place to regroup and take the next step from a “cheating” wife to a “hotwife” in Superman’s view.

I like the analogy of him being a human dildo. So does this mean Lana doesn’t have any feelings for him beyond sex?

Also, now that he knows that you know and are okay with it, will overnight stays be on the table if he asks?

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by Chrislydi » Thu Dec 08, 2022 11:09 pm

wantingfun wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 5:29 pm
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You might have been "shafted" in the phallic department, but you way more than make up for it in the biggest sex organ we have (the brain).
I might be getting mixed up between threads, but I was under the impression the OP wasn't particularly small? Admittedly everything is relative.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by trecital » Thu Dec 08, 2022 11:52 pm

Chrislydi wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 11:09 pm
I might be getting mixed up between threads, but I was under the impression the OP wasn't particularly small? Admittedly everything is relative.

Chris
At beginning of Feb this year w770 started a thread entitled "It actually turns me on having a small cock".
In this thread he posted that " I feel like I've gone from 5-6 inches to 4 now, and not thick at all."
I'm pretty sure that somewhere else he posted that he was 5". So I'm a bit confused, but it seems to be somewhere between 4" to 6".

In the same thread I mentioned above, w770 also said "She tells me that the biggest she's ever had was 8-9 inches and really thick."

Back in this thread w770 said "So my wife's biggest in college was this guy named Alex, a guy from the UK who was 8 inches, uncut, and very thick. He's been the reference point in a lot of our conversations about this subject and I'll find myself asking "was he bigger than Alex?" to her stories of other guys.
Apparently Superman is bigger than Alex which is crazy considering that Lana has a toy that's about 8 inches and when I look at it, it seriously dwarfs me and my 5 inches, not thick, so I can't imagine what Superman's is like for her."

So maybe Sman is approaching 10", but I'm not sure about that. So, we could have a contrast of 4" to 10".
If we put some measurements into the Visualiser cock comparison site (one of my favourites!), this calculates a volume for w770 at 76cc (4.6 cubic inches) compared to Sman at a massive 681cc (41.5 cubic inches). Nearly 9X the size!
Bear in mind that this is the most extreme from the above possibilities. If we go for the more modest 5" and keep Sman at a par with Lana's previous biggest of 8-9 inches, but go with 8, then the figures are: 106cc (6.5 cubic inches) for w770 and 400cc (24.4 cubic inches) for Sman. So Sman betters w770 by a factor of 4. Or, put another way, w770 has a cock only one quarter the size of Sman. Of course, I have made some assumptions on girth, as I've only got "not thick at all" and 'very thick' to go by.

Given the above, then when w770 is having reclaim sex then I'm surprised that he gets any of Sman's cum on his cock at all. It must barely touch the sides of Lana's stretched pussy! :D :lol:

Sorry w770. Just having a bit of fun at your expense! :) ;)

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by Chrislydi » Fri Dec 09, 2022 12:33 am

trecital wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 11:52 pm
Chrislydi wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 11:09 pm
I might be getting mixed up between threads, but I was under the impression the OP wasn't particularly small? Admittedly everything is relative.

Chris
At beginning of Feb this year w770 started a thread entitled "It actually turns me on having a small cock".
In this thread he posted that " I feel like I've gone from 5-6 inches to 4 now, and not thick at all."
I'm pretty sure that somewhere else he posted that he was 5". When I asked in this thread about Smans size and w770's size I didn't get an answer. So I'm a bit confused, but it seems to be somewhere between 4" to 6".

In the same thread I mentioned above, w770 also said "She tells me that the biggest she's ever had was 8-9 inches and really thick." Without wading back through this thread, I seem to recall that Lana considers Sman to be at least as big as her previous biggest. So maybe Sman is approaching 10", but I'm not sure about that. So, we could have a contrast of 4" to 10".
If we put some measurements into the Visualiser cock comparison site (one of my favourites!), this calculates a volume for w770 at 76cc (4.6 cubic inches) compared to Sman at a massive 681cc (41.5 cubic inches). Nearly 9X the size!
Bear in mind that this is the most extreme from the above possibilities. If we go for the more modest 5" and keep Sman at a par with Lana's previous biggest of 8-9 inches, but go with 8, then the figures are: 106cc (6.5 cubic inches) for w770 and 400cc (24.4 cubic inches) for Sman. So Sman betters w770 by a factor of 4. Or, put another way, w770 has a cock only one quarter the size of Sman. Of course, I have made some assumptions on girth, as I've only got "not thick at all" and 'very thick' to go by.

Given the above, then when w770 is having reclaim sex then I'm surprised that he gets any of Sman's cum on his cock at all. It must barely touch the sides of Lana's stretched pussy! :D :lol:

Sorry w770. Just having a bit of fun at your expense! :) ;)
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Yes, the comparison, visual or otherwise leaves no doubt of the relative differences, tbh even an extremely well endowed man with a large fat monster of a cock might feel a bit short of the necessary by comparison.

Size might be important but perception is nearly always relative. I think it's why although Lana now knows and feels exactly the difference, the visual will just underline it and stamp it deep into her inner thoughts and psyche. It reinforces any notions she might not be ready to admit or even tell herself never mind her husband. I wouldn't call it a lack of respect or anything so pejorative just yet, but rather a confirmation of her current thoughts on how she really feels.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by leander99 » Fri Dec 09, 2022 12:37 am

When you measure other men's penises using an imaginary ruler, the margin of error is likely to be significant.

Not a sentence I ever thought I would write.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Fri Dec 09, 2022 1:48 am

magnus wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 3:19 pm
w770 wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 2:02 am
trecital wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 12:42 am
There is an awful lot of pontificating going on here, about what 'w770' should and shouldn't do.
And a lot of it based on their own personal experience.
I know that this advice is offered with the best of intentions, but it assumes that that individuals experiences are going to be a good fit for everyone else. Which is patenely not true.

If there is one thing I've learnt, after many years of reading and communicating with other cucks, that there is no 'one size fits all' method.

And to be perfectly honest, 'w770' strikes me as an intelligent person, perfectly able to make his own mind up about what he does.

In particular, I have to take issue with the idea that as soon as the cuck accepts some sort of humiliation to take place, then his wife will lose respect for him. That does not apply in my case. And I've read many other cuck encounters where that is also not the case. Read someon like 'Canadian wittols' postings and you will see a 'cuck' whose wife has maximum respect for him. Maybe even more respect than she would otherwise have. And there are plenty of others who are similar.

Another comment I saw on this forum only this morning was a cuck describing himself as an 'alpha cuck'. I knew immediately what he meant. Not all cucks are beta's, wimps or sissy's.
In my cuck relationship I'm the one who is really in charge. Yes, a lot of 'topping from the bottom' going on. But that's the only way it's going to work for me. My wife and boyfriend have understood this from the beginning. They understand this and tacitly agree to it. For me 'cuckolding' is not a 24hr lifestyle choice. Yes, I often think about cuck type things during the day. But actual cuck activity is almost exclusively reserved for sexual activity, for the bedroom.

Cuckolding is a complex and diverse set of circumstances, and ways of thinking.

Please, just let's ease back from the 'listen to xyz, he wrote the bible on cuckolding' type comments.
A lot of this resonated with me especially the mention of the term "alpha cuck" and how cuckolding is not a 24/7 sort of endeavor. Like yourself, although my relationship is balanced, my wife has always said to me and our family/friends that I'm the decision maker and she defers to me. Now I understand that this sentiment might seem counter to what's been expressed here but it's a forum for a particular lifestyle and in this specific area, Lana and I have chosen to play certain roles with the same ultimate goal. But I understand the impression that some might get here that she's the one in charge because of the focus on her having sex with someone else.

As always, I take all views and throw them into the equation as I won't claim to know more than I do and others with experience. Like I've said before, everyone here has the advantage of objectivity in their perspective, colored by their own experience while I have the advantage of knowing Lana and our marriage like I do. It's all a process of give and take, ying and yang, a great symbiosis in my opinion.

More specifically, since there seems to be a wave of comments remarking on the speed of progression, I'm definitely going to try and step back and evaluate that as objectively as I can.

Thanks everyone. Today is scheduled to be a low key day. Lana and I are taking a long lunch break today and going to some cute french restaurant that she loves. I'll see how she feels about taking a breather and a longer pause from all things Superman just to get a feel for her thoughts.
This would be very similar to my situation as well.

I am a cuck in the bedroom. I get off on the fact I can't adequately satisfy my wife sexually with my modest endowment. I really get off on her fucking better endowed men and the humiliation of watching her be satisfied in a way I cannot satisfy and having her tell me and tease me about that truth.

However that ends at the bedroom door. We are not in a FML relationship and in every other area of our lives, my wife trusts and expects me to lead our family and I happily embrace that burden of performance. I make sure we are financially sound, protected and healthy and my wife is the first mate in that endeavor.

My wife sees our cuckolding arrangement as a gift she is extremely grateful for. She gets a physically, mentally strong man who keeps our family moving in a successful direction, but she gets to be a slut and let herself go wild with men she doesn't have to rely on for anything else. To only seek them out for pleasure, is truly freeing for her and it turns her on to have that one area where our power dynamic is flipped. She loves that other men desire her and she can live out that fantasy and then come home to a man who is even more on fire for her, losing his mind to reclaim her.

Cuckolding takes many different forms and I appreciate the various ways in which couples engage in our wonderful kink. While I don't identify with the "sissy cuck" or even submissive cuck type, I certainly appreciate when those men share their experiences and I don't judge them for the way they choose to engage in this lifestyle. It's exciting for me to read the various ways couples choose to live this life.
I'm right on the same page as you. Because the classic archetype of a cuckold has been seen as submissive and "weak" for lack of a better word, none of our friends or family would ever believe that Lana and I would be on this journey, one because of the docile nature of the cuck not fitting my persona, and two because the female lead role that they wouldn't necessarily apply to Lana. Just an interesting observation, the typical bull seems to have less variation in terms of traits meaning that an aggressive and dominant bull is generally seen as being that way outside of the bedroom as well.
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Thu Dec 08, 2022 10:08 pm
Just caught up with this thread. What a journey so far. The pause was a nice place to regroup and take the next step from a “cheating” wife to a “hotwife” in Superman’s view.

I like the analogy of him being a human dildo. So does this mean Lana doesn’t have any feelings for him beyond sex?

Also, now that he knows that you know and are okay with it, will overnight stays be on the table if he asks?
It's been posited here before by other posters, but I think Lana was really wrapped up in the new relationship energy of the last week, but I don't think she has capacity to have any romantic feelings for Superman. He's a cool guy I suppose, but she's said to me that there a lack of depth to him that reminds her of the gulf between them in regards to maturity and life experience, which serves as a natural barrier to her developing feelings for him.

As far as overnights, I really don't know. We only have a few weeks with him left and I don't know if either Lana or my comfort levels will be ready for that before he leaves.
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Thu Dec 08, 2022 5:29 pm
w770 wrote:
Wed Dec 07, 2022 11:46 am

This very much sounds like a event horizon, point of no return situation that you're describing. Taken together with other comments here, coupled with my overall insecurity in this area, I think I'm tending to the side of just listening from outside the bedroom, at least for the first few times. I've never heard the obsession in her voice during the times I listened in, and I think compounding that with an act of comparison will be too overwhelming for the moment we're in.
Just wanted to say what a very intelligent person you seem to be. A lot of people could relate to a "black hole" scenario, but you really captured it with the event horizon analogy -- stretched to the point of infinity. Also, your writing and ability to compartmentalize and objectively review the suggestions show good education or upbringing (or both).

You might have been "shafted" in the phallic department, but you way more than make up for it in the biggest sex organ we have (the brain).
Thank you, that's very nice of you! I think the impact of each submission is better received with a clear head without defensiveness. While some people's delivery can potentially be taken offensively, I try and see what the essence of their statement is to see if it can be applied to my situation. And I feel that a reactive approach can muddle an opportunity to learn from someone else's advice and experience, which others here seem to have a lot more of than I do admittedly.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Fri Dec 09, 2022 2:06 am

Chrislydi wrote:
Fri Dec 09, 2022 12:33 am
trecital wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 11:52 pm
Chrislydi wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 11:09 pm
I might be getting mixed up between threads, but I was under the impression the OP wasn't particularly small? Admittedly everything is relative.

Chris
At beginning of Feb this year w770 started a thread entitled "It actually turns me on having a small cock".
In this thread he posted that " I feel like I've gone from 5-6 inches to 4 now, and not thick at all."
I'm pretty sure that somewhere else he posted that he was 5". When I asked in this thread about Smans size and w770's size I didn't get an answer. So I'm a bit confused, but it seems to be somewhere between 4" to 6".

In the same thread I mentioned above, w770 also said "She tells me that the biggest she's ever had was 8-9 inches and really thick." Without wading back through this thread, I seem to recall that Lana considers Sman to be at least as big as her previous biggest. So maybe Sman is approaching 10", but I'm not sure about that. So, we could have a contrast of 4" to 10".
If we put some measurements into the Visualiser cock comparison site (one of my favourites!), this calculates a volume for w770 at 76cc (4.6 cubic inches) compared to Sman at a massive 681cc (41.5 cubic inches). Nearly 9X the size!
Bear in mind that this is the most extreme from the above possibilities. If we go for the more modest 5" and keep Sman at a par with Lana's previous biggest of 8-9 inches, but go with 8, then the figures are: 106cc (6.5 cubic inches) for w770 and 400cc (24.4 cubic inches) for Sman. So Sman betters w770 by a factor of 4. Or, put another way, w770 has a cock only one quarter the size of Sman. Of course, I have made some assumptions on girth, as I've only got "not thick at all" and 'very thick' to go by.

Given the above, then when w770 is having reclaim sex then I'm surprised that he gets any of Sman's cum on his cock at all. It must barely touch the sides of Lana's stretched pussy! :D :lol:

Sorry w770. Just having a bit of fun at your expense! :) ;)
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Yes, the comparison, visual or otherwise leaves no doubt of the relative differences, tbh even an extremely well endowed man with a large fat monster of a cock might feel a bit short of the necessary by comparison.

Size might be important but perception is nearly always relative. I think it's why although Lana now knows and feels exactly the difference, the visual will just underline it and stamp it deep into her inner thoughts and psyche. It reinforces any notions she might not be ready to admit or even tell herself never mind her husband. I wouldn't call it a lack of respect or anything so pejorative just yet, but rather a confirmation of her current thoughts on how she really feels.

Chris
leander99 wrote:
Fri Dec 09, 2022 12:37 am
When you measure other men's penises using an imaginary ruler, the margin of error is likely to be significant.

Not a sentence I ever thought I would write.
I remember being so consumed by the thought of my penis not measuring up to others when I was in my teens. It was so constant that it could be seen as obsessive. And now that I'm 41, I can say that I still think about it quite a bit. The only difference being that I have other responsibilities in life that keep me from it being the same type of compulsion. But nevertheless, it's always there in the back of my head, like a giant penis lurching in the shadows.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by trecital » Fri Dec 09, 2022 3:23 am

w770 wrote:
Fri Dec 09, 2022 2:06 am
it's always there in the back of my head, like a giant penis lurching in the shadows.
I think you meant to say "lurking" rather than "lurching"! :D

Although 'lurching' might work!

Also,should be "tiny penis" rather than "giant penis", I'd have thought! ;)

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Fri Dec 09, 2022 3:39 am

trecital wrote:
Fri Dec 09, 2022 3:23 am
w770 wrote:
Fri Dec 09, 2022 2:06 am
it's always there in the back of my head, like a giant penis lurching in the shadows.
I think you meant to say "lurking" rather than "lurching"! :D

Although 'lurching' might work!

Also,should be "tiny penis" rather than "giant penis", I'd have thought! ;)
Now imagine me saying it on my phone's "talk to text" mode while walking the dogs as the neighbors look on, and that should give you an idea of my morning today.

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Unread post by FadermanL20 » Fri Dec 09, 2022 4:16 am

Has there been any discussion regarding their next meet? Obviously waiting on nature to run its course...

You said "when" you watch them. Very hot. Very much looking forward to your descriptions and perceptions.

That day when you were in your office with your earpiece and having major angst while working-Gotta say I was at work also and was sneaking out to check my phone. My thought at the time, "Wow. He's in her. Right. Now."

Very difficult to concentrate. I can only imagine what you were feeling.

Major props, dude. Even if this ends now, this is one of the hottest things I've ever read. My wife agrees.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Fri Dec 09, 2022 5:24 am

FadermanL20 wrote:
Fri Dec 09, 2022 4:16 am
Has there been any discussion regarding their next meet? Obviously waiting on nature to run its course...

You said "when" you watch them. Very hot. Very much looking forward to your descriptions and perceptions.

That day when you were in your office with your earpiece and having major angst while working-Gotta say I was at work also and was sneaking out to check my phone. My thought at the time, "Wow. He's in her. Right. Now."

Very difficult to concentrate. I can only imagine what you were feeling.

Major props, dude. Even if this ends now, this is one of the hottest things I've ever read. My wife agrees.
Thank you! It's always interesting when someone tells me about their wives finding these musings hot, as I thought this fascination was primarily male centric kink.

Today will be the last day of Lana's period, however we had a discussion last night and I mentioned to her the concerns of a lot of the more experienced people in this thread about the speed of our progression and the red flags they noted. We're actually thinking of taking a short trip back to NYC for a week just to slow the pace of things. Still hammering out the details right now as far as hotel accommodations and such, but she also mentioned how she would be fine if we just ended things with Superman now and have it be a memory of "that one hot week" while we start to consider the whole baby thing. I told her that the impulsivity of ending things so abruptly may leave her with a sense of non-closure, and I don't want her to resent me later down the road. So the week away might allow us to gather our thoughts and how and if we want to move forward with the next steps of openly cucking with Superman.

He's obviously been wondering as well, as he texted her this morning about taking her on our bed this weekend, but it's looking unlikely.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by hubudig2 » Fri Dec 09, 2022 5:29 am

How do you think you would feel about it?
Do you think you would get a sense of non-closure? Always wondering how it would've felt to watch?
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Unread post by w770 » Fri Dec 09, 2022 6:04 am

hubudig2 wrote:
Fri Dec 09, 2022 5:29 am
How do you think you would feel about it?
Do you think you would get a sense of non-closure? Always wondering how it would've felt to watch?
I think I would be okay without ever watching them together, but like everything, that could change. Besides, hearing them was unreal enough for one lifetime.

She's already started packing some things up for our week in the city, and one of the first things was her toy. She usually never wants to pack her toy whenever we travel, but I guess things are different now.

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Unread post by gulfcpl » Fri Dec 09, 2022 6:14 am

I don’t think the speed thing is an issue based upon the communication you two have. This, like everything else in life, will lessen as time goes on. The new wears off of everything. Other than the communication directly between you two, I don’t see a reason to stop. He leaves in a couple of months anyway. Sometimes life is overthought. Just
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Thought I'd share one of my favorite stories.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by Long Lurker 34 » Fri Dec 09, 2022 9:10 am

trecital wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 11:52 pm
Chrislydi wrote:
Thu Dec 08, 2022 11:09 pm
I might be getting mixed up between threads, but I was under the impression the OP wasn't particularly small? Admittedly everything is relative.

Chris
At beginning of Feb this year w770 started a thread entitled "It actually turns me on having a small cock".
In this thread he posted that " I feel like I've gone from 5-6 inches to 4 now, and not thick at all."
I'm pretty sure that somewhere else he posted that he was 5". So I'm a bit confused, but it seems to be somewhere between 4" to 6".

In the same thread I mentioned above, w770 also said "She tells me that the biggest she's ever had was 8-9 inches and really thick."

Back in this thread w770 said "So my wife's biggest in college was this guy named Alex, a guy from the UK who was 8 inches, uncut, and very thick. He's been the reference point in a lot of our conversations about this subject and I'll find myself asking "was he bigger than Alex?" to her stories of other guys.
Apparently Superman is bigger than Alex which is crazy considering that Lana has a toy that's about 8 inches and when I look at it, it seriously dwarfs me and my 5 inches, not thick, so I can't imagine what Superman's is like for her."

So maybe Sman is approaching 10", but I'm not sure about that. So, we could have a contrast of 4" to 10".
If we put some measurements into the Visualiser cock comparison site (one of my favourites!), this calculates a volume for w770 at 76cc (4.6 cubic inches) compared to Sman at a massive 681cc (41.5 cubic inches). Nearly 9X the size!
Bear in mind that this is the most extreme from the above possibilities. If we go for the more modest 5" and keep Sman at a par with Lana's previous biggest of 8-9 inches, but go with 8, then the figures are: 106cc (6.5 cubic inches) for w770 and 400cc (24.4 cubic inches) for Sman. So Sman betters w770 by a factor of 4. Or, put another way, w770 has a cock only one quarter the size of Sman. Of course, I have made some assumptions on girth, as I've only got "not thick at all" and 'very thick' to go by.

Given the above, then when w770 is having reclaim sex then I'm surprised that he gets any of Sman's cum on his cock at all. It must barely touch the sides of Lana's stretched pussy! :D :lol:

Sorry w770. Just having a bit of fun at your expense! :) ;)
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Unread post by opening kate » Fri Dec 09, 2022 9:34 am

Personally, I like Lana's idea of dropping it here and having that 'one hot week' before it all gets too crazy. There are a lot of cheerleaders on this site who get off vicariously on your or others' hotwife experience. Then, suddenly, the cuckhold husband disappears from here, most likely because the situation turns south on the couple. We, the audience, can shrug it off and go to the next post. You'll have to live with the aftermath.

There are many couples on 'Our Hotwives' that embrace the lifestyle and their marriage thrives. And most of us here can celebrate those of us who are successful. But you and Lana seem to be still questioning how far to take it and Superman is pushing you into areas beyond your comfort zone. I wouldn't doubt he'll soon be introducing Lana to try a three way with his friend. Then, maybe the idea of him being the one to get Lana pregnant. It's a slippery slope.

Sorry if I'm being a bummer here. It's just that you two seem like a loving couple with still some hesitancy how far this goes. The Hotwife lifestyle is for couples who are certain. Maybe that is you and you'll love every minute of it, but you should be sure before continuing.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Fri Dec 09, 2022 10:21 am

gulfcpl wrote:
Fri Dec 09, 2022 6:14 am
I don’t think the speed thing is an issue based upon the communication you two have. This, like everything else in life, will lessen as time goes on. The new wears off of everything. Other than the communication directly between you two, I don’t see a reason to stop. He leaves in a couple of months anyway. Sometimes life is overthought. Just
my opinion.
Well the way we see it, he's still going to be here in a week, and the commute isn't an issue, so it's an odd mix of having plenty of time and a limited time simultaneously. Her and I tend to be overthinkers and this has been a giant exception because of the breakneck speed and lack of meticulous planning, or at least, sticking to a plan.
phoenix2020 wrote:
Fri Dec 09, 2022 7:51 am
Thought I'd share one of my favorite stories.

literotica - 3-days-of-watching-my-wife-fuck
Just finished it. That was pretty hot!
opening kate wrote:
Fri Dec 09, 2022 9:34 am
Personally, I like Lana's idea of dropping it here and having that 'one hot week' before it all gets too crazy. There are a lot of cheerleaders on this site who get off vicariously on your or others' hotwife experience. Then, suddenly, the cuckhold husband disappears from here, most likely because the situation turns south on the couple. We, the audience, can shrug it off and go to the next post. You'll have to live with the aftermath.

There are many couples on 'Our Hotwives' that embrace the lifestyle and their marriage thrives. And most of us here can celebrate those of us who are successful. But you and Lana seem to be still questioning how far to take it and Superman is pushing you into areas beyond your comfort zone. I wouldn't doubt he'll soon be introducing Lana to try a three way with his friend. Then, maybe the idea of him being the one to get Lana pregnant. It's a slippery slope.

Sorry if I'm being a bummer here. It's just that you two seem like a loving couple with still some hesitancy how far this goes. The Hotwife lifestyle is for couples who are certain. Maybe that is you and you'll love every minute of it, but you should be sure before continuing.
Yeah, I've read a few threads here where the wife went a little bonkers and it turned the relationship sour, and while I don't see any of that happening with Lana and myself, I wanted to take some precautions and get back to being disciplined with a plan like we used to be.

Update: We've booked the hotel for the next week. She's mulling over the idea of going over to his place to have sex so that Lana can tease me on the drive up to the city and then we can make love once we get to the hotel with his cum inside of her. Classic win win win. I realize this seems contradictory to what I just said, but what I meant was taking precautions and sticking to a plan when it comes to the full openness of the cucking aspect where I'm watching.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by william70 » Fri Dec 09, 2022 10:28 am

Seriously wondering what Lana's thinking as she packs to leave. If things were to end with spmn, would she be remorseful?

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by Whosbeensleeping » Fri Dec 09, 2022 10:30 am

phoenix2020 wrote:
Fri Dec 09, 2022 7:51 am
Thought I'd share one of my favorite stories.

literotica - 3-days-of-watching-my-wife-fuck
Ditto

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Fri Dec 09, 2022 10:37 am

william70 wrote:
Fri Dec 09, 2022 10:28 am
Seriously wondering what Lana's thinking as she packs to leave. If things were to end with spmn, would she be remorseful?
Personally, I think she would be, as she still considers him the best she's ever had. But I think she took what I had mentioned about possible downside risks that we might not be aware of from moving too quickly into the next step seriously and by being an hour apart instead flight of stairs, it will make it easier to focus on each other.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by opening kate » Fri Dec 09, 2022 10:43 am

w770 You wrote: "Update: We've booked the hotel for the next week. She's mulling over the idea of going over to his place to have sex so that Lana can tease me on the drive up to the city and then we can make love once we get to the hotel with his cum inside of her. Classic win win win. I realize this seems contradictory to what I just said, but what I meant was taking precautions and sticking to a plan when it comes to the full openness of the cucking aspect where I'm watching."


Yes, it's contradictory - this is what I'm referring to in my caution of the slippery slope. You write that you are a great planner and you have rules, then those plans and rules change almost immediately. This was originally supposed to be the weekend she became a hotwife and that plan went to hell. You planned to have a week in NY to get your act together and now Lana is going to get fucked before you go. I can only assume you know where this is heading - good luck and enjoy - we will.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by w770 » Fri Dec 09, 2022 10:55 am

opening kate wrote:
Fri Dec 09, 2022 10:43 am
w770 You wrote: "Update: We've booked the hotel for the next week. She's mulling over the idea of going over to his place to have sex so that Lana can tease me on the drive up to the city and then we can make love once we get to the hotel with his cum inside of her. Classic win win win. I realize this seems contradictory to what I just said, but what I meant was taking precautions and sticking to a plan when it comes to the full openness of the cucking aspect where I'm watching."


Yes, it's contradictory - this is what I'm referring to in my caution of the slippery slope. You write that you are a great planner and you have rules, then those plans and rules change almost immediately. This was originally supposed to be the weekend she became a hotwife and that plan went to hell. You planned to have a week in NY to get your act together and now Lana is going to get fucked before you go. I can only assume you know where this is heading - good luck and enjoy - we will.
I know what you're saying is true, so it's part of the reason we've opted to put some distance between us and him, so that it's not a practical scenario in which they're together.

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Re: It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

Unread post by johnstevens555 » Fri Dec 09, 2022 10:59 am

w770 wrote:
Fri Dec 09, 2022 10:55 am
opening kate wrote:
Fri Dec 09, 2022 10:43 am
w770 You wrote: "Update: We've booked the hotel for the next week. She's mulling over the idea of going over to his place to have sex so that Lana can tease me on the drive up to the city and then we can make love once we get to the hotel with his cum inside of her. Classic win win win. I realize this seems contradictory to what I just said, but what I meant was taking precautions and sticking to a plan when it comes to the full openness of the cucking aspect where I'm watching."


Yes, it's contradictory - this is what I'm referring to in my caution of the slippery slope. You write that you are a great planner and you have rules, then those plans and rules change almost immediately. This was originally supposed to be the weekend she became a hotwife and that plan went to hell. You planned to have a week in NY to get your act together and now Lana is going to get fucked before you go. I can only assume you know where this is heading - good luck and enjoy - we will.
I know what you're saying is true, so it's part of the reason we've opted to put some distance between us and him, so that it's not a practical scenario in which they're together.
Kind of sounds like getting one more fix on the way to rehab. Lol. I’m pretty sure you guys have broken or shortened every timeframe or slowdown that you’ve set.

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