Potentially the Start

[BallSpanking]

Your wife mentioned she originally intended to shut down HW'ing after a two week indulgence, but now has changed her mind and is unwilling to discontinue it, and in fact was interested in pursuing the lifestyle further!
I was wondering, what exactly pursuing the lifestyle further meant? Was she implying dating other men? Or MFM threesomes?
Any idea?

[lockedhappyhubby]

Wow, What a wonderful cuckolded update. While reading and visualizing you two had my cage really tight, thanks for that. Don't fret about the condom rule a lot of our wives have the same required by their boyfriend. Makes me last longer which is good.
You had to feel a sense of pride when she told you "All while I've had the most amazing sex of my life and it is all because of you, thank you love."
Congratulations DDW, can't wait to hear of their date at the hotel on New Years.
Cheers to you.

[Deepdownwannabe]

The lead up to NYE has been tough. Yesterday she asked me for help, and not knowing what she meant I agreed. Only she wanted my opinion on the best outfit. So, unbeknownst to me, when I was called upstairs, she stepped out of the bathroom, fully dressed up in what could be a NYE outfit. I was floored, it was spectacular. Nothing she ever would have worn before. "Remember, I will not have seen him since our weekend away, what would he prefer?" I was shocked she was asking me this. "And keep in mind the makeup will be all done up".

The first outfit as a black, deeply low-cut dress, the cleavage very visible. It was the sexiest dress I had ever seen her wear. Form fitting, and almost floor length. Classy yet sexy. Turning her back to me, she invited me to unzip it and when it fell to the floor another corset hugged her body tightly. The garters she seems to have become accustomed to wearing. She was beautiful. I was in awe. "Ok, that's outfit one, now give me a few minutes".

I had to leave the room and come back 15 minutes later. And the look was completely different. "The first one was the classy one, but being New Years I thought I might want to mix it up. She turned to reveal just that, something completely different. A black sheer topped dress, sheer to the point I could see her entire bra underneath, and it was fairly sheer as well. Her nipples were quite visible. The dress length was much shorter, the tops of her stockings visible under the hem. It was completely opposite to the first outfit. Yet here she was proudly wearing it. I was floored. "Yes, I know, quite different. Just wanted your opinion, and judging by your reaction, I think I have it....thanks". That was it.

[Deepdownwannabe]

Your wife mentioned she originally intended to shut down HW'ing after a two week indulgence, but now has changed her mind and is unwilling to discontinue it, and in fact was interested in pursuing the lifestyle further!
I was wondering, what exactly pursuing the lifestyle further meant? Was she implying dating other men? Or MFM threesomes?
Any idea?

I honestly have no idea what it may entail...

[MustBeDenied2]

Wow! She is pushing all the cuckold buttons. Will she be getting ready at home or at a hotel or his place? I do hope you get the experience again of watching her prepare for her date. It’s been a while.

[Deepdownwannabe]

Hello all, it is DDWHW and things seemed to have slowed down in this chat, is our experience too dull now? If so, then I am not so sure what else can be done to keep your interest.

I've just spent a nice holiday week with cuck, doing all the things a married couple do together during the holidays. It was nice and relaxing and it re-affirmed our relationship. But as some have you have pointed out, tomorrow is New Years Eve and I will be spending it with my boyfriend. And yes, perhaps NYE will be an indication of what the year has in store, who knows? But if it is, then I am ready for it. Because as you have read, the last few months has been the most exciting sexual time of my life. And I am ready for whatever comes our way.

Happy New Year! DDWHW

[BallSpanking]

I think we know who cums in you first in 2024 ...
Have a Happy New Year, BTW!

[realcucklife]

Hello to the both of you.
Wow things are escalating nicely, I continue to be impressed with DDWHW new adventures, and sounds like she is having such fun, and finding her own voice/sexual desirability.
And how lucky is the cuck, her and understanding of the games that her as all cucks love. The involvement, denial, intimacy allowed with Xmas treat, but the denial at the cliff with the rubbers. He is not having to provide ideas, and have the courage to disclose how naughty/nasty his fantasies are she is just taking him there.
I’m sure she did a lot more teasing and trash talk, than the condensed version we read about, love to hear more about that, and her thoughts about how much he seems to enjoy being put second.
Can’t wait to see the next adventure, and how far she is prepared to push the humiliation games. What she got in store?
There is some nice past experiences shared on this page, should I point some out?
How about HW, is she just happy with NRE? What fantasies, does she wish to get out and try?

[grnlght]

IMO Speaking for myself only It is not that i slowed down just most questions i had go unanswered so i just kick back read the updates and move on, no pics to comment on and such and some of the updates are not really some thing i would comment on or should i say have a comment worth much to add but a good read none the less.
P.S. For a thread only having 3 months there are 19 pages that is not to shabby

~HAPPY NEW YEAR~

[leander99]

Happy new year DDWHW,

Dont worry about things slowing down. It may feel that way, but people are reading your an DDW's story. It's also a time when people are busy witg their own lives.

I hope you have great fun this new year

[elina]

Dearest DDWHW and cuck of DDWHW (he is no longer a mere Wannabe).

I am really sorry that we are failing to live up to DDWHW expectations here.
For me, the interest has certainly not died down. But no relationships evolves at the same pace all the time.
It was really intense in the period of time leading up to Great Milestone of 2023, where you, DDWHW gave Yourself to your new Lover or Boydriend and committed to him that your Pussy now belongs to him. I was really impressed to see how you skillfully navigated this to ensure you retained and increased your control of you now Cuckold Hubby.

In particular appreciated how you interacted with two of your girlfriends and got their support in moving forward. I believe it is probably very important for Ladies making this very important change in their Life when the Lady takes control and starts to enjoy the Sex-life and emotional life with a Boyfriend, while converting their hubby to a cuckold role. I would really love to learn more about the first and subsequent discussions with these Ladies. Personally, I also think you should invite the Ladies over and have your cuck serve you coffe / wine / snacks or whatever as you discuss his cuckold status with your Lady friends in front of him.

One key question to me if you are now willing to reveal this, what was the most important online resources you consulted to encourage you to move the way you did?

For me, I cannot wait to learn about the next important milestone in Your journey; You spending New Years with your Boyfriend, seducing him completely. (We still do not know which of the outfits you modeled in front of your cuck you actually elected to use?) and in particular to understand what measures you will now take to keep your cuck motivated to serve you. Personally, I believe it is very imporant that the Lady, may we now please be allowed to address you as the Cuckoldress of DD?, increases Her control of Her cuck, restricting his orgasms and raises Her expectations to his contributions with cleaning, cooking, and other domestic tasks to help You free up time to enjoy your Boyfriend take care of your needs.

I wish both of you a Very Happy New Year.

Sincerely
elina
(Submissive male)

[leander99]

Well, it's Sunday so Im just gonna say Amen and Hallelujah to everything Elina just wrote.

[FFDriver]

"Hello all, it is DDWHW and things seemed to have slowed down in this chat, is our experience too dull now? If so, then I am not so sure what else can be done to keep your interest."

Mrs. DDWHW, I don't think a loss of interest exists by any means. As you said, this past week was spent with you and DDW. I'm sure it was a private time shared between the two of you, as it should be. If you look at the number of postings on the site, you'll notice they ebb in all classifications. I'm sure the postings will increase the moment DDW recants your activities with your boyfriend over New Years and into the new year.

His recap of your 'Christmas present' was certainly enticing. I really wondered what you'd planned. The condom wasn't a surprise, but penetration was. I anticipated hearing you say, "Enjoy it. It might be the last time you ever experience this until I give up boyfriend(s) forever."

Other things I half expected; your handcuffing him behind his back and then removing the cage, or giving him a new, more restrictive cage along with women's panties to wear. What we don't know, is what you and/or boyfriend will come up with for the new year. New rules? More restrictive rules? I could easily see a reduction or loss of nudity. You're exclusive with him, maybe you'll want to give him your body exclusively in the new year. (Didn't he tell you, your body is his now? Maybe he won't want to share it). If DDW losses nudity but retains the right to touch you through your clothes, or retains nudity but loses the right to fondle you?

Maybe you'll return home after New Years and tell DDW you're spending Friday and Saturday nights with your boyfriend now, or maybe adding one night during the week.

The mind of a cuck is an interesting thing. Despite all the anxiety, etcetera, involved, I'd almost wager my next few retirement checks that the sterner and more restrictive you become, the more he will like it. The key, of course, being the reinforcement that he's the love of your life, and the boyfriend only satisfies the lust.

In closing, I'll forever remember overhearing my English teacher in high school (a fox in her own right) telling 'her girls.' "Boyfriends are for recreation and husbands are for procreation."

Happy New Year to all three of you.............

[MustBeDenied2]

I eagerly await updates on this thread. The thing that prompts me to comment is when I get to “hear” the dialog between you two. I love when you push his buck buttons like you’ve been doing.

Happy New Year to you, DDW, DDWHW and boyfriend. Enjoy you your evening!

[frb]

DDWHW,

This is the only thread I'm interested in currently. You are creative and love your husband. You have an intuitive feel for the things that will turn him on, and we're in the same boat. Your story is beyond fun to follow.

Your husband is somewhat tight-lipped though out of concern for your privacy. He's not crass, just as you are classy-sexy. We get that and respect it. It just makes this thread less interactive than some, so we're contenting ourselves with whatever he's willing to reveal.

Believe me there is no lack of interest. We're hanging on every word from both of you. If there's something we can do to make things even more fun on your end please let us know.

[funfortwo]

This is not DDW, but this is DDW's wife, sorry DDW's hotwife. I was told that there were some of you might want to hear my thoughts on all of this and what has happened to this point. I knew he was keeping a journal on here of some sort but never looked at it until now. So with some downtime in the holidays here is my two cents at doing so.

I have to say that cuck has done a fine job of capturing it all, I'll give him credit for that. And he has maintained the element of privacy which if he didn't I'd tell him to shut this down right now. But it seems to be allowing him an avenue of escape for what has no doubt been quite a few months. So in the words of the other half of the equation, here is my point of view of the last few months.

Cuck did a great job describing me, I was always unsure of myself, never overly confident in the world of sex and intimacy. Never felt I was attractive enough, all the standard things a woman in her 40s thinks about. And I'll be honest, it was quite a shock to initially hear he might have an interest in this for real.

I did my digging, no doubt down the same rabbit-holes that cuck had found. And I pushed him a little with small little suggestions or innuendos, that if he ever pushed back on, then I would throw away the idea for good, all the while learning of the various things a hotwife relationship could entail.

And the point I decided to go through with it? The night we had a serious talk and I asked him point blank if he wanted me to be a hotwife. His answer cemented it and in my mind, I decided I would try this once, somehow, to basically call his bluff. But I was going to do it under my rules and nothing else. And the biggest part of this equation was going to be honesty. I was not going to be anything but honest otherwise it was just going to be some cheap act.

As he perfectly outlined, I decided I had to play the part. I started dressing a little nicer, a little more attention to how I looked. Even started going to the gym more. And the ball started rolling even more when I confided to a couple of my girl friends. There was no judgement from them so that certainly helped me that this was ok. And that led to the introduction to my current boyfriend.

At this point I should add, my intentions were still a one or two week fling to put it in the back of my husbands mind for good. I had zero ideas it would evolve to what it has to this day. I kept sleeping with my hubby but every time it would turn into a roleplay about this upcoming scenario. And that seemed to excite him even more (and me too I'll be honest). What I had read that the mindplay was an emotional tool in all of this was certainly proving to be true. That is when the cage idea came in, I basically wanted him to know that any time he was caged I had a hall pass, more of the mental games.

When it came time for my initial dates, I was incredibly nervous, but I was not going to show any of that in front of my husband, I was going to look the cool, calm and collected wife who knew what she was doing. And I did not want to look like some cheap skank on the prowl, which is why I decided I would approach this in the classic look, or as I saw cuck put it "classic beauty".

This is when I started to notice a little difference in myself. I was getting charged up a little more than I would in the past. The increase in the sex drive that cuck has reference? It started here and while at the time I would not be able to pinpoint why, looking at it months later it is much easier to choose why. I was enjoying the fact that cuck was out of his normalcy, he was nervous, uneasy. And I had someone who seemed rather attracted to a middle age lady. It felt nice, I can't lie there. I started to throw luttle zingers at hubby to see how he'd react and he never fought back at me, he accepted it all as it was happening. I even got him to say he still supported me before I made it official.

Now, let me say this about cuck. He has no doubt learned a lot the last few months, both about me but himself as well. And I hope it is what he wanted. But for all of those that are thinking this is how marriages end, that will not happen. Ever. Cuck is my soulmate and I love him very much. How could I not? He has seen me take a lover into my bed and he seems to be only focused on my happiness. I will never leave him as a result of anything that happens on these pages. So I hope that helps calm all you naysayers out there. We are married and will forever be married. But what happens along the way is still tbd.

So, I guess I should say something about my boyfriend too. He is someone who has been perfect for this unveiling of the new me. He has been caring, knowing I have a family, but also a touch strict and demanding when in the role of boyfriend. I am sure he has to handle a few things as he reflects on this relationship but I can assure you he is quite a man and I have been lucky to find someone like him as this new life has opened up. And physically? He has brought me to levels I never knew existed, which explains the increase in the sex drive for sure. I was never a size-queen but that difference he has is amazing to me. And he knows what he is doing. Put it all together and he has been quite a find.

As for my mindset now, close to three months after starting this? I have zero regrets and no guilt. My cuck has not opposed me and still supports this as he sees I am having quite simply the best sex of my life and it is amazing to feel as wanted as I do now. There have been times, as indicated, where I thought that perhaps we should go back to our old ways, but then I am reminded of how they both make me feel, in their own and different ways and I decide to continue. And that is my decision, with my cucks support. I hope that makes sense.

And for the one question that was raised but not sure if it was answered. Yes, I have been bareback from the beginning. In all my research it seemed that was a line that defined the true extent of cucking your hubby. So, I decided if I was going to become a hotwife, I would do it the right way.

That should sum up my point of view. I will not be on here often as this is cuck's little escape world, but I will answer the odd question if appropriate. Be good to cuck, he has had a lot to deal with, but then again, he never opposed it. So twist him a little if you get the chance. Besides, there is a whole lot more that he may have to experience as a cuck if this continues. I did my reading and I think I want to explore this world even more.

DDW's Hotwife

Hi there DDHWH and DDW. I have read your postings from the beginning and find your experiences extremely exciting. My wife and I have been married for 25 years and have started the hotwife lifestyle in the past year, albeit not quite to your level. I would say ours would be considered hotwifing relationship with a bit of cuckold tendencies "sprinkled in." It has changed our lives for the better as it has totally improved our communication skills, in all areas, not just hotwifing. That said, we've had our ups and downs along the way and learned to talk, to gain a better understanding of where we stand in our relationship. From the onset, I struggled with a bit of insecurity and I wouldn't consider myself an insecure person. Similarly, my wife started this journey at my request unsure of how it would work out. Well, as we entered our journey, she really started to enjoy her experiences with her BF which caused insecurity and doubt. We talked through it and she has assured me that I am her "number one guy" and nothing can change what we've built together over the past 30 years (25 married). Still, at times that doubt kicks in. When I read the perspective of DDHWH, it provided me with a perspective of the hotwife involved with a steady BF that was similar to ours. Last night, my wife and I had a date night planned and she was aware of your experience that I had talked to her about. I guess I was a bit of a "naysayer" and was worried about how things would eventually transpire. But your post brought clarity to the wife's experience and pretty much solidified how I feel about our dynamic. I read her your post and she admitted that she feels the same way that you feel as a married couple. I just wanted to say thank you from both of us. You have us, well mostly me, a bit of understanding and clarity which has helped us along our journey. You both appear to have an amazing relationship and your experiences are truly exciting to read about.

[venus-can99]

DDWHW and DDW - please dont take the lack of responses as disinterest. I for one look forward to hearing from you esp HW's perspective. Happy 2024 and we hope to hear from DDWHW about all the the fun you had with your BF and from the cuck about his anxiety and the evening as he thought about you spending NYE with your BF

[David52]

Like many, I have been following this story closely from the beginning (and thinking about it too much!) I am curious about the dynamic between DDHWH and your boyfriend. As a divorced man with a daughter, he may be looking for a new life partner? When will DD and the boyfriend meet? This evening when he picks you up?

[Deepdownwannabe]

DDWHW: Well, thanks, I guess I misread that all, seems the evolution of our lives is intriguing to all. My last points before I head off to ring out a very surprising 23 and ring in a potentially spectacular 24.

There was no specific online 'resource'. The internet is rather deep and dark, and there is lots of information out there.

I have no idea what to expect for 2024, and neither does cuck. I guess we will just have to see what happens as it all plays out. It's all new to me and cuck, at least the real-time experience of it all which is part of the excitement I guess. And who knows how his buttons will be pushed and how he reacts.

As for tonight's outfit? I'm still not sure. A game-time decision. I'm sure cuck will let you know how it all plays out in his own cute and somewhat submissive manner. Please just remember, I'm sure this is all very mind-rattling for him. But it is part of the bed he made.

Happy New Year.

[mattyg_2671]

Not full at all! Just the opposite in fact. Love to hear your updates.

[mattyg_2671]

*dull even, Freudian slip!

[MustBeDenied2]

Thank you for this wonderful update. Enjoy your New Year’s celebration. We eagerly look forward to seeing the new ways you push his buttons.

[venus-can99]

Thanks for your post DDWHW. We would like to hear both from you and the cuck about the different perpectives of the night. Are you planning to stay most of the day tomorrow with your bf?
I think you nailed it - the play in "real-time" is what is exciting to me (and most of us IMO). What I am so fascinated by is how you both have such good communication and that you take time to reassure him of his love while reminding him of his place and his choice.

[Long Lurker 34]

DDWHW: Well, thanks, I guess I misread that all, seems the evolution of our lives is intriguing to all. My last points before I head off to ring out a very surprising 23 and ring in a potentially spectacular 24.

There was no specific online 'resource'. The internet is rather deep and dark, and there is lots of information out there.

I have no idea what to expect for 2024, and neither does cuck. I guess we will just have to see what happens as it all plays out. It's all new to me and cuck, at least the real-time experience of it all which is part of the excitement I guess. And who knows how his buttons will be pushed and how he reacts.

As for tonight's outfit? I'm still not sure. A game-time decision. I'm sure cuck will let you know how it all plays out in his own cute and somewhat submissive manner. Please just remember, I'm sure this is all very mind-rattling for him. But it is part of the bed he made.

Happy New Year.

DDWHW - I do hope you get a pic or two.

[mundyman]

DDWHW: Well, thanks, I guess I misread that all, seems the evolution of our lives is intriguing to all. My last points before I head off to ring out a very surprising 23 and ring in a potentially spectacular 24.

There was no specific online 'resource'. The internet is rather deep and dark, and there is lots of information out there.

I have no idea what to expect for 2024, and neither does cuck. I guess we will just have to see what happens as it all plays out. It's all new to me and cuck, at least the real-time experience of it all which is part of the excitement I guess. And who knows how his buttons will be pushed and how he reacts.

As for tonight's outfit? I'm still not sure. A game-time decision. I'm sure cuck will let you know how it all plays out in his own cute and somewhat submissive manner. Please just remember, I'm sure this is all very mind-rattling for him. But it is part of the bed he made.

Happy New Year.

I’m curious if you have any idea how far you are willing to go in 2024?
Are there any hard lines you will not cross for your boyfriend?
I don’t mean leaving your husband, but as you seemingly continue to do things at the request of your boyfriend, as you become more submissive and accepting of his desires and requests, what requests would get an immediate and hard NO?