Two Weeks to go

[Knotty Irish]

I just washed my wife in the shower and watched her get ready to go to her boyfriend to stay the night. It is an amazing experience.

[Peaks23]

Be careful with high expectations.

They can only fall with a big bang.

First time, the wife is normally very nervous, and it will not be very good.

So, keep the expectations down, it is better to be surprised that it was better than expected than opposite.

Yeah, I totally understand that. She is nervous, but the good thing here is that as he is an ex, and she knows he's good. Very good. The only unknown is that it's been such a long time and she's hoping he's still as hot as he was and not turned into a flubby salad dodger!

[_xavier_]

I know most people are interested in the hot details, but at the moment the biggest learning experience for me is being cool calm and collected when she's texting him and I don't know what they are saying.

It's amazingly tough, as it's the first time I've experienced this. Any past experiences my partner at the time did it with me, entirely and completely, so I'm used to knowing everything and seeing everything.

A(my wife) prefers to do it this way. Sometimes she shares with me what's going on and sometimes not. It's not that I don't trust her, but it's a weird dynamic, that I'm hoping evaporates after her meeting has been completed.

I think this is the important part though. She's not your puppet, she needs a little space and privacy to flirt or she won't be able to do it fully. Try to be content with the updates she gives you, the less you pressure her to see the messages or have her recount exactly what was exchanged, the more she'll probably choose to share. You'll get the highlights, like her bff girlfriend would. Embrace that. That's who a woman wants to talk to about the sex she's having and the butterflies she's getting in her stomach, her supportive bestie. Not an auditor or a husband who wants to peer over her shoulder for his own satisfaction. Let her soak in her own infatuation and she'll express all the excitement and giddiness she's having in a more honest way.

So no fucking her until he does, but she's also not letting you lick that perfectly smooth pussy? Poor thing

[Peaks23]

Torture, absolute torture.

The date has been delayed and moved back until 8th September.

I'd just got into the "2 sleeps to go" mode and due to unforeseen circumstances, it's had to be moved. Still very much happening, but I've got longer to wait!

[kaskap79]

If you are lucky, you can get some waxed pussy tonight.

[Peaks23]

If you are lucky, you can get some waxed pussy tonight.

Here's hoping!!

But I think she will still be making me cum whilst masturbating, she likes watching me do that.

[rascalnvixen]

If there is a silver lining to this delay, maybe she will still fuck you tomorrow night or maybe even tonight!!!!!! That would be something to celebrate!!!!

Rascal

[Long Lurker 34]

Torture, absolute torture.

The date has been delayed and moved back until 8th September.

I'd just got into the "2 sleeps to go" mode and due to unforeseen circumstances, it's had to be moved. Still very much happening, but I've got longer to wait!

P23 - Remember the old ketchup commercials? "Anticipa-aaaaatioooonn. It's making me wait."

[lovethis]

what happened the agony for you both. Reset your thinking and restart the countdown. Mission control we have a problem.

[lovethis]

[Peaks23]

what happened the agony for you both. Reset your thinking and restart the countdown. Mission control we have a problem.

Nothing drastic, just work/life balance meant we've had to rearrange.

The positive out of this is that she's really really keen to meet up and actively worked out a rearranged date, admitting that she's looking forward to it and to them fucking like rabbits.

[joel68]

Why the change?

[Peaks23]

A work thing happened.

At least another date is set....

[joel68]

Maybe it wii cause both of you to be hornier for her to get fucked. Him too for that matter.

Looking forward to hearing all about it and the aftermath as well.

So I guess a new countdown will begin in a week or so.

[Abrandnewstart194]

The sudden disappointment she felt can only have forced her to accept that despite any nerves, she really wants this for herself.

[Peaks23]

The sudden disappointment she felt can only have forced her to accept that despite any nerves, she really wants this for herself.

I wholeheartedly agree with you!

[Abrandnewstart194]

The angst of waiting is only a fraction of the angst you will feel when you know she’s in bed with him. It’s both delicious and terrifying.

[realcucklife]

Work thing on her end or his end?
If he has moved the date, keep an eye on her as much as she says she is fine especially with a new date booked, she will be disappointed, anxious and have self doubt that she is good enough, is that why he canceled. Extra effort from you to help her process everything, and any other concerns she may have..

[Peaks23]

Work thing on her end or his end?
If he has moved the date, keep an eye on her as much as she says she is fine especially with a new date booked, she will be disappointed, anxious and have self doubt that she is good enough, is that why he canceled. Extra effort from you to help her process everything, and any other concerns she may have..

Fair points! It was him actually, and yes there have been a few doubtful moments, but it all appears to be very much on track, but I'll certainly take your advice on board!

In fact it seems to have made her realise that she wants to fuck him, and admitted as much to me.

[Peaks23]

Ok so the countdown MkII begins.

TEN sleeps.

We have both said and agreed that we just want to get this done.
Not in a negative way, but more the fact that we both know we want it to happen so let's just get there already!!

It's time to enjoy it...

[Peaks23]

Ok so 1 sleep down....

NINE to go.

for 7 days or so it'll seem like it's a lifetime away then all of a sudden it'll be the night before, nerves kicking in to overdrive, mixed with the excitement.

Since the original date was moved, we haven't had any fantasy playtime, or any playtime of any kind. I think today will be a good day to once again, have our final playtime and then to let the horniness build and build.....

[Peaks23]

Eight Sleeps to go.

It's weirdly quiet. Not much conversation at all over the last day or so. I know that they've been messaging each other but that's about it.

I'm just hoping that it's the calm before the multi orgasmic storm that awaits her.

From my position it feels odd. I think pretty much all the talk has been done so there's not much to say. It's a waiting game, and I'm not very good at that, but I do understand that it can be "over talked" from her position. I guess I just expect her to be horny about the prospect all the time (like me).

Fingers crossed that as it gets closer, the tension, nerves & excitement ramp up once again.

[lovethis]

Are you gettin any 8 days out?

[Peaks23]

Are you gettin any 8 days out?

Last night

[joel68]

So how many days before are you going to stop with her?

You do want to make sure that she’s super horny for him. That will likely make their fuck session hotter.