mickle wrote:With all the Christmas parties coming up Michael, with Jen's school friends, maybe Ben or Allison will take her.
The students that live in dorms and student apartments usually go back home over the holidays. The ones that are local will probably be sticking with family parties, I'm guessing. But, maybe there will be some kind of holiday thing going on that Jen will get invited to.
OOAA wrote:I understand, let's be patience then...
Ha! You'd really like to read about me being back in chastity!
MrLust wrote:Cooly done. Great updates
Thanks!
Serrand wrote:Sorry, don’t let youself get urge on by some people here in this forum to do things you don't feel comfortable. In your place I would be more than elated to be back in Jen's arms and bed, having sex with her. Be happy that your wife wants you back with her.
Even in danger to anger you, I strongly recommend to you not to jeopordize your relationship with Jen with more "cuckold-play", at least not in the moment, not so soon after Brian. Get a grip of yourself!!!
Excuse me again, but this chastity device seemed always a rather stupid idea from the beginning.
I'm into the cuckold stuff because it turns me on, not because people on here are pushing me into doing stuff I don't want. Thanks though. I get what you're saying.
norbertrichard wrote:Mike, don't be influenced by Mickle, as his wife only fucks blacks, and all her kids are black, and he is just her sub cuck, by his own admission.
Whatever. So he's got his own cuckold thing going on that's different than mine.
OOAA wrote:Mike,
As always you have my fully support on your fantasies, actions, experiences and enjoyable feelings you are living and dharing with us!!!
Best regards and go on, my friend!
Thanks!
softcantfind wrote:Hi Mike,
I just read your thread. All I can say is wow what a wonderful journey. I just can't understand all the different attitudes that you are being blasted with. From my point of view yes, you have had to handle a few bumps in the road. Mike you were happy when Jen and Brian were cuckolding you. Right now at this time in your life your doing well with Jen and your present sex life. To me here comes the BUT. The cuckolding lifestyle has many risks mostly to a marriage but also to friendships and sometimes to family interaction.
The divorce rate in America is 50% and I am quite sure that the percentage of failed Cuckold and Hotwife marriages is not any higher then that.
I can tell you that you have a fantastic wife in Jen. Right from the very beginning of your thread she was a willing participant. Just reading about how dominant she soon became after you explained your fantasies more clearly to her was awesome. Yes I can see were she became both sexually and emotionally attached to Brian. So what? She never left you out of the picture as she was trying very hard to be the Cuckoldress you needed her to be. The way she came to treat you by putting you in your place by denying you intercourse, putting you in a chastity cage and all the other submissive kinks you desired was priceless. I know the way you quoted her talking to you made me so horny that my toes curled.
At this time and under the circumstances you are now enjoying your vanilla sex life. How long will this last until the Cuckold nature in you struggles to take over again. If I was a young man and had the opportunity you have I would go for it all and don't look back. My advise is that you communicate and make clear to Jen that you want her to be in control of not only of her sex live and yours but both your home lives in general. I believe that in order for the both of you to fulfill the desires of your hearts, maybe it would be wise to help her find another full time boyfriend. These are just my thoughts and feelings that I wanted to share with you. I am sure that this post will not go over well with some of your readers and I am sorry if I disturb anyone.
Some good points. Thanks, man!
So, there's this big discussion about divorce rates and stuff that happened after your comment. I don't want to jump into that debate, so I'm just going to go ahead and post an update. It's a good update.
After my last post, I realized that even if Jen is into Ben, she might not let anything happen between them if she wasn't sure I'd be okay with it. I didn't want to just come out and say, "I'd really be into you having sex with Ben." That shit would have been totally out of the blue and way too pushy. But, Jen gave me the perfect opportunity to give her a nudge (in the direction of Ben's cock).
That weekend, Ben came by our apartment for a study session with Jen. I got to meet him. He seemed pretty cool. Definitely nerdy, but still cool. It was kind of a hassle for him to come over to our place since he lives on campus. He wasn't complaining, but when someone lives on campus it's easier to just stay on campus to study. That's just how it is. Jen and I dropped Ben off at his dorm that night when they were done studying. On the way to his dorm, the three of us were talking. It turns out that Ben has a one person dorm room! No roommates! There are other people in the same suite, but there's no one actually sharing the actual room with him. Ben's parents dish out extra money for the private room. They want him to be able to study without being distracted by a roommate. Good for Ben! And I decided, maybe good for me!
On the way back home, I asked Jen if she's been to Ben's room at all.
"I've been inside for a few minutes, but I didn't know if you'd be cool with me spending time alone with Ben in his dorm room." Jen replied.
"How come?" I asked. "Think he's got a crush on you?"
"I know he's got a crush on me," Jen replied.
"And you think he's cute, so maybe something would happen if the two of you were alone?" I asked.
"You trying to catch me doing something that I haven't done?" Jen asked suspiciously.
"No, but has he ever suggested that the two of you study in his room?"
"Yeah, he's suggested it."
"Well, it's not a bad idea. It's right there on campus." I replied, with a hint of a smile.
"You fucking cuckold!" Jen laughed. "You're trying to get me to fuck Ben!"
"No," I replied. "I'm just saying that it's okay if you do. And yeah, I admit that I might be into the idea. But, what you do is up to you. I'm just taking myself out of the equation as an obstacle. The night of the Halloween party, you seemed so into just being a regular college girl, taking off your wedding ring and flirting with guys. Haven't you wanted, even once, to be able to do more than that? Even once? Be honest."
"Of course I have, Michael!" Jen replied bluntly. "But, I just let Halloween be a one shot, let-loose kind of night where I relaxed and let myself be a little naughty for once after Brian left. It wasn't even that naughty. Just a little flirtation with some guys at a party. And then I came home to my husband. Flirting with other guys that night helped me get over Brian some more. Getting back into having real sex with you also helped me too. But, sometimes I do wish I could do more than flirt. I get jealous of those girls whose parents pay for them to go to college and, so long as they do okay in school, they can spend their free time having fun and partying and going out on dates with whoever they want and fucking whoever they want. Just one big four year party for those girls! I have the advantage that I appreciate being able to go to college more than they do, but I still envy the fun that they have."
"Well, you don't have a job anymore. So, there's nothing stopping you from having fun too. Next semester you'll have more than enough time to study and go to parties and go out on dates. I want you to have the full college experience! When you're done, I want you to be able to say that you totally lived the college life and had as much fun as anyone else!"
"Are you giving me permission to go out with other guys?" Jen asked bluntly.
"It's not even like that. College girls don't have to ask for permission. If you want to see other guys besides me, you don't have to ask for permission. Just go ahead and do it. I just want there to be a few rules though."
"What kind of rules?" Jen asked skeptically.
"Um, well, safe sex only. Unless you go with the guy to get tested and make sure that he's 100% clean, then condoms only. Also, I want you to still make time for us."
"Well, duh!" Jen replied with a smile. "Anything else?"
"Yes," I continued. "I want you to keep me in the know. Again, you don't have to ask permission. I just want you tell me what you're up to, like you would a best friend. Details and all."
"Are you sure about all this?" Jen asked.
"I think so," I replied truthfully.
"Okay. Well, I'll think about it." Jen said with a smile that told me that she'd already decided.
Jen and I had crazy hot sex that night! There was no talk of other guys though. No talk of cuckolding. But, I knew it was on both of our minds!
That next week, Jen started seeing Ben in his dorm room and the two of them started having sex! Although Jen had to convince Ben that I wouldn't freak out if I found out. Jen said that Ben is a little afraid of me, but evidently he also likes me and doesn't want to disrespect me.
The two of them had sex five times already! The funny thing is that there really aren't much details. Not because Jen is being secretive. She just says that Ben is okay at sex, but not great. So it's just very vanilla kind of stuff and there isn't really much to talk about.
This is how Jen explained it: "It was actually just sort of natural for Ben and I to start fucking once I knew it was okay with you. Studying together alone in his room, the pressure of school, the two of us being attracted to each other. It's just what happened naturally. It helps us to de-stress from all the studying. Plus, I wanted to pay Ben back for helping me with school. Basically, we make out, we take our clothes off, we feel on each other, and we fuck. That's really all there is to it. It's fun and I get off. But, I get off way better when I'm with you. If I was only fucking Ben and no one else, I'd be going crazy. But, I get to fuck you whenever I want, so it's no big deal for me to also fuck Ben on the side. It's fun having the freedom to fuck whoever I want on the side, even if right now there isn't anyone else on the side other than Ben. Thank you, Michael!"
Anyhow, it's exam week now. When the week ends, so does the semester. Jen is with Ben as I type. I'll pick her up when she texts me. This is more like hotwifing than cuckolding, but it's still crazy hot! Whenever Jen and I have sex lately, I get to imagine her with Ben and I know that it's not just my imagination, that she really is fucking him on the side! Jen and I don't talk about it much when we're having sex. Just a few moments of dirty talk that's mostly silly. For example, last night:
"Tell me about Ben's penis," I said as I was inside of Jen.
"Well, it's smaller than yours, but it still feels alright."
"Looking forward to fucking him next semester?" I asked as I slowly thrust in and out of Jen.
"I'm looking forward to fucking whoever I want!" Jen replied with a grin. "That includes you. Especially you!"
So, yeah, definitely more of a hotwifing thing than a cuckolding thing that's going on right now. But, I'll take it! It's pretty fucking sweet!