It might actually happen after years of telling me no.

[MonaLisaOverdrive]

Poor Cara

Poor Sebastian

Wait, I have an idea...

I like where this is going. w770 needs to get Caras husband an OHW account quick smart.

[Pecannut]

For me I always need a break from LS or kink activities. Then all suddenly those things start to be interesting again.

Just enjoy peaceful great time! Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us!

[shawnm]

I am more than hopeful and certain that in exactly 10-15 days or even earlier W & Lana will be back to this lifestyle and Adam will be balls deep inside Lana's ass. Remember, they had cut off Shawn too completely and taken a breather from this lifestyle, but the kink and addiction couldn't hold them much longer. If you remember, Shawn used to send Lana vids of him masturbating with Lana's bra hanging over his head and stuff.

I think the main reason our lovely couple went back to Adam after the breakup was because of his crazy behavior. I think Lana is massively addicted to such guys and their massive big cocks and W can't help himself as well, because the most adrenaline rush is always given by such creeps.

I am assuming that the main reason for getting off this lifestyle is mainly their reputation, as currently its outed and there is a huge risk of Adam going to town with various shocking sexy vids of him and lana and especially where lana mocks W's sexual prowess to another level.

I feel this is how it would go:
- Adam is told by Lana that she won't be meeting him any longer as suddenly she is feeling very guilty and suddenly her cheating pussy decided to get exclusive to her cuck husband.
- Adam will try solid convincing her for few days and if Lana doesn't relent, he will be pissed off and the 1st thing he will do is to share vids of his weekend activity with Lana to her husband. I strongly believe that he must have kept hidden cams in his rooms to record their activity, which most likely will be proved once this thing plays out. He will also share it to W cause he would believe that after last time he had shared it to W, Lana had went to cheat with him. So for him, the probability of this happening is high.
- At that time, Lana and W will be super pissed and they will go through various scenarios and will decide to again include Adam in their play, but this time with their rules. He will have to fuck Lana in presence of W.
- Think Adam should be purposely offended, so his true character can be exposed quickly. Cause, now or later, thats going to happen anyway, so better to let it happen early and see how it goes.

On the side, keenly awaiting all minute updates of the weekend from W.

[leander99]

The best way to deal with Adam is to wean him off slowly.

Don't just tell him it's over. Instead say "not now, but maybe later" He'll get bored and eventually move on, bit probably without spoiling a situation that he still believes still has future potential.

[tojanman]

Congratulations to W and Lana. You are amazing in your decision-making together and how close you are. That's good to see. Of course it's only late Tuesday when you had that conversation, less than 3 days since Lana's last pounding, so take your time! You two are the best. Please keep us updated, and please fill us in on those outstanding questions if you can!
is it the knowledge of Lana's friend that's swaying this?
Was it the anal sex?
Will she continue in use of butt plug with you perhaps?
Is there still trickle-truth to come out of events you still don't know about?
is it easier to stop this time because there seems to be zero emotional attachment?

Always so many questions! Fed by your excellent updates. Whatever you do, I wish you both well.

Are you referring to Ky_Da?

[parmaham55]

While easing their way back to a simpler, vanilla relationship and family, there’s another road that’s possible.

1. Cut off Adam completely, and Sebastian, but stay on BC for a while yet.
2. Tell Cara that decision is made, and lifestyle is all over
3. Meet Shawn in the gym or elevator when he returns, either planned or accidentally.
4. Have one last final fling and game with Shawn for a short while - both Lana and W fully enjoying all aspects. Explain to Shawn it’s for a limited time.
5. Offer up anal to Shawn and see the smile on his face. Perhaps introducing him to it. Have fun with anal play, butt plugs, denial for W, secret assignations, etc.
6. Finish up with Shawn.
7. Come off BC.

Whatever the decision, W, you’ve both had a fantastic ride in the lifestyle, and made a lot of deposits to what we might call your wank-bank, that’ll last you well into your retirement!!

[WarrenOldcuck]

Hi W, thank you so much for sharing your story. I think it's a wonderful plan you've come up with. Lana has proved herself to be a totally committed loving wife even with all of the wonderful sex she's had with others. If you do ultimately decide to leave the LS have you discussed how you'll handle Shawn's return? Whatever you decide, I wish you both every happiness.

[w770]

I found some time, so I wanted to answer this list of questions that ShawnM posted a few days ago.

Hey W, read all your updates and those are some fantastic updates and very happy for both of you. You guys are made for each other.

- When she was denying you,
-- Did she or Adam plan that part?
-- When did their first anal talk initiate. And did he finger or rub her ass before this weekend?
-- When was her first ever anal interaction physically done with Adam or if others?
-- Was she wearing a buttplug for preparation while denying you?
-- Did Adam instruct her to wear a buttplug or she did that on her own. i.e. her decision.
-- Was she wearing a buttplug during her hair appointment and I think she was also full of his cum up her pussy that time.
-- How did she prepare for anal, since it's her first time? Did she do an enema or how?
-- How many times they did do anal? Did they do this only on Sat after or night and sun morn also? Did she orgasm from it?
- I feel he will demand her ass every time now and she can't do shit about it, but present her sexy ass every time now. I think the rough poundings she has been taking in her pussy will soon happen backdoor too. can't believe she took that massive cock up her ass.
- I feel you should have kept the phone hidden in the room as a secret as you could have discovered a lot during their video chats.
- did you notice hickies or bruises on her body?
- was her ass red from spanking
- would she allow you to fuck her ass since you have a small cock that should not be prob?
- when you called in the morning, what exact sex play were they doing?
- Will you still call banana-rama? or continue playing this cheating wife game, where you are unaware?
- Were there any talks of Adam telling her to deny you once she left and came back to you Sunday, but she simply ignore it?
- Did Adam fuck her just before she grabbed the taxi as she was full of his cum
- When you fucked her for the first time, Did she feel very loose? Did she tell you she can't feel you? How was it?
- Did you tell her about the angst and drunken state you were in the first night and how did you take it? i.e. you were very lonely and upset and in very conflicting state. Did she emotionally counsel you?
- Did she drink adam's cum many times during their weekend? Has Adam had other lovers drink his cum? If its his first time, then he would be mighty impressed.
- was he also in choking and other bdsm play?

When she was denying you,
-- Did she or Adam plan that part?
I read over their entire text history and so I was able to confirm that denying me was originally Adam's idea. Lana had some reservations about it at first, but he eventually convinced her. She has something in her that continuously wants to please him.

-- When did their first anal talk initiate. And did he finger or rub her ass before this weekend?
Anal talk started in CT, but she flatly refused every time. The convincing took place over the course of the week via text. He knew how turned on she was watching him stroke his cock and cum on his chest/abs, so he would tell her that she wanted his cock, that she would have to at least be open to trying anal with him at least once.

-- When was her first ever anal interaction physically done with Adam or if others?
Adam is the one and only guy she's ever had anything anal related.

-- Was she wearing a buttplug for preparation while denying you?
She wore one on Friday night and Saturday during the day for him.

-- Did Adam instruct her to wear a buttplug or she did that on her own. i.e. her decision.
It was of his volition. He's the one that bought it for her and gave it to her Friday.

-- Was she wearing a buttplug during her hair appointment and I think she was also full of his cum up her pussy that time.
Yeah, she wore it at the hairdresser's and at brunch with her girlfriends.

-- How did she prepare for anal, since it's her first time? Did she do an enema or how?
I think the butt plug was her only prep.

-- How many times they did do anal? Did they do this only on Sat after or night and sun morn also? Did she orgasm from it?
They only had anal on Saturday night. He wanted to do it again on Sunday morning but she said he was too rough and she was sore. She orgasmed by rubbing her clit while he pounded her, but she doesn't think that the act of doing anal itself gave her the orgasm.

- I feel he will demand her ass every time now and she can't do shit about it, but present her sexy ass every time now. I think the rough poundings she has been taking in her pussy will soon happen backdoor too. can't believe she took that massive cock up her ass.
- I feel you should have kept the phone hidden in the room as a secret as you could have discovered a lot during their video chats.
- did you notice hickies or bruises on her body?
Yes, she had red marks on her ass cheeks when she came back to me on Sunday morning.

- would she allow you to fuck her ass since you have a small cock that should not be prob?
I'm not sure actually as I haven't tried to fuck her ass, but I might do it just to be denied.

- when you called in the morning, what exact sex play were they doing?
she was on her back and he was standing off the edge of the bed.

- Will you still call banana-rama? or continue playing this cheating wife game, where you are unaware?
Well we are currently on banana-rama as the game is paused until we figure out what we want to do, and who we want to do it with .

- Were there any talks of Adam telling her to deny you once she left and came back to you Sunday, but she simply ignore it?
There were not. I think since he "had" her, I was then allowed in his eyes to take her pussy with his cum leaking out.

- Did Adam fuck her just before she grabbed the taxi as she was full of his cum
He did. They fucked for about an hour and a half Sunday morning, and right after he came in her, she called the Uber. I think she wanted to have his musk on her for me as she came home.

- When you fucked her for the first time, Did she feel very loose? Did she tell you she can't feel you? How was it?
She did feel a bit loose, but that could have been because she was full of his cum. The moment I sank my dick into her pussy was probably the most intense and (not sure if it's the right word) psychedelic moment of our journey. The feeling of reconnecting with her after what we had just been through was extremely powerful, and the fact that she had another man's cum in her, only intensified the moment.

- Did you tell her about the angst and drunken state you were in the first night and how did you take it? i.e. you were very lonely and upset and in very conflicting state. Did she emotionally counsel you?
She did console me and it's a reason why we're thinking of not repeating what we just did which involved an entire week of denial, being away for multiple days, with essentially no communication. If anything, I think we could do the week long denial along with overnights, but the non-communication was too much for both of us.

- Did she drink adam's cum many times during their weekend? Has Adam had other lovers drink his cum? If its his first time, then he would be mighty impressed.

She swallowed one load, but every other load went into her pussy, and one in her ass.
- was he also in choking and other bdsm play?

there was no choking. Lana's not really into that, and I'm not sure if Adam is either as I didn't see any talk of it in their conversation and she didn't say that he even tried it.

Update: We caught the sunrise this morning, took the dogs home and went to the gym. After coming home, we made love and played some of the videos that Adam recorded. She would give me context to the videos as we watched them. For example, in the video where she was riding him, she told me that she would squeeze his pecs and shoulders, and as she came, she dug her nails into him so much so that he had scratch marks all over his chest by the end of the weekend. He would also sit up and bury his face in her breasts, and they would fuck like this, in the lotus position, so that they were face to face. She said it was incredibly intimate whenever they would do this and during those times, in between their kissing, he would ask her, "does sex feel better with me than your husband?" Whenever she would confirm his as the better lover, he would increase his intensity as he REALLY loved knowing that he was the better lover.

There was also another video where she was again riding him, and it appeared that he had set up her phone on a chair so that it was a view of her on top of him with her ass to the camera. I could clearly see their mixed juices flowing down his shaft as she rode him, moaning the entire time like a whore. Every so often, he would spank her from this position, followed by him squeezing her ass cheek after slapping it. She told me that after that video ended, that he picked her up and fucked her against the wall (not recorded). She would tell him that her and I never fuck like that, and that I only make love to her in missionary, to which he laughed at.

We're still on pause for the moment. Adam has been texting her, telling her not to feel guilty, and that it's not her fault, as I'm unable to satisfy her. We haven't yet decided our next move just yet, as we're still enjoying the peace of being a simple and boring couple.

[Just4you32]

w770, thanks for sharing your journey. It’s a great read, and I easily find myself feeling some of your emotions as you go through them. My thoughts on your rama. You guys have jumped off the cliff in terms of hotwife/cuckold play. You are either totally out or she’s getting fucked 4 times a week and leaving you at night etc. I’d suggest that there is a middle ground where you can both enjoy the sex and thrill without compromising your alone time and quiet reflection. I think the issue has just been that you’ve taken some of the easy fruit (first hot/large guys to come around) instead of searching for a guy that will help fit where you guys want to be. If you were open to the search, there are plenty of guys that can be dominant, play into the kink, are incredibly fit, AND (and this is the biggest one you haven’t found) be respectful of your marriage without being needy. The issue comes into finding a bull that understands he’s a complement intended to add to and not take away from the marriage (even if the kink at the time is “taking away” for a short agreed upon time); you guys haven’t waited or found that yet. Sounds like Sebastian has the making of something like that possibly. But I think you would get everything you’d like - not in hw mode texting constantly, dominant during play times, hung great mind blowing sex for Lana, and yet then it’s you guys.

Just my .02. There is a compromise where you get everything you want. It would just take some looking and vetting.

[Mattmattiass]

I agree. There is probably a middle ground between nothing in the lifestyle and she denies you with no communication about it for a week while she is actively doing things with someone else (not to mention the two nights away).

In any event, I’m glad you’re happy and having routine sex with your wife. Life must be good.

[diet_dew_86]

It almost feels like there is an alcoholic-like dimension to Lana's engagement in hotwifing. I think for you and her it would work better if she could modulate a little. Maybe some of that is the personality of these uber-bulls. Unless she does become pregnant I really wonder if she would stop the cycle of sobriety and falling off the wagon.

[ResponsibullCummings]

I think you are making a good decision. Your plan originally was to start working on having a family after Shawn moved back home. You've had more fun in the mean time if you really want to start a family it's best to end it. Make sure she's done with it before she stops taking the pill. There was another epic poster that had a similar story with his wife becoming pretty serious with her boyfriend. They broke it off to have kids. She went off the pill. They decided to play some more and she let the boyfriend cum in her and she need up having his twins instead of the kids the planned to have together. He hasn't updated in a long time. Others may remember his story

If you can find it, I'd really love to read that one.

This is the story I referenced by Ky_Da
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=50292

[Oneillfranko]

Getting on with your plan to have a family is also a super life opportunity which you might regret not taking. The adrenaline rush of the past few months can always be yours again in the future if you both want it, but the window on moving forward with the planned family will not be there forever. Just my 0.02, and we will sure miss you. It’s been

[edgedndenied]

W
One thing I know a lot of us on here would like to know is your dicussion about Lana breaching your trust and telling Cara about your open marriage and Adam. How did that go?

[SixInchDick]

Question: I know you mentioned that Adam can no longer record videos with his phone, but I don't recall you following up on the whole issue of him deleting the existing material. Where do you guys stand on that?

[parmaham55]

W, thanks for your brilliant update again.
One tiny question....what happened in her car? Please can you explore that? Is this part of some trickle-truth of coverup still? Did they meet after CT at some time you don't know about. Can you cast your mind back to any periods of 2-4 hour stretch when you don't know Lana's whereabouts - anytime between CT and last weekend?

[w770]

W, thanks for your brilliant update again.
One tiny question....what happened in her car? Please can you explore that? Is this part of some trickle-truth of coverup still? Did they meet after CT at some time you don't know about. Can you cast your mind back to any periods of 2-4 hour stretch when you don't know Lana's whereabouts - anytime between CT and last weekend?

Right sorry I forgot to update on that. I asked her about the car, as I mentioned that I heard them talking about it on the hidden phone. On one of the last days of Adam being in CT, we relaxed a bit on the safety measures of me being in the common area when they would fuck so I could be no more than 5 min away should she need me. But it had been close to 2 weeks of them fucking at that point, so Lana felt safe around him. So there was a afternoon when I took the dogs on a long hike and she told me that she would be hanging out with Adam. He had mentioned how he knew of a spot he wanted to show her that he and his buddies found the other day during their outdoors adventures. They took our car and drove up to an area where it was secluded in nature, with a great view of the lake and wilderness. She had never had sex out in nature like that before but he's somehow able to get her to do new things. So as they found the spot, they both went into the backseat, and fucked for about an hour. After she came on his alpha cock, riding him and telling him how he fucks her better than me, they drove back to the cabins before I made it back with the dogs.

[w770]

Question: I know you mentioned that Adam can no longer record videos with his phone, but I don't recall you following up on the whole issue of him deleting the existing material. Where do you guys stand on that?

So she asked to go through his phone and deleted the videos that she thought our friends or family might be able to determine that it's her - so videos where he's using her name, and ones where you can hear her voice. But as some have mentioned here, he could have made backups so you never know...

W
One thing I know a lot of us on here would like to know is your dicussion about Lana breaching your trust and telling Cara about your open marriage and Adam. How did that go?

So as suggested by shawnm, we spoke with Cara and said that we really want to keep the fact that we're in an open marriage a secret. I trust Cara so we don't think it'll go further than Cara and her husband.

[isinlarsa]

w770. Do you know that Cara shared with her husband that you and Lana are in an open marriage?

[w770]

w770. Do you know that Cara shared with her husband that you and Lana are in an open marriage?

She did. But he's a good guy and I feel as if I can trust him to not say anything.

What's funny is that Cara still wants me to talk to Cory about having an open marriage like I'm some kind of pro. Lol.

[edgedndenied]

Thanks for the update W
What drove Lana to tell Cara about your marriage.I thought you wanted to keep it private. Did she tell Cara at lunch on Saturday or did Lana tell Cara before
Thanks again for your keeping us updated

[isinlarsa]

w770. Do you know that Cara shared with her husband that you and Lana are in an open marriage?

She did. But he's a good guy and I feel as if I can trust him to not say anything.

What's funny is that Cara still wants me to talk to Cory about having an open marriage like I'm some kind of pro. Lol.

An open marriage or a hotwife marriage? Did you get any feedback on how Cory reacted when Care told him? Doesn't seem much sense in talking to him, unless he was at least open to the idea.

You may not consider yourself a pro, but you have had the experience.

[TheHammer]

w770. Do you know that Cara shared with her husband that you and Lana are in an open marriage?

She did. But he's a good guy and I feel as if I can trust him to not say anything.

What's funny is that Cara still wants me to talk to Cory about having an open marriage like I'm some kind of pro. Lol.

Have Lana provide Cara Adams contact info and let nature take care of itself

[w770]

Hi W, thank you so much for sharing your story. I think it's a wonderful plan you've come up with. Lana has proved herself to be a totally committed loving wife even with all of the wonderful sex she's had with others. If you do ultimately decide to leave the LS have you discussed how you'll handle Shawn's return? Whatever you decide, I wish you both every happiness.

Getting on with your plan to have a family is also a super life opportunity which you might regret not taking. The adrenaline rush of the past few months can always be yours again in the future if you both want it, but the window on moving forward with the planned family will not be there forever. Just my 0.02, and we will sure miss you. It’s been

w770, thanks for sharing your journey. It’s a great read, and I easily find myself feeling some of your emotions as you go through them. My thoughts on your rama. You guys have jumped off the cliff in terms of hotwife/cuckold play. You are either totally out or she’s getting fucked 4 times a week and leaving you at night etc. I’d suggest that there is a middle ground where you can both enjoy the sex and thrill without compromising your alone time and quiet reflection. I think the issue has just been that you’ve taken some of the easy fruit (first hot/large guys to come around) instead of searching for a guy that will help fit where you guys want to be. If you were open to the search, there are plenty of guys that can be dominant, play into the kink, are incredibly fit, AND (and this is the biggest one you haven’t found) be respectful of your marriage without being needy. The issue comes into finding a bull that understands he’s a complement intended to add to and not take away from the marriage (even if the kink at the time is “taking away” for a short agreed upon time); you guys haven’t waited or found that yet. Sounds like Sebastian has the making of something like that possibly. But I think you would get everything you’d like - not in hw mode texting constantly, dominant during play times, hung great mind blowing sex for Lana, and yet then it’s you guys.

Just my .02. There is a compromise where you get everything you want. It would just take some looking and vetting.

All really sweet sentiments thank you. Without this board as a resource, I feel like I would've had multiple panic attacks.

Update: we've talked about our feelings a lot in the last 48 hours. We're leaning towards quitting the lifestyle, so least for a while to focus on starting a family. I asked her about Shawn and Sebastian and she said that there was just something about Adam that he gave her the best sex of her life. She loved being a "cheating" wife and she loved how much he loved it. So she's thinking she wants to leave things on a high note. Nothing certain yet but that's where we are currently.

[TheHammer]

Sounds like a mike drop and your little dirty slut has left the stage.

She has also left you with a lifetime of memories over the past six months