Yeah, I think how things will play out after Shawn leaves will be evident by watching the chemistry between Lana and Eric if and when they fuck. She's told me that she's had sex with guys that had pretty big cocks but there was no real connection between them and the sex ultimately was unsatisfying. Conversely, with me, I have the body but not the giant cock that she craves and it's all supplemented with our emotional connection. I think you're right that Shawn had the benefit of perfect timing to go along with all of his attributes, and if Eric is able to prove his worth as a lover, he may become a steady part of our ongoing experience as sexually, I know that her body is now addicted to the feelings that a giant bare cock can do to her that I'll never be able to do.Dharmadude wrote: ↑Wed Dec 28, 2022 6:32 amI hope you understand that I mean no disrespect toward you or Lana in any way by bringing up things (multiple men) that she has expressed reservations about in the past. In fact, I think it is beautiful how each of you is willing to let the other one explore and, at the same time, give the other what they need. This is, to me, the very definition of love and it is captivating. I have followed your thread from the beginning and feel like I "know" you both having watched as your explore this lifestyle.
As you know there are many different paths one can follow on this journey and one of them is the Dominant/sub dynamic. This is something my wife and I have maintained from the beginning of our relationship and, even if we stray from that path for awhile as we evolve, we always come back to it as that is what we both need. I am not going to derail the thread with my thoughts on that. I say it to point out that I am not a stranger to this dynamic and can speak from experience as to what is gained/given.
This whirlwind encounter has unlocked so many aspects both of you have suppressed over the years (her need to be submissive and your need for humiliation are probably the most surprising for you both). The time limit on it spurred things on at a faster pace than normal and maybe even faster than should be advised. But your communication and open-mindedness has been amazing and it's doesn't appear like there are any long term red flag effects. So why not? Enjoy yourself.
IMO everything has been building to this point ever since she "allowed" the first zoom call. She acknowledged her submissiveness and gave his dominance free reign. It was only a matter of time until he pushed it a bit further. The only thing in doubt was, is he a sharer or a possessor? He has traits of both so that was still a mystery. We now know he is a sharer, so Lana will be shared. He tested the waters at the party by telling Lana to expose herself to Eric.
It's one thing to do this on video but it is another entirely to do this when a "strange" man is in the room (and while she is sitting there with his cock in her pussy). Eric could then look wherever he chooses. He could see all of her parts and focus his gaze. She had to feel his lust through that gaze. No doubt even more so when they continued fucking and she orgasmed all over his cock. He watched her through all of this.
I absolutely think you should do this suggested encounter, and I suspect you will. I think you both need it. I don't understand the humiliation aspect, from either direction. I have no interest in giving or receiving that. But you do "need" it and we know superman (sorry still can't give him a proper name nor a capitalization) is more than happy to provide that. Eric, with his comments on the zoom call, shows that he enjoys this as well. Will he be as vocal or in your face as superman? Maybe, maybe not.
Either way, it will de difficult for you at first. Double the humiliation. If you need to then leave the room for a few minutes then come back. They will, no doubt, still be pleasuring her so you will have time for a few breaks if needed. I would choose to look at things from a different perspective. Two young studs, with big cocks, fucking my wife? Sure, okay. But if I looked at her face and saw a look of complete ecstatic bliss? Most definitely. Sign me up. No matter how big or skilled I, or any other man, am there is no way to give her that with just one cock. Add to that in the back of her psyche the total submission that they can do whatever they choose and her orgasms will be so far off the charts that it no longer even exists. She will be completely and totally in sub space for this scene and might not even realize you are there. I envy you being able to watch this. It may be difficult for you but you are giving your love what she needs. It will be beautiful.
I hope Eric fulfills her need for a Dom and his cock is up to the task. No doubt it will be hard and willing but superman's was otherworldly. Maybe part of that was just the newness and excitement. But he was also massive and his personality struck that chord that she needed at that time. If Eric is suitable then she will not need to look for a partner and it will be a very smooth transition from one to the next. I don't see Lana going back to vanilla after having had her mind blown with this dynamic, and repressed desires fulfilled, unless her Dom fails her.
It will be interesting to follow as they begin their dynamic. Will he too share her with his friends? Or only when superman visits? I wonder of superman will still try to control things from California? He doesn't seem like a fade into the background type.
Again, I mean no disrespect to either of you. I am envious as my wife and I have strayed a bit from this path. I hoe we can reconnect with it soon.
Another point you touched on was our needs - Lana's for being dominated and my own for humiliation. I feel like you're right about this, but I'm just curious if there's an end point. I mean, I'm not going to let it get to the point where I'm wearing one of those cage things or women's clothes, and ultimately, these are all subjective boundaries, so I suppose I won't know where the limit is until I'm there. Same for Lana. She apparently is really turned on by being submissive to Shawn, to the point where she's willing to have a guy watching her orgasm and a group of guys see her naked, but I wonder when she'll reach her own limit on these acts. I guess being dominated by two young guys on your marital bed, and also watching your wife being taken by two young guys sounds close to whatever limits we might have. But as always, we'll see.