It's unlikely that she is falling for him. She is a cerebral girl rather than one driven primarily by instincts.RunDannyRun wrote: ↑Fri Nov 29, 2024 6:18 amno, she never showed any interest in lingerie. I am also not too keen about it but maybe Adam likes to see her in lingerie?jenisonherway6 wrote: ↑Fri Nov 29, 2024 5:58 amRDR,
Lauren doesn’t sound like the kind of woman who ever wears lingerie. and you said that she doesn’t give blowjobs. she is beginning to change. she and you both are changing now. this is not a bad thing. her hard remark is a truth about how part of her feels about you that circumstances have brought to the surface. this is no doubt part of her, and your, attraction to Adam. she maybe didn’t come to you in the kitchen to apologize before she left because she wants to feel angry with you. she wants it to be your fault that she is falling for Adam. affirm what she said to you and assure her that you want her to be with Adam.
maybe let her know that you’re excited by what she did, it’s just the danger of exposure is great with what she did.
i imagine you two doing some shopping together at a local mall. you stop in front of victoria’s secret and ask her if she wants to go in, that you’d like to buy her something. you tug her hand: “C’mon.”
I do not think she is falling for him. They barely talk to each other other than sex stuff. I know that she deserves to have some mind blowing sex that i can not give her. I do not like to be emasculated. I might not be a stud in bed like Adam but I believe I give Lauren the necessary emotional intimacy.jenisonherway6 wrote: ↑Fri Nov 29, 2024 5:58 amare you ok with your emasculation? it feels like you are, that you’re at the very least accepting of your ED. tell her what you’ve told us, that you love her and are committed to her and that you want her sexual fulfillment, even if it doesn’t directly involve you. maybe tell her that you’ll love her and stand by her, even if she falls for Adam.
do you think that she’s falling for him?
She made a conscious call to play with him knowing that he is not her type of man or human being to get serious about.
But your neglecting her physical needs the way it's playing out doesn't seem the ok thing to do. She is a sexy gal, loves you, and you 2 are in the midst of a life changing experiment. It's wise to do your bit as her main deal, as a man!
What happened that night has to be seen from her POV. Physical needs are real too. The readily available man-toy was near by. A gal can fall for the situation. She did tell you everything honestly.
Pl acknowledge to her that you have been a bit sloppy as her man, of late. Have a big heart, just like she said sorry a hundred times.
She is going to get fucked soon. You two get into a good place before that so that both can enjoy it without emotional hangups.