Building up slowly

[Mrs Curious]

Wow, that really bites on a number of levels….my two cents is you sometimes have to kiss a bunch of frogs before you find your prince.

Kick to the curb is likely going to be the prevailing sentiment.

This being said, no excuse for non communication, literal takes two seconds, I would tell him that and see what he says…

Perhaps he is a emergency worker or something, vs a “ regular “ gig, that may explain things, otherwise his stuck at work was likely dinner with his team, maybe he will be honest with you about what happened, I think this is key.

You two continue to impress me with your efforts and I know they will pay off one day.

These experiences makes us stronger

G

I was pleased to see your reply, and thank you for it. Now that it is a past event, it is much easier to play devil's advocate. I may contact him for a second chance, if he is interested, but the further from the event, the less likely that seems to be. I will continue my search for a playmate. They are definitely out there!

[Mrs Curious]

hoping_she_will_1day, I'm very sorry your wife had to endure this guy being a flake. But, flake he is. I agree with others; it takes only a few seconds to give up dates, and this guy was very bad at that. In this lifestyle, men are a dime a dozen. Finding good men is tricky, sometimes even hard, but it is worth it to find a good one to keep around. It's not enough for your wife and another man to click. He also needs to be a person of character, who won't leave your wife hanging, who respects your wife and you. Your wife is offering him a tremendous gift. To then be a flake and treat her with such disrespect is all too telling.

My wife and I have had to deal with a couple of flakes. The first one we gave the benefit of the doubt. Then he flaked again. We'd met with him once. He was quite good looking, good conversation, and my wife was definitely interested in fucking him. After that, he turned into a flake, and he kept leading her on. We learned from that. No more. Either you mean what you say and follow through, or you're done. The second guy that tried that just got an immediate goodbye and block.

I hope the two of you find what you're looking for. It's very worth it. Very!

Thank you for sharing you experience. It gives me hope. I am over the initial disappointment, and have not lost interest in the hunt. Hopefully there will be good news to report soon ;-)

[Mrs Curious]

I'm so sorry this happened to you guys. It sounded like you finally found a good guy that she was excited about..and the fact that you met in person and they kissed was such a good sign. I think you could give him one more chance, but temper your expectations. If he got cold feet once, he might again. If you want to be really bold, you could ask if there was a reason (other than work) that he got nervous. Maybe he would be open to talking about it.

In the meantime, a big hug from me to Mrs. Curious.

I am so glad to have a friend like you! Your words mean so much, and carry a lot of weight. I have not written him off entirely, but am tempering the way that I open the door to another chance. He di make a verbal "promise"" and I do want to see if he can actually follow thru!

[hoping_she_will_1day]

What a great story! I'm so happy that you had a great experience with this other couple...and then again on your own

Swinging hasn't really ever worked out for Adventurer and I, but when I listen to lifestyle podcasts, I'm jealous of the friendships that many swinging couples have with each other. It sounds like you might have made one of those couple friends. I love how you were able to talk with each other and express your limits, then find a way for sexy play that everyone felt comfortable with. What a wonderful example of how it should be.

As for sex on the bike, well you know how I feel about sex in naughty places

Thank you ma'am. This certainly isn't a natural thing for us, but so far we've been fortunate enough to meet some quality people. This couple is quite a bit younger than us (which I find sexy), but they've been together a long time and have an idea what they're looking for. The nerves were evident in the beginning but calmed over time as everyone got to know each other. I really admired how much focus they placed on each other during playtime, and they were very much into each other as were MC and I. It was also very cool how at ease everyone was together after the deed was done. And based on the message exchanges we've had since then, there's mutual interest in meeting and playing again.

When MC and I were checking to see how much the neighbors might be able to see while we fucked in front of the garage window, it crossed my mind that you and your men would have gotten a thrill from the setting as well. The window shades block about 50% of the light from outside, and it was dusk so we turned off the lights inside the garage. MC went into the yard to check it out, and came back with a grin that said we were good to go. As she laid back on the seat and I was fucking her from above, we were able to look out through the blinds and see the houses across the street, but if anyone had walked up the street they would have struggled to see our motion as I thrust in and out of her. It would have been damn exciting to watch a pedestrian stroll by at the time. Maybe we'll need to do it again.

[hoping_she_will_1day]

I love this post! I am a true follower. Please keep
Us updated

Well hello there, nice to meet you. And thank you for the comment.
I'm happy to report that I am now following your sexy story as well.

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Really enjoying your experiences! Just a quick share - we are a couple aged out of the game. That said: my wife and I discovered that "performance failures" were much less likely to occur in swinging scenarious with other couples when we took it slow and weren't in a hotel under time pressures and we never had a performance failure when we played in our home. We started "playing" early in our marriage in the 1980s and viagra wasn't around. Knowing what I know now, I'd always have some viagra handy. As I got older, I found Cialis worked best for our lifestyle as its effects are a bit more gentle and it lasts longer.

Flakes were a constant problem and as you discovered can really discourage your wife or both of you. Tremendous buildup then nothing. You two are handling it well. Even in situations where my wife was so horny and needed it NOW, we found it better to meet with a prospective guy 2 or 3 times, preferably local so that we hadn't commited tons of travel time and money on hotels until we knew things would work out. In my view, you are leagues ahead of where we were at your age as far as the way you have been approaching your fun. When the wife works and travel and hotels are involved it's harder to coordinate the schedules and establish rewarding long term relationships. It can become a workout with more cancellations and reschedules.

Thanks to both of you for sharing your adventures with us.

Thank you sir for your valuable insight, it's very much appreciated.
I realized few years ago that I was having some performance issues. This was before MC and I chose to play with others. I sampled Viagra and it worked OK, but it was expensive at the time so I didn't pursue it further. Fast-forward a few years...I purchased the generic version of Viagra which also worked pretty well but I really didn't care for how flushed it made me feel. So I switched to the generic version of Sialis and for the last 2.5 years I've been taking 5mg everyday. The results were hit or miss, with some of that misfortune noted in this thread.

I've wanted to have my T level checked, but postponed it until recently and I'm very glad that I finally did it. My test results showed a very low T level (below the normal range) and I began a treatment plan that day. Along with the continued use of the generic Cialis, my testosterone dosage is 0.6 ml injected once per week (in the thigh), and I can absolutely feel a difference in daily life. Super bonus benefit is my performance in play. I'm batting 1.000 since starting the meds.

I appreciate the advice regarding the play setting. I don't know if we'll ever host in our home, but if we do I think it would be intensely sexy. MC is getting more comfortable with the idea of playing locally, so we shall see.

[Seekingmore12]

Since our meeting with the other couple we've exchanged several messages. We're all very much looking forward to another visit, and I'm quite certain that MC is gonna get fucked by that 41 year old! If it turns into a full swap, that'll be a bonus.

Well done, you two….I especially liked this last line, my best wishes as you two continue your journey…..oh and I want to borrow the motorcycle to take lfa for a ride…

G

[stevens4fun]

Great news about the T level therapy, - thanks for sharing that with us, as us older guys find that T levels are a problem and we wonder about the benefits and risks of addressing it. I hope someone opens a thread to discuss it. I'm a pretty lucky guy - in my 70s now and can still get decent wood once or twice a week. Big difference from back in the day, though, when even the slightest thought of sex was a "call to action."

I found that when using viagra, I'd get the best effect when I took it on an empty stomach, early in the day when my T levels were higher. But I didn't like the "flush" you mentioned, except for the fact that it let me know the Viagra had hit my bloodstream and I was "primed." Then later in the day, a headache and a stuffy nose. But my wife loved it....

I experimented and started using a pill cutter to cut the viagra pills in half. Still got a good result, but less side effects later on. And it cut the cost in half. When the wife and I got into our 50s, I changed to Cialis. Less side effects, and I found that even two days after taking a 5 mg dose, I still got hard quickly and was able to perform to my wife's satisfaction (but not her orgasm - had to get out her Hitachi for that, or call her BF over to finish her later in the day - we finally just had him spend the night with her and things went much better).

I've wanted to have my T level checked, but postponed it until recently and I'm very glad that I finally did it. My test results showed a very low T level (below the normal range) and I began a treatment plan that day. Along with the continued use of the generic Cialis, my testosterone dosage is 0.6 ml injected once per week (in the thigh), and I can absolutely feel a difference in daily life. Super bonus benefit is my performance in play. I'm batting 1.000 since starting the meds.

I appreciate the advice regarding the play setting. I don't know if we'll ever host in our home, but if we do I think it would be intensely sexy. MC is getting more comfortable with the idea of playing locally, so we shall see.

[Lookingforadventure]

I am so glad to have a friend like you! Your words mean so much, and carry a lot of weight. I have not written him off entirely, but am tempering the way that I open the door to another chance. He di make a verbal "promise"" and I do want to see if he can actually follow thru!

And I'm glad to call you a friend, too. I so love how you and HSW support and encourage each other. I also like how sexy play with other people is only the special sauce to the main course of sexy play with each other. You guys are awesome.

I'm still hoping this guy will work out for you. It isn't every day that you feel that chemistry. Hopefully he turns out to be worth the effort.

[Lookingforadventure]

…..oh and I want to borrow the motorcycle to take lfa for a ride…

G

Yes please

[hoping_she_will_1day]

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oh and I want to borrow the motorcycle to take lfa for a ride…

G

Thank you sir.
Btw, you can borrow the bike anytime you'd like. This latest romp proved that the bike doesn't need to be moving in order for her have a hell of a ride. The rear shock took a whoopin as the thrusting got harder.

[hoping_she_will_1day]

I've been intending to write an update for a while, and tonight provides a good opportunity as I'm sitting in a hotel room on another work trip while MC is at home. I apologize if this isn't written very well, sleep has been a struggle.

There aren't allot of changes to report, but there are a few rather significant steps that we've taken.

As I've mentioned before, MC does not typically enjoy texting. Unless she's really in the mood to talk then she isn't inclined to engage in a message exchange with anyone, including me. When messages come in that she does not want to respond to, she just doesn't. I on the other hand enjoy the opportunities to get to know other people via message exchange. With this in mind she has changed her approach and agreed to allow me to chat with the guys that she finds interesting.

A few months ago we were approached by another HW/Swinger couple who live in a neighboring state. The husband travels through our area somewhat regularly and his wife was reaching out to see if we would be interested in meeting him. She, he and I had some conversations over the course of a few weeks and when it was confirmed that she (his wife) would not be participating, and honoring our understanding that I would not be involved in her (MCs) conversations with other men, both the other wife and I removed ourselves from to message exchange. When that happened the conversation stopped, even though MC was genuinely interested in meeting him. After a week or so with no conversation, and after confirming that she still wanted to meet him, I asked her if she wanted me to speak to him for her and she said yes. As a result we're working on a scheduling a meet sometime within the next few weeks.

Additionally, another husband from yet another HW/Swinger couple reached out. She saw his message and his picture and found both intriguing. I asked if she would like for me to respond to him, and she said yes. He was really excited to hear back from us and we've had some really fun message exchanges, all of which MC has read. After some time, he asked to take the messages private, and with her explicit approval, we shared each others KIK Id. She really likes this guy, and she's having fun with their private exchanges. She's shared their messages and it's really quite sexy how much she's starting to relax and let her "naughty girl" come out to play. He intends to be back in our area before winter and if things continue as they are now...who knows right??

There've been instances of this type of play in the past that have simply died, so I asked her pretty regularly if she's heard from "him". Apparently this happened a bit too often, and she made that clear to me when she said I was "bird dogging" her. OUCH! When she said that I interpreted it to mean that she didn't want to share what they were saying, and I was actually hurt by it. I thought, if she wants their chat to be private why not just say so. We talked about it the next day, and she explained that what she meant by that was that she wanted to be given time to respond to messages on her own timeline, and she did not intend to withhold anything from me. After a bit more conversation I told her that I would not ask anymore, just don't let this one die like the others did.

Also, I told her that I'm totally cool with her having private conversations. It's important for her to feel safe to say whatever she wants without any concern of hurting my feelings or offending me. Thinking about our old friend & OHW contributor Playboyfan, he frequently mentioned how his Hottie stayed engaged with her admirers privately, and would share when the time was right. I suggested that she take the same approach & embrace the opportunity to open up, let her hair down. I admitted that it would most likely create some angst, but I believe that it's a natural feeling that all husbands go through to some degree. This last weekend, while I was occupied, she and he had fun with their message exchange, and after some time she sent a message to me. It was a picture of herself, topless...and she followed it up with another saying that she wanted some attention, right now! Lucky ME!!

I'm looking forward to getting home this weekend and seeing what naughtiness she's been up to.

[Seekingmore12]

Nice to see you two back and the progress you two are making together….

G

[Lookingforadventure]

I've been intending to write an update for a while, and tonight provides a good opportunity as I'm sitting in a hotel room on another work trip while MC is at home. I apologize if this isn't written very well, sleep has been a struggle.

There aren't allot of changes to report, but there are a few rather significant steps that we've taken.

As I've mentioned before, MC does not typically enjoy texting. Unless she's really in the mood to talk then she isn't inclined to engage in a message exchange with anyone, including me. When messages come in that she does not want to respond to, she just doesn't. I on the other hand enjoy the opportunities to get to know other people via message exchange. With this in mind she has changed her approach and agreed to allow me to chat with the guys that she finds interesting.

A few months ago we were approached by another HW/Swinger couple who live in a neighboring state. The husband travels through our area somewhat regularly and his wife was reaching out to see if we would be interested in meeting him. She, he and I had some conversations over the course of a few weeks and when it was confirmed that she (his wife) would not be participating, and honoring our understanding that I would not be involved in her (MCs) conversations with other men, both the other wife and I removed ourselves from to message exchange. When that happened the conversation stopped, even though MC was genuinely interested in meeting him. After a week or so with no conversation, and after confirming that she still wanted to meet him, I asked her if she wanted me to speak to him for her and she said yes. As a result we're working on a scheduling a meet sometime within the next few weeks.

Additionally, another husband from another HW/Swinger couple reached out. She saw his message and his picture and found both intriguing. I asked if she would like for me to respond to him, and she said yes. He was really excited to hear back from us and we've had some really fun message exchanges, all of which MC has read. After some time, he asked to take the messages private, and with her explicit approval, we shared each others KIK Id. She really likes this guy, and she's having fun with their private exchanges. She's shared their messages and it's really quite sexy how much she's starting to relax and let her "naughty girl" come out to play. He intends to be back in our area before winter and if things continue as they are now...who knows right??

There've been instances of this type of play in the past that have simply died, so I asked her pretty regularly if she's heard from "him". Apparently this happened a bit too often, and she made that clear to me when she said I was "bird dogging" her. OUCH! When she said that I interpreted to mean that she didn't want to share what they were saying, and was actually hurt by it. I thought, if she wants their chat to be private why not just say so. We talked about it the next day, and she explained that what she meant by that was that she wanted to be given time to respond to messages on her own timeline, and she did not intend to withhold anything from me. After a bit more conversation I told her that I would not ask anymore, just don't let this one die like the others did. Also, I told her that I'm totally cool with her having private conversations. It's important for her to feel safe to say whatever she wants without any concern of hurting my feelings or offending me. Thinking about our old friend & OHW contributor Playboyfan, he frequently mentioned how his Hottie stayed engaged with her admirers privately, and would share when the time was right. I suggested that she take the same approach & embrace the opportunity to open up, let her hair down. I admitted that it would most likely create some angst, but I believe that it's a natural feeling that all husbands go through to some degree. This last weekend, while I was occupied, she and he had fun with their message exchange, and after some time she sent a message to me. It was a picture of herself, topless...and she followed it up with another saying that she wanted some attention, right now! Lucky ME!!

I'm looking forward to getting home this weekend and seeing what naughtiness she's been up to.

This is a great update. I'm glad things are proceeding well and that the two of you are figuring out what works for you. Yaay! I hope that the two possibilities (swinger couple and single guy) work out for at least a meet and greet in person.

As for your checking in with MC, I'm glad that she was comfortable enough to tell you that she was feeling pressured by your asking. Your approach sounds like a good one. Just make sure that you are communicating with her as well. As a hot wife, I find it is a delicate balance between letting myself be free to explore my desires at my pace, and also ensuring my husband is getting what he needs out of it. If the angst gets to be too much, or if you are feeling excluded, you need to make sure you are communicating with her about it.

[Her number1]

I've been intending to write an update for a while, and tonight provides a good opportunity as I'm sitting in a hotel room on another work trip while MC is at home. I apologize if this isn't written very well, sleep has been a struggle.

There aren't allot of changes to report, but there are a few rather significant steps that we've taken.

As I've mentioned before, MC does not typically enjoy texting. Unless she's really in the mood to talk then she isn't inclined to engage in a message exchange with anyone, including me. When messages come in that she does not want to respond to, she just doesn't. I on the other hand enjoy the opportunities to get to know other people via message exchange. With this in mind she has changed her approach and agreed to allow me to chat with the guys that she finds interesting.

A few months ago we were approached by another HW/Swinger couple who live in a neighboring state. The husband travels through our area somewhat regularly and his wife was reaching out to see if we would be interested in meeting him. She, he and I had some conversations over the course of a few weeks and when it was confirmed that she (his wife) would not be participating, and honoring our understanding that I would not be involved in her (MCs) conversations with other men, both the other wife and I removed ourselves from to message exchange. When that happened the conversation stopped, even though MC was genuinely interested in meeting him. After a week or so with no conversation, and after confirming that she still wanted to meet him, I asked her if she wanted me to speak to him for her and she said yes. As a result we're working on a scheduling a meet sometime within the next few weeks.

Additionally, another husband from another HW/Swinger couple reached out. She saw his message and his picture and found both intriguing. I asked if she would like for me to respond to him, and she said yes. He was really excited to hear back from us and we've had some really fun message exchanges, all of which MC has read. After some time, he asked to take the messages private, and with her explicit approval, we shared each others KIK Id. She really likes this guy, and she's having fun with their private exchanges. She's shared their messages and it's really quite sexy how much she's starting to relax and let her "naughty girl" come out to play. He intends to be back in our area before winter and if things continue as they are now...who knows right??

There've been instances of this type of play in the past that have simply died, so I asked her pretty regularly if she's heard from "him". Apparently this happened a bit too often, and she made that clear to me when she said I was "bird dogging" her. OUCH! When she said that I interpreted to mean that she didn't want to share what they were saying, and was actually hurt by it. I thought, if she wants their chat to be private why not just say so. We talked about it the next day, and she explained that what she meant by that was that she wanted to be given time to respond to messages on her own timeline, and she did not intend to withhold anything from me. After a bit more conversation I told her that I would not ask anymore, just don't let this one die like the others did. Also, I told her that I'm totally cool with her having private conversations. It's important for her to feel safe to say whatever she wants without any concern of hurting my feelings or offending me. Thinking about our old friend & OHW contributor Playboyfan, he frequently mentioned how his Hottie stayed engaged with her admirers privately, and would share when the time was right. I suggested that she take the same approach & embrace the opportunity to open up, let her hair down. I admitted that it would most likely create some angst, but I believe that it's a natural feeling that all husbands go through to some degree. This last weekend, while I was occupied, she and he had fun with their message exchange, and after some time she sent a message to me. It was a picture of herself, topless...and she followed it up with another saying that she wanted some attention, right now! Lucky ME!!

I'm looking forward to getting home this weekend and seeing what naughtiness she's been up to.

This is a great update. I'm glad things are proceeding well and that the two of you are figuring out what works for you. Yaay! I hope that the two possibilities (swinger couple and single guy) work out for at least a meet and greet in person.

As for your checking in with MC, I'm glad that she was comfortable enough to tell you that she was feeling pressured by your asking. Your approach sounds like a good one. Just make sure that you are communicating with her as well. As a hot wife, I find it is a delicate balance between letting myself be free to explore my desires at my pace, and also ensuring my husband is getting what he needs out of it. If the angst gets to be too much, or if you are feeling excluded, you need to make sure you are communicating with her about it.

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Nice to see you two back and the progress you two are making together….

G

Thank you. We've been laying low, but we're still here. Appreciate your support as always.

[hoping_she_will_1day]

This is a great update. I'm glad things are proceeding well and that the two of you are figuring out what works for you. Yaay! I hope that the two possibilities (swinger couple and single guy) work out for at least a meet and greet in person.

As for your checking in with MC, I'm glad that she was comfortable enough to tell you that she was feeling pressured by your asking. Your approach sounds like a good one. Just make sure that you are communicating with her as well. As a hot wife, I find it is a delicate balance between letting myself be free to explore my desires at my pace, and also ensuring my husband is getting what he needs out of it. If the angst gets to be too much, or if you are feeling excluded, you need to make sure you are communicating with her about it.

It was a bit humbling to accept that I was being over bearing, but I'm proud of her for saying so. Things have smoothed out and she been very forthcoming with her conversations.

I got back home Friday night and she greeted me with a warm hug and soft kiss, and it was not lost on me that she'd picked a special dress for the evening. Being top heavy as she is, she doesn't have many items in her wardrobe that have delicate spaghetti straps, but the dress she wore was that style and I loved it. I found that she had nothing on underneath the dress as my hands roamed across her body. We broke our embrace and she poured me a glass of wine so that I could join her in a drink. We spoke a little about the day and I learned that she had been messaging with "him" right as I walked in. I found that to be very damn sexy. Even better, she was ready to be taken, right then.

I quickly ran upstairs to grab a silicone cock ring and some lube, when I returned she had perched herself in one of our barstools with her ass on the edge of the seat. Surprisingly, we had never fooled around in these seats before and learned that the alignment between her hungry pussy and my engorged cock was perfect. I slid into her and it didn't take long for our naughty talk to kick in as she described some of the conversations that she'd had with him while I was gone. I'd like to say that I lasted a long time, but I'm guessing that no more than 5 minutes passed before I spilled 7 days worth of cum inside her, and it felt glorious!

Things are progressing nicely, and at her pace. I chat with him separately and remind him regularly that she's in charge of their meet when it happens. And also I've told him that she's having fun and that she likes him, but try to throw in some conversation that isn't necessarily sexual. She appreciates that.

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Back on the road again last week and again this week as well but I was home for part of the weekend. MC and I had some time to catch up where she shared the message exchanges with her young stud. She's starting to loosen up and share more about the things she wants to try with him, and I have to admit that it was super sexy to see how she's relaxing with him. Fingers still crossed.

[RuleEmAll]

That's a great update, sounds like you're both enjoying this, curious how it plays out, keep us posted!

[Lookingforadventure]

Back on the road again last week and again this week as well but I was home for part of the weekend. MC and I had some time to catch up where she shared the message exchanges with her young stud. She's starting to loosen up and share more about the things she wants to try with him, and I have to admit that it was super sexy to see how she's relaxing with him. Fingers still crossed.

This makes me smile. Thanks for the update and best wishes to all of you on this adventure.

[Jujube]

Yahoo! Seems like quite a bit of progress since I last checked your thread. MC is soo sexy!

[hoping_she_will_1day]

It's been a while, I'll try to post a note soon.

[Lookingforadventure]

It's been a while, I'll try to post a note soon.

Hi friends. We miss you. I look forward to your note.

[hoping_she_will_1day]

Back in October of 2024 we decided to join a group that organizes meet and greets for lifestyle couples. These events are held at breweries, wineries, dance clubs, etc and are vanilla friendly. Most of the people that attend these events are within 10 yrs of our age, and all are vetted before the event address is shared. The idea behind joining was that interacting with LS folks would probably help MC and myself build more confidence. They're everyday people from all walks of life, with different body shapes and sizes and everyone is treated with dignity and respect.

At our first event we connected with another couple our age and hit it off rather well. We exchanged contact info and kept in touch over the next few weeks then decided to meet for dinner about half way between our hometowns. The evening was very nice, conversation flowed effortlessly as we had much in common. The major difference between us being our miniscule LS experience compared to theirs, but they were never pushy or demanding in any way. We ended the night with hugs and kisses and a feeling that we'd made friends.

A couple of weeks later we were invited to their house for dinner and massages. She prepared a homemade dinner, we brought some wine and we all sat at the dinner table enjoying the meal and conversation. When we finished, we found that they had set up two massage tables in adjoining rooms. We could hear each other but couldn't see what was going on in each other room. It was made very clear that there were no expectations of play, and that "no" would be respected. The couples split into the separate rooms where I was with is wife and he was with MC. It didn't take very long at all before she and I were getting busy as I started giving her my very best oral attention. A few minutes later we heard the tell tale sounds of two bodies slamming into each other from the other room. They continued on for several minutes while I treated his wife to every trick I knew. When they finished, they walked past and headed outside to the hot tub. I bought her to two orgasms but was unable to get an erection (again) so we joined them in the hot tub, where we hung out for a while before we eventually dried off and took the hour plus drive back home.

November came along and we were invited by the same couple to meet at a sex club near them. We'd been interested in checking out a club but were reluctant to go alone, so we accepted the offer and met them there. The club requires that you BYOB, so MC brought a bottle of wine for herself. I did not intend to drink as I'm typically her designated driver, but I was also a little paranoid that someone might slip something into her drink. We were among other LS folks that we'd met through the group, so we felt quite comfortable in the setting, but I was like a Doberman on watch for fuck heads, meaning...I was not very relaxed at all. The husband of the couple gave us a tour of the building, showing us where we could drop off our drinks so that the bartenders could serve us, then past the dance floor to the aisleway with "rooms" to one side that were separated from each other by sheer curtains. These are areas where you can watch or be watched, and join in if the curtains are open. Across the aisle are legitimate private rooms with doors & locks if you wish for complete privacy.

We all went back to the seating area where our group was. We were on a sofa, MC and I between the other wife and husband. I was interacting with the wife and others while he and MC were talking mostly between themselves. MC was very focused on their conversation, enough so that she began to turn her body to face him as they talked. When I looked her direction I saw mostly her back to me. After a few minutes she turned to me and asked if the other wife and I were going to one of the rooms to play, I told her that it wasn't very likely but if she wanted to go she could. She leaned over to him, said something to him and they were quickly off to one of the private rooms. I thought to myself how cute she was in holding herself back and being polite, almost in an innocent way. They were gone for a while, maybe 30 minutes. I didn't know they had returned until I looked across the group and saw her standing nearby talking to someone. She had a confident look about her, but an aura of "did I just do that?". As the night went on more and more people showed up and clothes began to disappear. People were disrobing, displaying the sexy under garments that they had on. This encouraged MC to remove her blouse and sit among our group with her very sexy VS bra on display, and she fills it so well. We called it a night around 11 and drove back home, a little more than an hour away. MC works most Saturdays, and she's usually in bed by 9:30/10:00 so this was pushing it pretty far for her.

The Christmas season was upon us pretty quickly, and we were invited back to their home for a holiday pot luck dinner with several of their LS friends, most whom we had not yet met. This was a PG event, no play. Just dinner, drinks, conversation & games. This was honored by almost everyone, the exception being the host, who made it his goal to kiss the breasts of every woman who attended. Hahaha

In January, we invited them to join us in the big city for a cooking class, and they accepted. The class wasn't scheduled to end until after 10 PM, so MC & I scheduled to have the following day off from work and we got a hotel room. We invited them to our room for some play before the class, and they accepted that as well. A glass of wine each some talk and the mood was set. I tried my first dose of a new ED pharmaceutical, and we separated onto the two queen beds. My focus was on his wife, I always start with neck and body kisses working my way down and spend a very long time making sure she feels exceptionally good. We look across the room and he is doing similar to MC. I focus more on his wife, he and MC begin to fuck. This is my first time actually seeing them together. She had her legs pulled up to her arm pits, he had his arms extended to hold himself up and he was hitting her pussy HARD with his thrusts. Her face was as red as I've ever seen as he drilled her relentlessly. I kissed his wife, and said something about how sexy they looked and she agreed. Meanwhile the meds aren't doing a damn thing for me. I brought her to an orgasm and then we just laid there and watched them fuck for a few more minutes. MC got on top of him for a minute or two, but they finished with him on top again. When they finished, my wonderful wife saw my frustration and came over to help, and gave me a blowjob. It took allot of work but I eventually came for her. We all cleaned up and met at the class, had fun and afterwards we parted.

February rolled in, my birthday month. There was a meet & greet scheduled on the day of my birthday, which I thought could be exciting. MC had to drive that night because I was in an air cast boot after rolling my ankle a few weeks earlier. It hurt like MF'r and hasn't fully healed yet. While I was on crutches and "no walking" doctors orders, MC took care of all the chores that I usually do, like bringing firewood inside to feed to the wood stove. I felt bad for her to have to do everything, but she was a real champ about it. We attended the meet & greet, me in the air cast boot, MC wearing some very sexy lingerie beneath her wrap around dress (which I helped her put on btw). This event was at an establishment that closed the doors to the public at 9 PM which made it private and the ladies could show off if they wanted to. MC showed her outfit to the other wife and her friend, then we made our way to where the other husband was seated and I took advantage of the timing to stand behind her and "unveil" her outfit to him. That's somethings I've thought of doing for years. He appreciated that by giving her a nice firm hug and a kiss. This was also the night that I learned that his wife was no longer interested in play with me, the frustrations of not being able to give her what she wanted being the reason. That sucked, allot actually, but I understand it as well.

The other wife was aware of our interest in MC being a hotwife, it's something that had come up in conversations. She suggested that MC get with her husband to make that happen. On a couple of occasions over the next few weeks I mentioned to MC that she should reach out to him and arrange a play session while I was away on one of my work trips. For the first time ever after making this suggestion, she said she liked the idea. I mentioned this to the other wife via text, who shared it with her husband, who said to let them know the dates of my trip. I shared the dates when I would be away and that was that. There was another meet & greet in March that we attended, and it didn't take long at all for him to appear. It was almost comical actually, it was like *poof* there he was. Hahaha. We spoke, I left to get a drink, came back and he was gone. I asked if they talked about getting together and she said "not really". I didn't have much interaction with his wife, but we talked some, pleasantly. The next day she sent a text sharing that her husband told her that MC and he had talked about getting together but there was an air of uncertainty about it. Neither of us wanting to butt in, we both encouraged our spouses to keep in touch with each other and work something out if they wanted to get together.

My trip came up, a west coast destination. Travel takes all day, literally. I flew out on Monday morning, and got to my hotel around 10 PM. When my plane landed I saw a text from my wife that said "___ will be visiting on Weds" with a smile emoji. My heart jumped a bit with excitement for her. We didn't get a chance to talk until the next afternoon, and she shared that since she had the day off on Wed and it would be a perfect opportunity to go for it! They arranged for him to drive to our house after he got off of work. She had several things that she needed/wanted to get done before he arrived, and this kept her very busy for the first part of the day. Meanwhile, I'm on the west coast, 3 hour time difference between us. My lunchtime rolls around and it's very quickly approaching the time when he is going to arrive at our home to fuck my wife. She's getting last minute things ready, including spontaneously picking an outfit to wear for him...a sheer green blouse that tapers at her thighs and a pair of lace panties. I'm distracting myself with conversation over lunch with my colleague while watching for alerts from our security cameras, and next thing you know...there's his car in our driveway.

For the next 3 hours, I'm back at work dealing with problems that are rooted in an employee who is being a complete asshole about things, which requires my allot of my attention. This is good, I don't want to be wondering what all my wife is doing, I look forward to hearing about it later. I'm casually checking for camera alerts to see when he leaves, and I get one about an hour in. I'm thinking there's no way they're done already so I opened the alert and see that our neighbor is rolling up the driveway on his mower! I literally said out loud in the room at work..."Noooooooo! Go away!!" I'm thinking he's going to knock on the door and interrupt them, and there's no way she'd answer the door quickly enough to not be suspicious to him, he knew I was out of town. Thankfully he was just borrowing something from my back yard and never went to the house.

When I got back to my hotel room, she called:
me: Hey babe
her: He just left
me: How are you feeling?
her: Sore!
me: A good sore though, right?
her: Yes, we did a lot of fucking.
me: oh yeah? Try some new things?
her: we started on the couch, moved to the floor, then went up to the spare bedroom where fucked for 2 hours

She shared a few more things, then signed off saying we'd talk later, we each said I love you. Sleep escaped me that night. We didn't talk again until the following evening, the radio silence was rough but we had a great phone conversation that night. I set my alarm for 4 AM for the next morning to drive to the airport and return home, and I didn't sleep a wink that night either. When I got through security and found a place to get breakfast, his wife sent a text message. We had a very good conversation that morning and it helped to pass the time. I sent updates to MC as my day unfolded, but we didn't actually talk until I got back home that night.

When I alerted her that my plane had landed, she responded with a message that said to "come to the front door & ring the door bell" then "we're the next to the last house on the left" then a kiss emoji. I grabbed my suitcase and backpack, walked up the front steps, rang the doorbell and waited. The door opened and she peeked around the door inviting me inside. I dropped my stuff and she wrapped her arms around me and gave me a big kiss, and said "welcome, this is a fuck friendly house". She was wearing the same outfit that she wore for him, and I acknowledged it. She said that it didn't stay on long enough to get dirty. As we stepped in the living room our dogs saw that I was back home so I gave them a bunch of loving, then back to MC. She went up to our bedroom to get one of the ED meds for me, and as we waited for it to kick in, I sat on the floor and invited her to sit in my lap. I held her. Tightly. Squeezing her, rocking her in my arms. I just wanted to feel her body. I gave her a card that I picked up that day that had a personal message that I wrote for her.

A few minutes passed, we got up and she led me to the couch. She said that they started right there. She had him leaned back on the couch and she climbed on top of him and took him inside her. She said her legs were sore from the motion she used to take him. They moved to the floor onto blanket that we've used many times. Then she led him upstairs to the spare room, where she led me next. The covers were unchanged. She said that they fucked on top of the covers, and she left them there for me to fuck her on as well. Well boys and girls, that's all it took for me...I stripped down in a flash and was inside her in no time. She said the room was hot that day and that he sweat allot, he worked so hard pounding her. They'd fuck then take a break, then fuck more, then take a break, and fuck more. "he's longer than you, you're just starting to reach where was" , "you're thicker, but he's a little longer" *fuck!!* "I was wondering if I'd feel you again" that fucking did it for me. I hit it as hard as I could and came inside her...sweating. We kissed, got up and went back down stairs. Grabbing a couple of drinks, we rested while sitting on the floor in front of the couch. A half hour or so passed and we started again, this time more intimately. We fucked for maybe 10 minutes and after another orgasm, we laid together for a while. This was a wonderful welcome home.

This happened last week. We haven't dwelled on it, but it has come up in our conversations as you'd expect. She loved being fucked hard. She enjoyed the naughty nature of their rendezvous. She's been quite open, sharing nuggets as the setting allows. I love that she had a great time, and I hope she considers doing something like it again. I'm also very proud of her for stepping past the mind fuck that this can be and grabbing hold of the opportunity to play. We bought an anklet a couple of years ago to have on hand for the day that she became a hotwife. I didn't get to give it to her that day, but I placed it around her ankle a few days later. It's looks elegant, and sexy against her skin.

[Her number1]

Congratulations! We're glad a great time was had by all, and look forward to her future adventures!
Give her a kiss for me.