It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[TheHammer]

Dropping L words would definitely tempt me to slam on the brakes, although realistically speaking it’s unlikely they actually truly would love each other. They actually hardly know each other. It sounds like some really strong lust.

Agree, sounds like lust with the NRE happening. Plus, he is moving and on top of that, Shawn doesn’t exactly sound like relationship material at all. I wouldn’t be worried at all about the L word.

[mundyman]

I won't deny that every boundary we've set seems to get blown over

Regarding the rules, guidelines and boundaries in general and those you two have blown right through, maybe just focus on the red line absolute deal breaker rules and boundaries so she or both of you can experiment and try new things if and when they come up. Just keep open lines of communication and enjoy the experience. There may be things to try once that don’t cross any of the red lines.

That's a good point, and something that I've been trying to process this morning but haven't really been able to definitively land on exactly how I feel about just yet. She mentioned how last night, Shawn kept telling her that he wanted to "make love" to her and I think he's really developing strong feelings for her. I asked her if she felt the same, and she confessed that she thinks she is on that path as well. Although they didn't say "I love you," I feel like that might be on the horizon. I know there are things to consider such as being in the heat of the moment, NRE, infatuation, reality and fantasy, the unrealistic prospect of him actually stealing her away from me, but I'm glad she was honest with me, and now I need to feel out just how best to handle this situation. Someone had private messaged me a few weeks ago about how this may happen and that it's only just words said in the heat of the moment, and to not get too upset if it happens, which conceptually, I know is likely true, but it still feels like quite the gut punch hearing it come from her. I haven't gotten the chance to talk more about it with her just yet as she's still passed out and I'm working, but it's definitely a conversation that I want to have with her today.

Update: Her phone has been buzzing a lot this morning, and I looked over at the notifications, which allow me to see the first few words of a text when it's sent. I saw that it's from Shawn and the first few words of the most recent text said, "Eric's clean" followed with a link, most likely to the clinic's portal where she can check for herself.

I don’t think there’s any doubt at some point while they are fucking in front of you and they are in missionary and he is having her look into his eyes and they are at their peak, he will tell her he loves her, and she will say “I love you” back. Perhaps that has already been said when she fucks him at night. It wouldn’t shock me if it already has.
Perhaps there will even be tears from her as her raw emotions over take her and She pulls him in for a passionate kiss and wraps arms and legs around him to draw him in as close as possible.
Not just a physical fuck, not just an emotional fuck, but now fucking at the soul level as she gives herself and connects with him totally
She will be at her most open, raw, and vulnerable state, when emotional connections are made and solidified.
Are you ready for that, perhaps hearing their post fuck murmurings to each other when they continue to share ‘I love you’s’?
It seems that Shawn has been bitten by the love bug. What started as sport fucking the hottie down the hallway has evolved into an emotional affair as well. Given his dominant competitive personality I think he truly is trying to win a bigger share of her heart, body, and mind then you own.
Lana admission is striking. She says she is on the path toward loving him. I hate to tell you but I think that train is pulling into the station for her. All along she has slowly revealed her thoughts and actions with Shawn. I think she does love him, but is trying to gauge your reaction as she slowly shares the news with you.
I can imagine her inner conflict between not hurting you, her life partner, and the growing attachment and love she feels for Shawn. The man who gives her everything she craves and needs physically. Remember she goes to him now to get her physical satisfaction. She bonds with him a little more every time she fucks him and makes love to him. How can she not be falling in love with the man that she physically shares her body with.
I’m not sure I believe everything I read about bonding through semen and fluid sharing. How a woman becomes attached to the hormones and chemicals in a man’s semen when he cums in her and becomes physically as well as emotionally attached to the man who cums in her, but how many times has he cum in her the last month v. How many times you have.
How many orgasms have you given her v. how he’s given her.
Now some of what she does is no doubt performative for you, but has she said your name out loud as you two have sex, when you make her come since the Shawn affair has begun.
No doubt some of the denial with you is performative and meant to stoke the humiliation and angst that you desire and have shared with her.
But again, I would tread somewhat carefully here. You are dealing with the emotions of two people, one of whom you have no input with.
I know this sounds rather doom and gloom but this is just my reaction to your last several posts.
The relationships involved here seem to be reaching a critical point and I hope you’re ready and prepared for the fallout.
Is Lana capable of loving two men fully?

[Mr JnJ Doe]

Don't bet afraid of the Love word. We look at it like this: when the second child comes into your life, does your love for your first child diminish? No, your capacity grows. You are her person and that's what separates you from Shawn or anyone else.

[mundyman]

Don't bet afraid of the Love word. We look at it like this: when the second child comes into your life, does your love for your first child diminish? No, your capacity grows. You are her person and that's what separates you from Shawn or anyone else.

This is comparing apples and oranges. A man and woman bring a child into the world. Each child the result of a conscious decision to grow their family. Most often brought onto the world as an expression of their love for each other and the new child.
A wife tucking someone else is different. There are women who love their fuck buddies but usually at a different level and way then their life partner. However in my experience this is easier said than done.
The third person fucking the wife can have very different goals and outlook then the husband. And this is dangerous. If the third understands his role then things often work out. However if you have a third that is a wild card things can go terribly wrong as he falls for the wife and tries to take her from the husband.
That’s my point here. Lana is going from 0 ton1000 mph and I’m not sure if W is ready or truly prepared for the consequences of Lana professing her love for a Shawn. Nor Lana controlling her emotions and keeping them in perspective.
It seems to me that a Shawn and Lana have moved well beyond sport fucking.

[parmaham55]

Love is infinite and sharable, have no fear. What you have with Lana is trust, and be careful not to let that falter. Press her harder to be upfront. Show her you can cope with any feelings she has. Press her to be totally clear about her feelings and what she has said to him so far. It’s a critical moment to be totally honest. Be brave and tell her you can accept her love for him. That’s massive. Don’t worry, she’ll never trust him like she trusts you. Not an inch. He’s 25 and a player, she might love him for a while but deep down, she won’t trust him. You’re on a different level with her.

[w770]

You are at a really difficult stage of angst and worry, but you are handling it so well, both of you. So much trust and respect. The more you two talk the better. She is being very open with you, that is wonderful.
And the sexual high is off the charts! You must be bursting. We can only look on in awe and offer encouragement!
You'll be tasting a different musk by the weekend alongside Shawn's. Wow.

I think it's accurate to say that it's a mix of angst and worry. There's also humiliation in the fact that my wife in all likelihood feels love for another man, because love was the one thing I had over him, and now that he might have that from her on top of the fact that he can give her sexual satisfaction and excitement in a way that I can't, it's a little daunting.

Wow! A fresh creampie, followed by pussy denial, followed by the notice that Eric tested clean and will in all likelihood also enjoy Lana before you’re allowed. That’s quite the cuckold trifecta to end the year on. I’m in awe of your ability to maintain your sanity.

thank you but I feel like I was a lot cooler until the prospect of the L word came up, and now I'm scrambling a bit.

Dropping L words would definitely tempt me to slam on the brakes, although realistically speaking it’s unlikely they actually truly would love each other. They actually hardly know each other. It sounds like some really strong lust.

Dropping L words would definitely tempt me to slam on the brakes, although realistically speaking it’s unlikely they actually truly would love each other. They actually hardly know each other. It sounds like some really strong lust.

Agree, sounds like lust with the NRE happening. Plus, he is moving and on top of that, Shawn doesn’t exactly sound like relationship material at all. I wouldn’t be worried at all about the L word.

On one hand, I think there's merit in both of your comments in that it might just be her wrapped up in the NRE and lust of it all, but at the same time this kind of opens up another front that I didn't think I had to worry about, but now am considering.

Don't bet afraid of the Love word. We look at it like this: when the second child comes into your life, does your love for your first child diminish? No, your capacity grows. You are her person and that's what separates you from Shawn or anyone else.

I know ultimately it's just a word, and what you're saying makes sense. I just really need her to wake up already so we can start having this discussion.

I won't deny that every boundary we've set seems to get blown over

Regarding the rules, guidelines and boundaries in general and those you two have blown right through, maybe just focus on the red line absolute deal breaker rules and boundaries so she or both of you can experiment and try new things if and when they come up. Just keep open lines of communication and enjoy the experience. There may be things to try once that don’t cross any of the red lines.

That's a good point, and something that I've been trying to process this morning but haven't really been able to definitively land on exactly how I feel about just yet. She mentioned how last night, Shawn kept telling her that he wanted to "make love" to her and I think he's really developing strong feelings for her. I asked her if she felt the same, and she confessed that she thinks she is on that path as well. Although they didn't say "I love you," I feel like that might be on the horizon. I know there are things to consider such as being in the heat of the moment, NRE, infatuation, reality and fantasy, the unrealistic prospect of him actually stealing her away from me, but I'm glad she was honest with me, and now I need to feel out just how best to handle this situation. Someone had private messaged me a few weeks ago about how this may happen and that it's only just words said in the heat of the moment, and to not get too upset if it happens, which conceptually, I know is likely true, but it still feels like quite the gut punch hearing it come from her. I haven't gotten the chance to talk more about it with her just yet as she's still passed out and I'm working, but it's definitely a conversation that I want to have with her today.

Update: Her phone has been buzzing a lot this morning, and I looked over at the notifications, which allow me to see the first few words of a text when it's sent. I saw that it's from Shawn and the first few words of the most recent text said, "Eric's clean" followed with a link, most likely to the clinic's portal where she can check for herself.

I don’t think there’s any doubt at some point while they are fucking in front of you and they are in missionary and he is having her look into his eyes and they are at their peak, he will tell her he loves her, and she will say “I love you” back. Perhaps that has already been said when she fucks him at night. It wouldn’t shock me if it already has.
Perhaps there will even be tears from her as her raw emotions over take her and She pulls him in for a passionate kiss and wraps arms and legs around him to draw him in as close as possible.
Not just a physical fuck, not just an emotional fuck, but now fucking at the soul level as she gives herself and connects with him totally
She will be at her most open, raw, and vulnerable state, when emotional connections are made and solidified.
Are you ready for that, perhaps hearing their post fuck murmurings to each other when they continue to share ‘I love you’s’?
It seems that Shawn has been bitten by the love bug. What started as sport fucking the hottie down the hallway has evolved into an emotional affair as well. Given his dominant competitive personality I think he truly is trying to win a bigger share of her heart, body, and mind then you own.
Lana admission is striking. She says she is on the path toward loving him. I hate to tell you but I think that train is pulling into the station for her. All along she has slowly revealed her thoughts and actions with Shawn. I think she does love him, but is trying to gauge your reaction as she slowly shares the news with you.
I can imagine her inner conflict between not hurting you, her life partner, and the growing attachment and love she feels for Shawn. The man who gives her everything she craves and needs physically. Remember she goes to him now to get her physical satisfaction. She bonds with him a little more every time she fucks him and makes love to him. How can she not be falling in love with the man that she physically shares her body with.
I’m not sure I believe everything I read about bonding through semen and fluid sharing. How a woman becomes attached to the hormones and chemicals in a man’s semen when he cums in her and becomes physically as well as emotionally attached to the man who cums in her, but how many times has he cum in her the last month v. How many times you have.
How many orgasms have you given her v. how he’s given her.
Now some of what she does is no doubt performative for you, but has she said your name out loud as you two have sex, when you make her come since the Shawn affair has begun.
No doubt some of the denial with you is performative and meant to stoke the humiliation and angst that you desire and have shared with her.
But again, I would tread somewhat carefully here. You are dealing with the emotions of two people, one of whom you have no input with.
I know this sounds rather doom and gloom but this is just my reaction to your last several posts.
The relationships involved here seem to be reaching a critical point and I hope you’re ready and prepared for the fallout.
Is Lana capable of loving two men fully?

Honestly, I don't know how I would react to seeing him on top of her after he's made her cum and after he's exploded inside of her while they murmur I Love You's. In the confusion of it all, I think I wouldn't have any response other than to jerk off in the humiliation and pain of the moment. If you're right, and that they've already said the L word to each other, I would hope that she would have told me already. But maybe they did last night and she plans to tell me about it when she starts her day today. I dont' know if she's capable of loving two men at the same time, or if she's using the word in the heat of the moment and is confusing it for lust, but I think you're right that it's a critical time.

Update: Lana is up, Eric is clean and we're going to have a talk about if she's in love with Shawn in a bit after she gathers herself. I don't know if she'll say that they've already told each other that they love each other and how that may change things if at all. I think I'll feel slightly gutted if they are in love but maybe it's something I can accept. I really don't know.

[jasmineb87]

Big talk for you and Lana. Good luck

[Wifesharing]

The love thing can be no big deal and it can be a very big deal. In this case where Shawn is planning on lending his slut out to his buddy to sport fuck with him really doesn't feel like love feels like lust and emotional sex stuff, I don't think you have anything to worry about.

She told you so that is a good thing means she is honest about her feelings. Again it is one of those things can be nothing can be a major issue and problem, you have good conversations with her and I think you will see it before us. The things I always stress is remember you will never hear everything no matter how much you think she is telling you everything she is not, they have conversations and maybe be a lot said back and forth you will never hear. This is not even her hiding things sometimes women just don't feel it was important and sometimes they want to spare our feelings and sometimes they do just flat out want to keep things for themselves. You can only be 100% sure about what 50% of the marriage is thinking that is you.

[jasmineb87]

If you do feel like you need to hit the brakes, please do. I think it’s safe to say we all just want the best for you both here.
I know it’s been like a race against time because of Shawna impending departure, but if you feel like you need to pause, slow or even stop, I’m sure Lana will be understanding of that. It’s about you two at the end of the day. Shawn is just fuck meat for her.
That said, it might have even hit you harder as she’s denied you this morning. Good open conversation with Lana is the only way to the next step, whatever that might be. The good thing is, you’ve clearly shown that you’re great with communicating with each other.
We’re here for you whatever happens

[william70]

IMHO: If she hasn't already, she will tell S that she loves him. Will she do it this weekend in front of W, maybe. At this point Eric is the unknown factor. I think S is Lana's true love interest and E now becomes just another big dick. I'm not much of a flyer these days, but if tickets are cheaper when bought in advance, I surely would get some bought for her to see S in CA. This is where any red lines in the sand will be crossed. What's the saying distance makes the heart grow stronger (?). Something like that. If W is going to let Lana continue with S indefinitely, he needs to know that when S returns from CA. his sole mission will be to steal Lana away. He should have this discussion with Lana now.
My only suggestion is, that after S leaves for CA., any communication between S and L be very minimal. This when W and S need to make some hard decisions. If S and L do continue their relationship into 2024 I feel it could end Lana's marriage to W.

[TheHammer]

The love thing can be no big deal and it can be a very big deal. In this case where Shawn is planning on lending his slut out to his buddy to sport fuck with him really doesn't feel like love feels like lust and emotional sex stuff, I don't think you have anything to worry about.

Well said, if he loved her, he wouldn’t be letting his buddy fuck her and to have her under his desk while he is on zoom calls. She is just his slut.

Her being his slut if what their “relationship” is founded on. He has treated her like a slut and not like a potential girlfriend.

[william70]

What's the point? W loves Lana and he lets S fuck her.
Another thing to keep in mind is L's and S's proximity to one another when he's here. It's not like there is any distance between them that has to be delta with to see each other. They might as well live in the same house but in different rooms.
If S and W can get this figured out, maybe they can work it out so S and L only see each other when he's nearby. What if thou, he truly is in love with L and decides to move to NJ permanently?

[william70]

The love thing can be no big deal and it can be a very big deal. In this case where Shawn is planning on lending his slut out to his buddy to sport fuck with him really doesn't feel like love feels like lust and emotional sex stuff, I don't think you have anything to worry about.

Well said, if he loved her, he wouldn’t be letting his buddy fuck her and to have her under his desk while he is on zoom calls. She is just his slut.

Her being his slut if what their “relationship” is founded on. He has treated her like a slut and not like a potential girlfriend.

IF S does love Lana, and wants to make love, Lana should dump his ass and go for Eric to pound her pussy. IMHO she will not. She will love S no matter how he fucks her. But I guess time will tell.

[w770]

We're about to go out to get some lunch to talk more and then have to get back to work but these are the quick points of the talk so far:

- She loves him
- They told each other they love each other last night and this morning
- They made love last night and this morning instead of "fuck"
- Shawn wants to call off the threesome this weekend because he doesn't want Eric to have her. He also wants me not to make love to her anymore but understands that as her husband, that's not something he can realistically expect and he's fine with the once a week he believes we make love.
- I asked if it's different from the love she feels for me and she said it's very different. We have a solid foundation, a history of 15 years of memories, and he will never compare. She described that the love she has for him is like how she felt in the beginning of our relationship.
- She admitted that it might be NRE and that him moving back to California will be good as it will give her time to evaluate if she's just feeling lust and the excitement of the moment rather than truly being in love with him
- We don't know what this weekend will involve but it looks like no Eric. It's either me watching them on our bed, or we might not see him at all just to give ourselves some breathing room.

[Dharmadude]

Great news on Eric's status. Now they can both have her in every way while you watch. You will get the cleanup duty from two young studs. The buildup to last weekend was intense. This weekend? Wow is all I can say to that!

It's a fine line in this lifestyle, and this is one of the risks. Women, and some men, are not built to just fuck anyone. They need a bit of emotional connection with the person. Problem is, of course, it can become more than a small connection. I don't have personal experience in this but many on these forums do. Some women seek that out in a long term "boyfriend" and that works for them. Others have advised that seeing multiple men keeps feelings from getting too intense.

It's my opinion that this is overpowering lust. He has unlocked a part of her that she either repressed or didn't know was there. I mean not only the submissive side, but he coupled that with the great cock that she craved. It is a powerful combination but I think she will realize it for what it is - infatuation and not a long term partnership like she has with you.

I'm not exactly sure what I would do in your situation but I think I would let this weekend play out. This is important to both of you and also for a post-superman world. As I've said before I don't think you can put the genie back in the bottle. This feels like your lifestyle now. But that is completely up to you. I think I would insist that a few things need to happen. Maybe not exactly as I say because I am far from an expert, but the point will be that YOU and HER get a handle on this going forward. She gave her pussy to him, but it is still hers, ultimately.

Lana tells superman that she is stepping back a bit. No more middle of the night fucks, maybe even limit how often they do fuck (twice a week or whatever). She tells superman she is going to fuck Eric on a regular basis (if she enjoys how he fucks her of course), she looks for other possible partners.

Again, others here will have better advice.

[mundyman]

You are at a really difficult stage of angst and worry, but you are handling it so well, both of you. So much trust and respect. The more you two talk the better. She is being very open with you, that is wonderful.
And the sexual high is off the charts! You must be bursting. We can only look on in awe and offer encouragement!
You'll be tasting a different musk by the weekend alongside Shawn's. Wow.

I think it's accurate to say that it's a mix of angst and worry. There's also humiliation in the fact that my wife in all likelihood feels love for another man, because love was the one thing I had over him, and now that he might have that from her on top of the fact that he can give her sexual satisfaction and excitement in a way that I can't, it's a little daunting.

Wow! A fresh creampie, followed by pussy denial, followed by the notice that Eric tested clean and will in all likelihood also enjoy Lana before you’re allowed. That’s quite the cuckold trifecta to end the year on. I’m in awe of your ability to maintain your sanity.

thank you but I feel like I was a lot cooler until the prospect of the L word came up, and now I'm scrambling a bit.

Dropping L words would definitely tempt me to slam on the brakes, although realistically speaking it’s unlikely they actually truly would love each other. They actually hardly know each other. It sounds like some really strong lust.

Dropping L words would definitely tempt me to slam on the brakes, although realistically speaking it’s unlikely they actually truly would love each other. They actually hardly know each other. It sounds like some really strong lust.

Agree, sounds like lust with the NRE happening. Plus, he is moving and on top of that, Shawn doesn’t exactly sound like relationship material at all. I wouldn’t be worried at all about the L word.

On one hand, I think there's merit in both of your comments in that it might just be her wrapped up in the NRE and lust of it all, but at the same time this kind of opens up another front that I didn't think I had to worry about, but now am considering.

Don't bet afraid of the Love word. We look at it like this: when the second child comes into your life, does your love for your first child diminish? No, your capacity grows. You are her person and that's what separates you from Shawn or anyone else.

I know ultimately it's just a word, and what you're saying makes sense. I just really need her to wake up already so we can start having this discussion.

Regarding the rules, guidelines and boundaries in general and those you two have blown right through, maybe just focus on the red line absolute deal breaker rules and boundaries so she or both of you can experiment and try new things if and when they come up. Just keep open lines of communication and enjoy the experience. There may be things to try once that don’t cross any of the red lines.

That's a good point, and something that I've been trying to process this morning but haven't really been able to definitively land on exactly how I feel about just yet. She mentioned how last night, Shawn kept telling her that he wanted to "make love" to her and I think he's really developing strong feelings for her. I asked her if she felt the same, and she confessed that she thinks she is on that path as well. Although they didn't say "I love you," I feel like that might be on the horizon. I know there are things to consider such as being in the heat of the moment, NRE, infatuation, reality and fantasy, the unrealistic prospect of him actually stealing her away from me, but I'm glad she was honest with me, and now I need to feel out just how best to handle this situation. Someone had private messaged me a few weeks ago about how this may happen and that it's only just words said in the heat of the moment, and to not get too upset if it happens, which conceptually, I know is likely true, but it still feels like quite the gut punch hearing it come from her. I haven't gotten the chance to talk more about it with her just yet as she's still passed out and I'm working, but it's definitely a conversation that I want to have with her today.

Update: Her phone has been buzzing a lot this morning, and I looked over at the notifications, which allow me to see the first few words of a text when it's sent. I saw that it's from Shawn and the first few words of the most recent text said, "Eric's clean" followed with a link, most likely to the clinic's portal where she can check for herself.

I don’t think there’s any doubt at some point while they are fucking in front of you and they are in missionary and he is having her look into his eyes and they are at their peak, he will tell her he loves her, and she will say “I love you” back. Perhaps that has already been said when she fucks him at night. It wouldn’t shock me if it already has.
Perhaps there will even be tears from her as her raw emotions over take her and She pulls him in for a passionate kiss and wraps arms and legs around him to draw him in as close as possible.
Not just a physical fuck, not just an emotional fuck, but now fucking at the soul level as she gives herself and connects with him totally
She will be at her most open, raw, and vulnerable state, when emotional connections are made and solidified.
Are you ready for that, perhaps hearing their post fuck murmurings to each other when they continue to share ‘I love you’s’?
It seems that Shawn has been bitten by the love bug. What started as sport fucking the hottie down the hallway has evolved into an emotional affair as well. Given his dominant competitive personality I think he truly is trying to win a bigger share of her heart, body, and mind then you own.
Lana admission is striking. She says she is on the path toward loving him. I hate to tell you but I think that train is pulling into the station for her. All along she has slowly revealed her thoughts and actions with Shawn. I think she does love him, but is trying to gauge your reaction as she slowly shares the news with you.
I can imagine her inner conflict between not hurting you, her life partner, and the growing attachment and love she feels for Shawn. The man who gives her everything she craves and needs physically. Remember she goes to him now to get her physical satisfaction. She bonds with him a little more every time she fucks him and makes love to him. How can she not be falling in love with the man that she physically shares her body with.
I’m not sure I believe everything I read about bonding through semen and fluid sharing. How a woman becomes attached to the hormones and chemicals in a man’s semen when he cums in her and becomes physically as well as emotionally attached to the man who cums in her, but how many times has he cum in her the last month v. How many times you have.
How many orgasms have you given her v. how he’s given her.
Now some of what she does is no doubt performative for you, but has she said your name out loud as you two have sex, when you make her come since the Shawn affair has begun.
No doubt some of the denial with you is performative and meant to stoke the humiliation and angst that you desire and have shared with her.
But again, I would tread somewhat carefully here. You are dealing with the emotions of two people, one of whom you have no input with.
I know this sounds rather doom and gloom but this is just my reaction to your last several posts.
The relationships involved here seem to be reaching a critical point and I hope you’re ready and prepared for the fallout.
Is Lana capable of loving two men fully?

Honestly, I don't know how I would react to seeing him on top of her after he's made her cum and after he's exploded inside of her while they murmur I Love You's. In the confusion of it all, I think I wouldn't have any response other than to jerk off in the humiliation and pain of the moment. If you're right, and that they've already said the L word to each other, I would hope that she would have told me already. But maybe they did last night and she plans to tell me about it when she starts her day today. I dont' know if she's capable of loving two men at the same time, or if she's using the word in the heat of the moment and is confusing it for lust, but I think you're right that it's a critical time.

Update: Lana is up, Eric is clean and we're going to have a talk about if she's in love with Shawn in a bit after she gathers herself. I don't know if she'll say that they've already told each other that they love each other and how that may change things if at all. I think I'll feel slightly gutted if they are in love but maybe it's something I can accept. I really don't know.

This all depends on if you signed up for the fuck buddy experience or the boyfriend experience.
If it’s the fuck buddy then you are definitely getting what you want and now perhaps a bit more.
If it is the boyfriend experience you’re not quite there since they don’t really date, but emotionally you are either there or well on your way.
Good luck!!

[Upindown]

You might want to think about starting to keep tabs on her birth control pills...

[parmaham55]

Let’s be clear. First sign of love is not rampant sex. That’s lust. First sign of true love might be If they cooked together on a date evening, giggling over their different recipes for a beef ragu pasta as they share a bottle of Malbec - that’s kindling love. From what we know, they haven’t even spent much time outside the bedroom. I remember they went to gym together and spotted for each other, they went to coffee shop together, but even all that has fallen away, back to straightforward banging her pussy he now owns. He doesn’t own her heart. Don’t panic.
Be clear you want to be involved this weekend and watch them. It's time they dialled it back and involved you too. If he accepts that, and Lana does, then that's a great sign you can make this work all three together somehow.

[Wifesharing]

I was afraid of these feelings happening and I kind of noticed he wanted her behind your back much more then showing off in front of you. I think the doing it in front of you that one time was to put you in a lessor light to her in his mind.

Have they had sex more often then you know about ?
Obviously they have had more conversation then you knew.

It was sounding good that he was wanting to show her off like a slut but this wrinkle is dangerous for sure. So why is he still sending the Eric is clean messages this morning, it seems there is something you are missing I am not sure what but have that feeling

[william70]

I agree with some of what was said above. I'll add that what decisions made today will affect the rest of their lives. Read my posts above.
Lana is being selective in what she tells W. THAT is NOT a good sign.

[Wifesharing]

Let’s be clear. First sign of love is not rampant sex. That’s lust. First sign of true love might be If they cooked together on a date evening, giggling over their different recipes for a beef ragu pasta as they share a bottle of Malbec - that’s kindling love. From what we know, they haven’t even spent much time outside the bedroom. I remember they went to gym together and spotted for each other, they went to coffee shop together, but even all that has fallen away, back to straightforward banging her pussy he now owns. He doesn’t own her heart. Don’t panic.
Be clear you want to be involved this weekend and watch them. It's time they dialled it back and involved you too. If he accepts that, and Lana does, then that's a great sign you can make this work all three together somehow.

She has gone to his apartment several times in the last few weeks for at least several hours each time trust me there has been talking and bonding not just fucking. Plus no one knows how deep the conversations they have had at the gym or Coffee shop have been. Plus I remember one day she spend the entire day with Shawn and his friend at his apartment before going up to fuck in 770's bed.

It could still be nothing to worry about but it could also be very much a problem it is never super clear until it is

[Wifesharing]

I agree with some of what was said above. I'll add that what decisions made today will affect the rest of their lives. Read my posts above.
Lana is being selective in what she tells W. THAT is NOT a good sign.

Yes selective

[octavian]

We say all things in the heat of passion that we might not say in the cold light of day. I have no cuckold experience despite harbouring such a fantasy for a number of years. But I am an old boy (76) so I do have the benefit of some wisdom.
Yes Lana is besotted with his cock at present. And Shawn is besotted with her. But this is transitory. The sexual excitement will inevitably decline. Right now it is not inconceivable that Lana might want to run off with him. But she must also consider where she would be in say 10 year's time when he is only 35 and she is pushing 50.
The best thing is for Eric to continue where Shawn left off.

[Mattmattiass]

Sorry, but I would 100% put an end to it for a couple weeks.

[MonaLisaOverdrive]

Tbh, this is my biggest fear with the LS. I don't think I could handle my wife falling in love with another man.

The biggest step always seems to be from "Ill never love another man, youre my husband." To, "Yea, i love him but its different." Once the Rubicon has been crossed, its only a small step from "different" to "better."

The next time you watch them Shawn isn't going to fuck Lana, he is going to emotionally make love to her and she will declare it over and over again in front of you. That doesn't sound like what you signed up for my friend.

If it was me, I'd be calling the whole thing off because once this gets away from you and Shawn will certainly be trying, things can all come crashing down very quickly.